Before there was a very popular TV series "Long Live the Wife", Yan Ni played the role in the play facing the double test of career and family, I believe that many working mothers around often face this kind of choice problem, sometimes really can not do both, sometimes especially hope that they can be able to split the body, can have super energy skills.
Yan Ni is an excellent working mother, in the work of the storm, she adheres to the professional ideal of equality between men and women, hope that she can break out of a career, but the child is facing the key stage of young ascension, the mother fractures at home rest, the father-in-law is not willing to live in the city for a long time, the husband is the company's sales manager, because of the excellent work, is facing the key stage of promotion, it is really a leak in the house, overnight rain, internal and external troubles!
Women are really difficult sometimes, life does not give you the opportunity to choose, directly throw all the problems over, smash you beyond recognition. Yan Ni had no choice but to resign and return to the family, but after her mother recovered her legs and feet, she repeatedly urged her to go out to work quickly, she had a hard time adapting to family life, just rested her feet, and kept looking for a career second spring.
Because of the career fault, the right job is not easy to meet, it is difficult to encounter a relatively suitable job, who knows after entering the job only to find out that it is to let her go out to run business. But she persevered, and she wanted to go out and work and enjoy the passion and value that comes with work.
When moms encounter major setbacks, what do we need to do to maximize our balance?
First, mothers should exercise their strong hearts, no matter what problems they encounter, stable emotions are the needles to solve the problem.
Whether it is a working mother who is in the limelight or an omnipotent full-time mother, when encountering major setbacks, you must have a peaceful heart, not impatient, no matter what kind of life state you are, you must be optimistic and cheerful, just like a song singing: "The darkness will eventually pass, the storm will eventually stop", the cultivation of this mentality stems from reading more, exercising more, precipitating yourself, and achieving yourself.
Second, mothers do not carry everything alone, learn to find foreign aid, seek help, face problems, solve problems, is the magic weapon to win.
Just like when Yan Ni encounters problems, she will consult with her parents and seek help from her father-in-law, which is the right thing to do. Girlfriends also encountered the problem of taking care of children, and after discussing with their mothers, they asked their aunt to help take care of them for a while, which also perfectly solved the thorny problem.
People will encounter different problems at different stages of their lives, and learning to borrow is one of the magic weapons to overcome difficulties.
Third, mothers must learn to choose in life, which is the secret weapon of happiness in life.
Willing to give, there is a sacrifice to get, not everything in life can have the best of both worlds, when encountering contradictions and conflicts, take a priority, do what you think is the most important thing, don't care too much about other people's opinions, because no one can really empathize.
Take care of your child more when he is young, help him grow, and when his feathers are full, mothers can start their own new life.
Family is the greater workplace, mom is a greater job. Returning to the family is not the end of the world, and the housewife is not Sun Dasheng under the Five Finger Mountain, it is also a kind of happiness to accompany the child wholeheartedly and watch him grow up little by little.
Going to the Arctic Circle to see the green aurora is a kind of happiness, watching the rainbow after the rain at the intersection is also a kind of happiness, the world's scenery has its own wonderful, then it is safe.
Whether it is a working mother or a full-time mother, they are engaged in a great career, is what they think is the most important thing at present, there is no good or bad, only suitable or not, since we have chosen to live in the moment, live our own every day!
A mother's bright and knowing smile is the best gift to give to a child!