First, no one can accompany you unconditionally forever, you know, even the shadow will be absent when it rains!
Second, there are many things in life that you don't want to do but can't not do, which is responsibility; there are many things in life that you want to do but can't do, this is fate.
Third, don't care too much about some people, care too much about some things, go with the flow, and face it with the best mentality. There are certain unacceptable parts of everyone's personality, and the same is true of even the most beautiful people. So don't be harsh on others, don't blame yourself.
There are always some things that we do not want to happen, but we must accept; there are always some things that we do not want to know, but we must understand; there are always some people, we cannot do without, but we must learn to let go.
Fifth, do not use your own point of view to forcibly kidnap others morally. The environment in which people grow up is very different, and everyone has their own three views and grievances. It is enough to do three things well in one's life, to know what is right, to do it, but not to force others to do it.
Sixth, we sometimes always take the consequences too seriously, and ultimately for our own sake. It's like failing the exam in elementary school, standing at the door and not daring to knock on the door. In fact, on the other side of the door is a steaming meal and a sentence from my mother: It doesn't matter, it's good to work hard. Looking back, most of the things that once made it difficult for me to sleep and eat were lost to imagination.
Don't regret anything, because it was once what you wanted. Regret is useless, either forget or work hard.
Eighth, when you grow up, you are no longer impulsive and angry, and most of them are not really worn out of their temper and personality. Instead, I understand that in this world, if someone pretends to be someone in the face, someone lies, someone pierces it. So learned to shoot slowly and look at it coldly.
Nine, people always after encountering a heavy blow, will suddenly wake up, re-understand their own strength and forbearance, so no matter what tribulations you are encountering, do not blindly complain that the heavens are unfair, or even from then on. There is no obstacle in life that cannot be passed, only people who cannot pass.
When we are just cats, remember that our goal is to become a tiger; when we become a tiger, don't forget that we were once a cat. The mentality should be high, the posture should be low, do not look down on others, and do not overestimate yourself.
Eleven, to be a person, to have: one-year-old innocence, ten-year-old simplicity, twenty-year-old passion, thirty-year-old motivation, forty-year-old maturity, fifty-year-old experience, sixty-year-old experience, seventy-year-old eyesight, eighty-year-old wisdom, ninety-year-old bosom, one-hundred-year-old realm.
Whoever you meet is the person you should meet; whatever happens is what should happen. Everything is not a coincidence, everything has a cause and effect. Enjoy what has already happened, be kind to the present, believe in the future, and be happy with yourself.
Thirteen, irritable people are very sensitive, sensitive people are very strong, strong people are very stubborn, stubborn people are simple, simple people are naïve, naïve people are very lack of heart and eyes.
When you are in a high position, all you see is flashy spring dreams; when you are in a humble place, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world. There are all kinds of changes in the world, each with its own difficulties, and everyone only sees the world in their own eyes, and cannot see the whole picture. --Yang Dai
Fifteen, only when you are down, you understand, how few people are willing to pull you. Only when you are the poorest can you understand, even the best feelings are difficult to fight reality, people are not greedy for money but are afraid of suffering. Only in a long life can you understand, romance is easy to endure, everyone can love you but few people are willing to endure you.
Sixteen, people who really care about you are picky when there is nothing to do, and they hold your hand when there is something to say. Supervise you through good times, support you through adversity, and life is enough.
Sand is waste, cement is waste, but they are mixed together as concrete, which is fine; rice is fine, gasoline is also fine, but they are mixed together is waste. It doesn't matter whether it's fine or waste, it's important who you mix with!
Eighteen, what cannot be reached is always the most beautiful; the wind that cannot be grasped is always the fastest; the person who cannot get it is always the best. In fact, no matter how beautiful the scenery is not in front of you, it is also in vain; no matter how deep the feelings do not belong to you, they are also empty talk. Those who go far do not have to chase, and they must have dignity as human beings; there is no need to regret the feelings of separation, and there must be a bottom line for the feelings.
In life, there will always be people who talk to you, and there will always be people who point fingers at you. Learn not to care, restrain yourself, do what you should do, take the road you should take, keep kind, be sincere, be tolerant of others, strictly discipline yourself, and everything else is just fine!
Twenty, where in this world there is absolute love and hate, give up and get, like together, do not like to separate, life is too short, no one should delay.
Some people, walking and walking, have entered their hearts, just like old friends; some people, walking and walking, fade out of sight and are difficult to communicate; some feelings, in the years, slowly dissolve and no longer be unforgettable; some people, in the intersection, slowly move away, as if there is no trace; some things, in time, slowly calm, and no longer move their hearts.