The road ahead is long, the feelings are not regrettable, may you have the rest of your life as before, and your affection will not be disappointed
Author/Yu Piaoqing Lotus (Henan Yu Xiaohe)
Love is what everyone yearns for, and we always hope to meet the right person in the vast sea of people, and then hold hands and go all the way until the end of life.
But in this rolling red dust, how many people can stick to their original intentions and "hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son" with the person who originally loved each other?
More is the two people who were originally in love walking, the feelings are faded, and the people are scattered.
Only the withered love is buried in the heart, and the person who is still in love is like a silent firework, both desolate and lonely.
——Rain Lotus Inscription
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What is love? Many people spend their lives searching for answers
Tagore said: "The eyes are raining for her, but the heart is carrying an umbrella for her, this is love." ”
What is love? Many people spend their entire lives searching for answers.
When you fall in love with someone, even if you are hot, you are willing to give the only fan in your hand to that person, and your heart is beautiful.
When you are in love with someone, even if you are cold, you are willing to take off your coat to warm that person and say that I am not cold.
When you fall in love with someone, even if it is too late, you are willing to wait for that person to return; even if the lights of the house are extinguished, you are still under the lamp.
When you fall in love with a person, even if there are tears in your eyes, your heart is holding an umbrella for that person; even if your heart is very painful, you still care about that person.
In short, you are reluctant to let your sweetheart suffer from heat and cold, and you are reluctant to let your sweetheart suffer.
You are willing to bear all the pain and tiredness for that person, and you are willing to give everything for that person. Even if one day you are separated, you are still willing to protect that person and hope that person is happy and healthy.
02, meet, there is no mistake, the wrong is that there is no reason; love, there is no mistake, the wrong is the deep love
Asa Zhang Xiaoxian said: "When we meet, we either hate the late, or we hate the early." ”
All the encounters in the world seem to be predestined in the wilderness, otherwise why meet? Perhaps, when you meet someone who moves you, you rejoice.
But then you find out that the person already has a heart. At this time, you find that love also comes first, and you are finally one step too late.
At this time, you will hate that time did not bring you to that person earlier, and hate that you met that person too late.
Perhaps, when you fall in love with someone, you will always feel that the encounter is just in time, feel that there is no step earlier or one step later, you just met the person who made your heart move.
But love can always be satisfactory, otherwise there will not be so many sad people, and there will not be so many regrets.
When one day, your sweetheart drifts away from you, you find that the taste of love is actually sour, sweet and bitter; you find that the original encounter was a disaster, then you will regret meeting that person early.
In fact, no matter when you meet your sweetheart, as long as you can't share the white head. You don't hate late, you hate early. There is no mistake in meeting, what is wrong is that there is no reason and no division; there is no mistake in loving each other, what is wrong is that the love is shallow.
03, later, those happy times have become spikes, stuck in the heart, difficult to remove
Zhang Ailing said: "How much pain a relationship can bring you, it has brought you too much happiness." "On the boardwalk of time, you will always meet a person who makes your heart move.
When you fall in love, you feel that Heaven is so kind to you. You walked together under the moon in front of the flowers, and walked together through the plum snow dance.
All the days are stained with the fragrance of flowers, and all the thoughts are soaked with honey.
You think that you will walk through all the years of life together, and you will walk into each other's hearts together. One day, the man locked the door of his heart, and you were turned away.
You can't believe that person can be so desperate, you can even suspect that that person is joking with you, and when you see you cry, you will open the door of your heart.
But in the end, you find that you can no longer enter the person's heart. You start wandering alone, a person starts to be sad and sad. Over and over again, I remember the beauty of the past, and then I am tormented by reality over and over again.
It turns out that the more you love, the deeper the hurt. Every love will become a knife, invisibly pierced into the heart, making you want to die.
It turns out that how beautiful it was, how cruel the reality was. Every effort will be slapped into pieces by reality, scattered to the ground, as if it were your broken heart.
It turns out that how happy it was once, how painful it was later. Those happy times have turned into spikes, stuck in the heart, and difficult to remove.
04, the road ahead is long, deeply unrepentant, may you have the rest of your life as before, affectionate not to be disappointed
Zhang Ailing said: "Use a turn to leave, use a lifetime to forget." ”
Only when you have loved can you know deeply; only when you have suffered, can you know that you are suffering.
An emotion that cannot be shared is actually like a beautiful dream, and when you wake up, everything is illusory.
When you are still wandering, your sweetheart has long gone; when you are watching at the intersection, you can no longer see the familiar figure; when you stretch out your hands, you can no longer touch the breath of that person.
At this point, you understand that you have finally lost the person you loved with all your strength, and lost the love that you were once proud of.
When you make up your mind to turn around and leave, you are so unwilling, so heartbroken. But you know that no matter how long you wait, that person will never come back.
So, you choose to turn around and leave, choose to spend a lifetime to forget. Forget the joy that love brings you, and forget the pain that parting brings you.
The years are as old as ever, the past goes with the wind, may you be gentle as ever for the rest of your life, and your affection will no longer be in vain!
The road ahead is long, the love is not regrettable, may you be the same for the rest of your life, and your affection will not be disappointed!
Text: Rain Lotus. Another pen name: Rain Drifting Lotus Fragrance Picture Source: Network, Thanks!