Some time ago, a friend came to me to cry, and although this friend was a male friend, he cried in front of me.
This friend told me that I liked a girl very much, but when I confessed, the other party rejected me. So the male friend left the city, deleted all the contact information of the other party, and silently healed his wounds.
My friend told me that I had been pursuing this woman for more than two years, but this man would never tell my male friend about something personal.
The man will only contact the male friend when he needs him. This male friend mistakenly thinks that the other person loves himself very much, and feels that the other party needs himself because of love.
In fact, if a woman has not let you enter her private field within two or three years, just looking for your help, you must know how to stop the loss in time.
In fact, women allow you to enter her three private areas, most of them want to associate with you, even if you do not have the other party you are pursuing, you also have a chance.
01.
Family field
Everyone has their own home, which is very important for us, and some of the suffering we suffer outside can be found in the home.
When you come home, maybe the people in the family don't say too much to you, but the moment you see the people in the family, you will feel warm, and you feel that the grievances you have suffered outside do not matter, because the inside of the home is so happy.
Some people in the family are also more important women, and if you bring a man into your home, you are also telling the people in the family that you have identified yourself with this man.
So if a woman hasn't agreed to be with you yet, or if the woman is vague, but the woman exposes you to some things in the family, then at this time, the man should have the confidence to get the woman.
If two people are together, women are also more concerned about some things, under normal circumstances, many women will not easily take this man to their home, it is impossible to share some things in the family with this man, and it is impossible to let the parents in the family see this man.
Although some women live alone in a room, it is impossible to bring this man home, because this room belongs to the woman's private space, and women also have to protect themselves, so it is inconvenient to let this man come to the house.
But if the woman still brings the man home, it means that the woman has taken the man as an object that can be entrusted for life, which contains the woman's expectation and trust in this man, so men must not live up to such a woman.
At this point, boys can also think in a different position, if a woman goes to your home and goes to your home as a lover, then before this, you must have considered it, letting this woman come to your home, but also showing the woman's status in your mind.
02.
Areas of future planning
Everyone's future planning is hidden in everyone's mind, many people will not tell these to others, even if you have a lot of close friends, but when you have some plans, you always give this friend a rough idea, you will never dig your heart to say to each other.
The reason why you dare not tell the other party is because you are afraid that the other party will laugh at you, and you are afraid that your dream is too grand, so the other party feels that your dream is not realistic.
On the other hand, you will also feel that if you have this future plan, if some people around you know it, then the people around you will follow you, so the people around you will surpass you, in fact, you also have this mind.
Also, when you have these plans, you need to do it slowly, when you tell others, others will disturb you, this time will make your mood become not so stable.
If a woman tells a man all this and allows the man to enter the field of her future planning, it means that the woman hopes that the man can plan the future with herself and be able to go on.
Just like some women have been talking for a long time when they are in love, but women do their own things and never tell this man, on the surface it seems that this woman is very sensible and will not cause trouble for men.
In fact, one of the things that this man does not understand is that what women think in their hearts is to do whatever they want, everything about men has nothing to do with themselves, everything about themselves has nothing to do with men, and men don't care about anything. Some of the future plans for two people, women also do not consider in their own scope, so women will not tell these to men.
On the contrary, if you tell the man, you are determined to live with this person.
03.
Confidant Friend Field
If a woman takes this man to see her close friend, it means that the woman has already thought about associating with this man.
A woman's side will always have some close friends, these women will always talk with these close friends, these close friends, most of them are some little sisters, because women will always encounter something in life.
And a habit of women is to like to say a lot of words, when they want to find a person to talk to, it is likely to find these close friends, because these people are women especially trust people, sometimes even with the people in the family,
So if a woman takes you to meet these friends, then you have to behave well in front of these friends, because if you don't behave well, these friends will definitely give advice to your girlfriend, or your future girlfriend.
And there are some people who will say bad things about you, which is particularly detrimental to you, because a woman's woman, these close friends are very important.
When you go to see each other, you also have to make a preparation in advance, you don't think that these people are not as important as each other's parents, so you can meet casually, in fact, sometimes these people are as important as the people in the family for a girl.
If a woman allows a man to enter these three private areas of her own, it means that the woman has already thought about being with this man.
So if the woman has not agreed to be with this man now, the man must not give up, if you give up, then it is a pity for you, maybe you insist on it, you two are really together.
There are some women who are also more intelligent, the reason why they take you into these private areas of their own is to let you really understand themselves, these women are also more responsible, some people think, although you pursue yourself.
But you don't know yourself very well, and you want to make plans after you know yourself better, which is a manifestation of being responsible for yourself and yourself.
At this point, men should also be clear about the woman's good intentions, and do not live up to this woman's heart for you.