Text/Moran
In this world, we will meet all kinds of people, each of whom is different, has their own characteristics and personality.
Different people create different lives. And people who really have a good life are not perfect people, but people who can truly recognize themselves and accept themselves.
We pursue a lifetime, in fact, we are looking for a better self, but there is no gold, no one is perfect.
No one is perfect, people will have shortcomings, there are shortcomings and nothing, it is important that we recognize our own shortcomings, so as to change.
When you become a better version of yourself, your life will get better and better.
Know yourself as you really are
A person, the most important thing is to recognize themselves, see their true appearance, in order to see their own shortcomings and shortcomings, in order to have the opportunity to improve.
If a person cannot truly recognize himself, he will never be able to find his own problems, so he will live in the world he thinks he will not make progress.
Each of us will have shortcomings, which are normal things, shortcomings can not be avoided, but we can improve.
When you are really aware of your problems, you know what to do, how to make up for deficiencies, and minimize unnecessary problems.
Many people always look for problems in others and ignore themselves, so that such people will never be able to progress. A person's change begins with meeting himself.
When you can examine yourself well and realize your problems, you will make new changes, so that you will be aware of your problems and will not make useless preparations.
Accept your true self
Whenever a person has the right understanding, it is the first step to success.
A person will only make a change if he is aware of his own shortcomings and problems. When you can clearly recognize yourself and thus be able to accept yourself, it is a new beginning.
Only by accepting themselves can people make better changes. Accepting one's own shortcomings, accepting one's own mediocrity, finding problems, and facing them calmly is the attitude that a person should have.
No matter what you look like, whether it is a highlight or a lonely and helpless person, only by daring to accept yourself can you control everything.
Only by accepting our true selves can we truly realize our problems. Only by facing up to their mistakes and deficiencies can we find a new way out.
If one lives in a world of hypocrisy all the time, one will remain stagnant and unable to recognize what it really is. Therefore, only by accepting yourself can you recognize yourself.
Change your own shortcomings
The reason why many of us have been staying where we are is not that they do not want to change, but that they are not aware of their problems.
If a person has recognized himself and accepted himself, he will think of changing and becoming a better self.
Many times, we always want to change others, but we ignore ourselves. Only by trying to start from oneself will there be a new breakthrough.
It is better to change others than to change yourself and put the choice in your own hands, which will be more motivated. We can't ask others, we can only change ourselves.
Really smart people, they never want to change other people's minds and lives in the past, but to change themselves.
Although this process will be very painful, the first step is a good start, and a good life also begins with changing yourself and perfecting yourself.
summary:
All our lives, we actually want to get rid of the expectations of others and live the way we want to be.
Only when you live yourself can you control your destiny and choose the life you want.
No matter what the outside world looks like, all you have to do is recognize yourself, accept yourself, change yourself, and live your best self.