In the old age of life, enjoying a happy life of retirement is what every elderly person pursues and yearns for. For the elderly with relatively good economic conditions, finding a nanny to take care of their old age is also a good choice. It's just that the nanny market is also a mixed bag, and it's not easy to find a really good nanny. If you are not careful, you will be calculated by the nanny. Today, let's walk into Aunt Gu's life and listen to her voice.
My name is Gu Xiaomei, 67 years old this year, before retirement was a nurse, my wife is one year older than me, before working in a financial institution, we only have one son, after my wife and I retired, we have been helping my son with grandchildren, until the grandson went to primary school, our task was finally completed, I thought that I could enjoy a happy life in my old age with my wife.
So I returned to my home with good wishes and longings, and I began to discuss with my wife to hire a nanny so that I could live a little easier.
My personality has always been very cheerful and lively, since I was a child, I like to sing and dance, I have a lot of artistic cells, I was the backbone of the class when I was studying, and I often participated in various activities on campus. After joining the work, every year the unit organizes networking activities, I am always the pillar of the program, every time as long as a debut, the whole audience is a lightning thunderous applause.
Wife is a very enterprising man, when he was young, he was single-mindedly devoted to his career, often busy, he was basically not very concerned about family affairs at that time, and he did not care enough about me, and now that he is retired, his grandson has also taken care of him, and he can use actions to make up for the regrets of that year. But I didn't expect that he was easy to change his nature and difficult to move.
His wife originally did not agree to find a nanny, saying that he did not need to be taken care of by others, and did not like multiple strangers in the family. But in the end, I still couldn't stand my soft and hard bubbles, and only acquiesced.
So I immediately took action and quickly found a nanny at the housekeeping company, this nanny is 55 years old, divorced for many years, living alone. Seeing the trinity of people, the babysitter looked quite clean and neat, and I caught the babysitter at a glance.
I found a good babysitter, and I wondered how happy I was. Thinking that I have a nanny at home anyway, I can do what I like. So I went to participate in the activities of the elderly group every day, and I was really busy.
The nanny hired is surnamed Zhang, and her cooking is particularly delicious, which is very suitable for our stomach. Xiao Zhang is also very diligent, cleaning up inside and out every day, I am very satisfied.
Usually, because I am busy participating in various activities, I leave early and return late every day, except for eating at home, the rest of the time is almost always there.
The nanny is every morning to come home after cleaning up in the evening, she is done with the hygiene of the meal, so she often chats with her wife, and after learning about the life of the nanny from the chat, the wife is also deeply sympathetic.
A rural woman, although she has no culture, but she raised her son into a family alone, came to the city to help with her grandchildren, but was rejected by her daughter-in-law and had to come out as a nanny to support herself. What a pain!
Just like this every day of chatting, the wife and the nanny slowly became acquainted, both of them felt very close, there was always no end to the words, and over time, the two sides developed a good feeling.
My wife thinks about the first half of her life and knows that a person is busy and busy, and at that time there was no time to take care of my feelings, and now I want to live a good life in the world of two people, but I am out all day to participate in various social activities, and the more I think about it, the less it is a taste.
Just a few days ago, my wife had a serious cold, I didn't care to ask him, it was the nanny who took tea and poured water to take care of him, and his cold was better.
After this cold, the wife was full of gratitude to the nanny, full of goodness of the nanny, and since then, the relationship between the two has undergone subtle changes, and unconsciously they have liked each other.
It is said that women's intuition is the most sensitive, I can vaguely feel the ambiguity between them in my heart, and I have doubts about them, every time I go a little late, my wife always asks why I don't go yet, but I think about it, my wife is also a cultured person, he can't like a woman from the countryside.
It wasn't until I came home once and saw my wife and nanny making love.
I was indignant, crying, making trouble and hanging myself three times could not change my wife's decision to divorce, no matter how hard I begged, my wife was determined to be with the nanny.
I asked my wife aloud why I was fascinated by a babysitter, and my wife actually confided in her words that had been held back for a long time:
Do you only know how to go out and participate in club activities all day and consider my feelings? Have you asked me about a meal once? How was today? I'm sick have you ever cared about me? Have you poured me a glass of water?
Now that I am old, I thought that I could cultivate and cultivate the feelings of husband and wife, make up for the regrets of my youth, run and run together, cook together, talk, go to the park to walk together and play ball together, but you are good, directly ignore my existence, and do not take me seriously at all.
Although the nanny is a rural person and has no job, she will care about me and hurt me, can know the cold and the heat, can understand me and understand me, which is enough for me. That's why I'm getting a divorce!
After listening to my wife's words, I was half dead, and I didn't expect that I was planted in the hands of a nanny. But who is to blame for everything? It was all caused by myself, and it was too late to regret it. I can only sigh...
写在最后：俗话说防人之心不可无！ 这个顾大妈太傻了，真是引狼入室啊。 保姆和男主人，两个孤单寡女经常在一起，不出状况才怪！ 而这一切都是顾大妈自己造成的。 谁让你整天只顾在外参加社团活动，不着家不关心自己的老伴呢？ 少年夫妻老来伴，人老了需要的是陪伴，所以还是好好珍惜身边人吧！ 千万不要等失去了再来后悔！