21 January at 20:00 p.m
Bi Shumin, a national first-class writer and attending physician of internal medicine
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Near the end of the year, the epidemic is everywhere.
These days, the circle of friends is brushing a screen "middle-aged man in beijing flow tone", and his flow tone makes people instantly break defenses:
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The circulation shows that the 18 days of coming to Beijing, every day is to work in all corners of the city.
It was noticed that many days he worked in the early hours of the morning, until dawn, and then rushed to the next place to continue working.
What did he go through and why did it work so hard?
After reading his story, people can't speak for a long time, this is the most real human world, which is also the epitome of the lives of countless ordinary people under the epidemic.
There is no pure land in the world, and each has its own suffering.
Some people live in tall buildings, some people live in deep ditches.
Today, Ten O'Clock Jun wrote out his story, hoping that more people would get compassion and strength from it.
The protagonist of the story is named Yue Ronggui.
He probably couldn't have imagined that one day his story would focus on so many people.
Yue Ronggui's hometown is in Henan, and the village chief described him as having "relatively average family conditions."
What about a "general" method?
In his hometown, his father was paralyzed in bed, and his mother had recently broken her arm;
The wife and the younger son live in Weihai, Shandong, the younger son is in junior high school, the wife usually takes care of the son, plus part-time work to supplement the family.
Helping people dry kelp can earn 100 yuan a day.
Before his son disappeared, Yue Ronggui worked as a crew member on a fishing boat in Weihai, Shandong, earning 50,000 yuan a year.
Although the days are difficult, the family is safe and sound, the days are shaky, and they can still live.
But God didn't even give this bit of peace, and threw a depth bomb into their already difficult lives—the eldest son was lost.
There was no trace, no news, and the whereabouts of life and death were unknown.
The eldest son dropped out of school when he reached the second year of junior high school, and he had no skills and had to go out to work.
Originally working in a food factory in Weihai, Shandong Province, 50 kilometers from home.
On August 12, 2020, he told the director of the food factory that he had a stomach upset and wanted to go home, and the director of the food factory sent him to the bus station.
He didn't get in the car, and from here he got lost and gone.
When his son was gone, he was still fishing in the sea, and after learning the news, he hurried back to find his son.
He went to the police, and after several tossing and turning, he was fruitless.
At this point, fate seems to want to put a dead knot on the man's path to find a son.
But he did not give up, Weihai can not find it to go to Rongcheng to find, Rongcheng can not find it to go to Beijing to find.
Find the end of the world, as long as the son is still there, we must find him.
In order to find his son, he had already visited many places before coming to Beijing.
Tianjin, Henan Anyang, Hebei Hengshui, Shandong Tai'an, Weihai, Jinan, Rushan, etc., he did not have any clue, he just went to any possible place to find, the result is no news.
Along the way, he slept at the ATM and stayed at the aid station.
When the weather is hot, the mosquitoes outside are big, dark and many, shoot one, and come a few.
When there is no money, I do odd jobs wherever I go, and when I make money, I go to the next place.
My son used to work as a cook in Beijing's East Fifth Ring Road, so he ended up in Beijing.
He didn't know which restaurant his son had worked in, so he used the stupidest method, asking from restaurant to restaurant, and looking for it at one restaurant after another.
Like in the dark of night, looking for a star, he couldn't find any news about his son.
The child's life and death were uncertain, and he even asked about it in the morgue.
At the time of Rongcheng, someone said that there was a corpse in the hospital that may be his son, and he went to see it, and the man was very fat and round-faced.
The son was very thin and had a long face, and he felt that this man was not his own son.
After coming to Beijing, he worked odd jobs while looking for his son.
The jobs received were to carry sandbags, move cement, and carry construction waste.
Because the engineering vehicles are restricted from passing during the day, they generally start working in the early morning and finish at dawn.
After dawn, I slept for four or five hours and went somewhere else in the afternoon to continue working.
During the break, Yue Ronggui will return to the rental house in Shijiazhuang, 700 yuan a month, about 10 square meters.
And here, there are many construction garbage porters like Yue Ronggui, who "go out in the early morning and go home at dawn".
The joys and sorrows of this world are not connected, although they live in the same human world,
Some people are in the high-rise buildings, and some people are running in the cold wind of the broken walls.
Yue Ronggui's 2021 was cut into pieces.
From spring to September, he worked odd jobs in Beijing;
After Weihai was able to go to sea, he worked in Weihai for two months;
On November 19, he came to Beijing again, but 15 days later, his mother broke his arm in his hometown, and his father was paralyzed and left unattended, so he returned to his hometown to serve for half a month.
After that, he returned to Beijing and stayed for more than 40 days.
Seeing that the lunar new year has arrived again, looking back at this year, I have worked for a year, my son has not been found, and the epidemic is also tense, so I bought a ticket home.
Before the car could start, he was stopped.
Now, the family can't go back for the time being, the money can't be earned, and I can't continue to look for my son.
Parents' monthly medicine and living expenses are 2,000 yuan;
The wife's income is unstable, and the younger son needs money to go to school;
As the only source of income for a family of six, I don't know where my life should go next.
His year-long body finally took a breather, on the grounds that he had covid-19.
The roof leaked during the overnight rain, the ship was late and the head wind was blowing, and the bad luck was specially picked by the bitter people.
His story has aroused the attention and sympathy of the whole network, but he said:
"I don't feel sorry for myself either. I just work hard, I don't steal or rob, rely on my own strength, rely on my own hands, earn some money, earn money to find children. It's for life, for taking care of this home. ”
If God has eyes, please give the family some hope.
Why want to write about middle-aged men in this genre?
No matter how difficult the fate was, he faced it calmly.
Do not grieve for suffering, do not grieve over fate.
Fate sent down any suffering, he did not complain, did not pity himself, suffered in silence, and tried his best to lift.
As long as the money earned by one's own hands is not humble;
As long as it is still the hope of the family, his existence has value;
As Camus wrote in his essay collection Solitude and Unity:
"He is one of all beings, and he tries to be as human as he can in all beings."
Despite his fate, he is still admirable.
Next, he will treat the disease well; after the treatment, he will have to support a family and try to get his son back.
"I work harder, even if I put my life inside, I have to get my child back."
His son was 19 when he disappeared and is 21 years old this year.
He wants to get his son back, no matter what the cost.
"Yue Yuetong, your father is looking for you, if you see this news, hurry home!"
Click "watching", hoping that this father will find his son as soon as possible and reunite the family;
I also hope that everyone who is in the cold winter of fate can wait until dawn to come to the warm blossoms of spring.
The author | Su Shanshu will not be reasonable, but will only tell stories.
The anchor | Xia Meng, warm your bedtime time with my voice.
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