"People, don't lose your hair." Cao Demei watched her son start pulling his hair down hard again, and hurriedly stopped it. Minmin's hand was grabbed by his mother and could not move, so he began to cry loudly, and he couldn't stop coaxing, and finally Cao Demei could only let go of Minmin's hand. The people stopped crying at once, he couldn't care less about wiping the tear marks on his face, he began to brush his hair again, after a handful of them came down, he showed it to Cao Demei like a treasure, and saw Cao Demei nodding, he went to the side happily to play, and at this moment Cao Demei could no longer hold back the tears. The picture shows Cao Demei feeding the people to drink water.
Cao Demei is from a small mountain village in Zhaotong, Yunnan Province, and her family has been living on agriculture for generations. Cao Demei has two sons, the eldest son was diagnosed with heart disease shortly after giving birth, and it took a lot of trouble to undergo surgery. In 2015, when Cao Demei gave birth to his son Li Zhimin, he thought that the second son would be healthy and healthy, but he did not expect that the happiness of the arrival of a new life lasted only 3 months, Cao Demei found that his son's hands and feet were very stiff, and he even bent his legs and bent his arms when he dressed him. However, after going to the hospital for examination, the doctor said that there was nothing wrong with the child, and Cao Demei did not take this matter to heart. The picture shows Cao Demei and his son Minmin.
However, until the age of 2, the people still will not turn over, can not climb, can not speak, and not only his hands and feet are not relieved, but also the symptoms of convulsions, as long as the people are excited, whether it is crying or laughing, there will be twitching of hands and feet, even at night when sleeping will be unconsciously convulsions, whenever the people will sweat all over the body, and frown in their sleep. The picture is for the people.
Cao Demei did not dare to sleep soundly at night, she tied a rope to the hands of the people, as long as he pumped himself, he would wake up immediately, watch his son's hands and feet twitch and quiet down, and then wipe the sweat off his body, every night to toss it several times.
Cao Demei took the people to run all over the large and small hospitals in Zhaotong City, the mother and son were either examined in the hospital every day, or on the way to the hospital for examination, the light road fee and the examination fee consumed the originally poor family, but the people never found out what was wrong, until someone recommended Chengdu Huaxi Hospital with Cao Demei. Although the hospital is thousands of miles away, Cao Demei still resolutely decided to sell everything that could be sold in the family, borrowed money from relatives and friends, and led the people on the road to seek medical treatment. The picture shows Cao Demei.
In the end, Minmin was diagnosed with developmental delay in Chengdu West China Children's Hospital, and the bad premonition became a reality, Cao Demei held Minmin and stood in the corridor of the huge hospital and cried bitterly, she had always hoped to find out what her son's disease was, but when the diagnosis book in black and white was placed in front of her, she could not bear it. "The child is still too young, let's take medicine first." The doctor prescribed a large number of medicines to the people and instructed Cao Demei to let the children insist on eating. The picture shows the people learning to paint.
After returning home, Cao Demei pinned all his hopes on these medicines, because the medicines were very expensive, and they cost thousands of yuan a month, and Cao Demei did not dare to waste anything. She crushed the pills on time every day and fed them to the people with a syringe. Because the medicine people are very resistant to drinking medicine, always screaming and slapping Cao Demei's hand, and he will twitch when he is excited, Cao Demei can only wait for his mood to calm down and then coax him to drink it little by little, each time feeding the medicine has to toss for more than half an hour, making Cao Demei tired and sweaty. The picture shows the people playing.
Kung Fu pays off, after taking medicine for more than a year, the people's condition has made obvious progress, he will not only call his mother, but also learn to walk, although he can only walk a few steps, but also let Cao Demei see the hope of his son's recovery. She has become even more determined to let the people insist on taking medicine, even if every time she buys medicine, she must borrow money from relatives and friends. She fantasized that as long as she insisted on taking medicine, the people could jump around like other children and grow up healthy. But this desire of hers was ruthlessly punctured by the people when they were 5 years old. The picture shows Cao Demei and Minmin.
