Many women get married, in order to take better care of the family, take care of the children, and then quit their jobs and devote themselves to the family.
Every day is like a top, from the moment you open your eyes, you are very busy. Running around school, market and home every day, living a three-point life, doing repetitive and monotonous things.
Every day, the affairs of the family are taken care of neatly, watching her husband come home from hard work, eating the meals he made by himself, watching the children bouncing around and playing happily, feeling that their busyness is still valuable.
Sometimes when a person is at home, the feeling of dazedness and loneliness will always arise spontaneously, especially when there is no living expenses, or when you want to make a phone call to find someone to chat, but find that you have almost no friends except your family, your heart is very lonely. I believe that women who are also housewives feel the same way.
Times are changing and society is progressing. There are also many women who are no longer willing to be a housewife. The kind of days of reaching out for money, bargaining for vegetables, and buying clothes to compare the three families really makes women live more and more humble, and married life does not feel much comfortable because of this, but more and more contradictions and quarrels, and even divorce.
A good friend of mine, Peach, is in this situation. She said she couldn't go on like this anymore, and she decided to find something for herself to do, and decided to find herself again. So, under the introduction of a friend, she began to sign up to learn flower arrangement.
In the process of practicing flower arrangement, Peach found that she was more talented in flower arrangement, and the flower arrangement technique was always ingenious and pleasing to the eye, and was recognized and praised by teachers and classmates.
Due to her outstanding performance, Peach was invited to the class to work as a florist. After having a hobby that she likes from the bottom of her heart, Peach's daily spirit becomes very happy. Life also seems to be injected with new vitality, and the self-confidence that has been hidden in the body for a long time is re-stimulated.
There is also a bao mom friend Xiaofang, who also gave up her job, all the expenses of the family are earned by her husband alone, it is very hard, the whole quality of life has become lower, she wants to contribute but can not do anything. Later, I saw many people say that they can also earn income by writing, writing novels, and publishing articles. So she signed up for a writing training class, and through learning and continuous improvement, she also found a way to realize her self-worth.
In ordinary life, women have a hobby of their own, meditate and precipitate, they will live a tasteful life, and live out their own wonderful.
A woman who is financially independent, knows how to live, constantly learns to improve herself, and strives to live the way she wants, will surely bloom the charm of life! Live glamorously!
I hope that in 2022, every woman on the road to self-transformation can succeed, make money, take care of her home, live a colorful life, and have unlimited charm in life.