If you have a shoulder, you have to pick up a burden, which is what my old father said when I was very young. Because rice and wheat are grown in my hometown, the understanding when I was young was that I had to take a flat burden to help when I was working on the farm. Gradually entering the society, I understood the deep meaning of this sentence is to be responsible for being a person.
Every summer, I was put in charge of the family's grocery shopping and cooking, which was often extremely incomprehensible. Because other children are grandparents, parents have prepared meals and shouted home to eat. I didn't have the time to sleep, and after I finished my homework in the morning, I was about to start buying vegetables and choosing vegetables, and my parents could eat when they got home from work. Only once I asked a good classmate to come to his cousin's house as a relative, and our two families were very close to each other, so I played a little forgetful. When I arrived at the meal point, the water was still water, the rice was still rice, because my negligent parents were not able to eat on time, and chose the fastest way to cook noodles to cope with it. That night, the mother came back from work, without reproach, and said in a serious tone that a family can go up, and it is all the family members who play different roles. Different identities and responsibilities are different, but as a child in the family, it is both a hope and a part of the labor. It is the responsibility of parents to give you the best education and care within your ability, and all you have to do is study hard, change your current situation, and help your parents share some of the housework when you can.
I am very grateful for my experience when I was young, so that I would not be hungry when I was wandering outside. Changing the sheets is not like a roommate, a phone call for the mother who is 200 kilometers away to take care of it. I also know when to buy something cheaper, and I also have the cooking skills to take a shot. When people reach middle age, there are really not many people who can be relied on, and their parents are slowly getting old. Over time, we swapped roles with them, from what they told us to do, but now it's up to us to teach them how to take the subway and how to shop online with their smartphones. There is always a cartoon flashing in my mind, a young mother holding a toddler, and a picture flashing of a middle-aged woman holding a crutch. This scene responds to the slogan that you grew up with me, and I accompany you to grow old.
Now the pressure of life and competition are very large, and it has to be said that Luo Yonghao repaid 600 million yuan of debt in three years. Live streaming with goods, wedding and funeral hosting, game endorsements, what money to do quickly. Many people say that he has lost his former aura and bowed his head to life, but I have seen his different side, the strength of a middle-aged man and the determination to stick to his responsibilities. He can be like everyone else, running a bad business and running away with the investors' money. Of course, this practice is not advocated, but there are not a few people who do it. Faced with huge debts, he chose to stay and lay down his body to start from scratch. Such a persistent person, God has no reason not to let him succeed. I admire his sense of responsibility and spirit of keeping the covenant.
A person who lacks a sense of responsibility, or an irresponsible person, will not only lose the basic recognition of society and the trust and respect of others, but also often achieve nothing at work. Man can not be great, he can not be rich, but he cannot be without a sense of responsibility. Sticking to a responsibility is to adhere to the pursuit and belief of life, is to enjoy the joy of work and the happiness of life. Responsibility is a kind of constraint between us and the living, a kind of strength, a kind of basic enjoyment of a stable and harmonious society, we live and work every day there is a certain responsibility, everyone will have a certain responsibility for their own family and friends, responsibility is a person's outlook on life, values and world view of the embodiment, is a person's attitude towards life and life environment.
Maybe taking responsibility will take a lot of time and effort, and maybe the road behind taking responsibility can't be seen at a glance. But the courage to take responsibility, the courage to take responsibility has been a successful first step. Mr. Liang Qichao, a famous educator, once said: Only by knowing the suffering of responsibility in life can we know the joy of fulfilling responsibility. If you are bitter and willing, you will be good without living up to your life.