In May 2020, Minmin suddenly began to have "self-harm" behavior, he always went to brush his hair, each time he had to pull down a handful, and then showed it to Cao Demei, and saw her nod before stopping. The picture shows Cao Demei watching the X-ray of the people.
At first, Cao Demei would scold and stop him, but the intellectually handicapped people could not understand their mother's words at all, and they still kept their hair. Later, Cao Demei tied his hands, but the people would cry loudly, and they would not stop crying until their voices were dumb, and only when he let him start to brush his hair again would he stop crying. Even when he was sleeping, the people would unconsciously brush their hair, even if they cut it short for him.
"The child should first do rehabilitation treatment so that he can learn to take care of himself, and then slowly treat the disease of hair loss." After listening to the doctor's words, Cao Demei took the people through the hospitalization procedures and began to do rehabilitation treatment in the hospital, but after a month, the people's condition did not improve at all, and the family could no longer support the expensive treatment fees, cao Demei could only take the people back home. The picture shows Cao Demei taking care of the people.
As early as 2019, Cao Demei accidentally fell while riding a bicycle, implanted a steel plate on her shoulder, and her hand also left sequelae, which hurt from time to time, so she became quite laborious to take care of the people. Especially when she hugged the people, she had to grit her teeth and hold on, but she did not give up treating the people. After returning home from the hospital, she has been asking around where there is a cheaper rehabilitation treatment, she heard that there is a massage hall in the town that helps the people to twitch their hands and feet, and she takes the people to go to the massage every morning and return home late. I heard that the doctor where she knew acupuncture, which was helpful for treatment and could not speak, so she took the people to do acupuncture.
However, such a treatment of the east hammer and the west stick did not play any role in the people, he still often brushed his hair, and his hands and feet still twitched often. At the beginning of 2021, Cao Demei learned that Zhaotong has a rehabilitation hospital with policy subsidies that can reduce some fees, which she feels is an opportunity, because her husband still has to farm to maintain the family's livelihood, Cao Demei came to the hospital alone with the people. The picture shows Cao Demei wearing shoes for her son.
"This child still has old hair, how painful it is to come down so short." Listening to the discussion of the people around her, Cao Demei smiled bitterly, of course, she knew how much xue's hair hurt, before she tried to put a pinch of her own hair down in order to appreciate the strength of her son, the pain made her tears flow down instantly. But she couldn't stop minmin from pulling his hair, otherwise he would be emotional, and the doctor also said that crying often would cause damage to the nerves, so she didn't dare to stop it, and could only watch her son pull his scalp red.
Fortunately, the rehabilitation treatment in the hospital has made some improvement in the people's condition, and his cognition has made great progress, he can understand some words, and he can also say some simple words under the guidance of doctors. Although this kind of progress is very small in the eyes of others, it is what Cao Demei has been looking forward to for more than 4 years. For more than a thousand nights, she was tormented and silently praying. The picture shows Cao Demei feeding the people to eat.
Cao Demei was ecstatic about the good transfer of the people, and also made her realize that professional rehabilitation training is the most effective for the people's condition, and she made up her mind that whether she had to recover for 3 or 5 years, she must persist. But this determination is vulnerable in the face of reality, 6 years ago the eldest son had a heart surgery, when he had emptied all the family funds, coupled with the people's years of tossing and turning treatment, the family has long been saddled with heavy debts, relying on the husband's meager income from farming is really unsustainable. The picture is for the people.
Over the years, the people have been treating, and Cao Demei has been borrowing money, but some time ago, many relatives and friends have been borrowed and afraid to answer her phone again. However, Cao Demei really couldn't think of any other way to make the people's rehabilitation treatment stick to it, this road was too difficult to walk, Cao Demei didn't know how he could stick to it. Cao Demei looked at her son, both worried and helpless. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated! #Photography Headlines ##图片故事 #