The years urge people to grow old, and what is not old is family affection. No matter where we are or where we are, our loved ones will always be our most solid spiritual pillar. But no matter what kind of feelings, they need to be managed and maintained for a long time, and the same is true of family affection, thirteen years ago in Beijing, there was a huge extermination case caused by family conflicts.
The murderer of the door-killing case is called Li Lei, and he killed his parents, sister, wife and his two sons, the knife edge outward is common knowledge of everyone, what kind of hatred made him swing the knife at his family? His life experience may tell us some answers.
Childhood in the absence of parents
Li Lei is a Beijing Daxing people, he was born there has not yet developed, in order to maintain his livelihood, his parents have been working outside, he is also a left-behind child, has been growing up with grandparents, all say that the next generation of relatives, grandparents for this only grandson, naturally especially pampered, want to give what, so Li Lei was more naughty when he was a child.
His parents are all looking forward to Jackie Chan, seeing that his grades are not good and disobedient, and coming back is stick education, but the more he beats him, the more rebellious he becomes, and the relationship with his parents is more cold. Perhaps it is the backbone of the eldest son that makes them realize the importance of education and companionship, so after the birth of their daughter, they have been around to teach carefully, and the energy and emotions invested naturally are naturally more than Li Lei.
Two-child or multiple-child families, the most taboo is a bowl of water uneven, even if the parents have a preference in their hearts, it is not appropriate to show too obvious, otherwise it is easy to hurt the child's heart, and such injuries may be difficult to heal with a lifetime, but Li Lei's parents are very prominent, but also for the intensification of future contradictions, buried some factors.
The contradiction of a bowl of water to the end
When he was in junior high school, he was taken to live with his parents, and he felt the difference between himself and his sister more obviously, he seemed to be unable to do anything to get the approval of his parents, although he was under the same roof, he always felt that he was an outsider, nor did he feel the warmth of the family.
In the reproach of his parents, his personality became introverted, and those dissatisfactions and resentments began to ferment in his heart. According to his arrest, when he was 17 years old, he had the idea of killing his father. But at that time, there was still sanity, and after he had the ability to survive, he left home to work alone, except for the New Year's holiday, and rarely went home.
After he became an adult, he crawled and rolled in the society, worked in many industries, beauty salons, finance, restaurants, etc., after accumulating social experience and certain funds, he and people partnered to do business, because of the righteousness of people, the emphasis on etiquette, the career step by step, the wallet is getting more and more drummed, he bought a car, everything on his body is a famous brand, the scenery in the village is unique, his parents are happy, but they still love their sister more.
So for so many years, he did not have a good feeling for this sister, perhaps because his sister had taken away the love of his parents from childhood, so he was very disgusted with women with such a personality as his sister.
His wife is a gentle and outgoing, virtuous and industrious woman, and after marriage, the two have two sons, and Ben is also happy. Not living with her in-laws after marriage is something that many people can't ask for, but Li Lei's wife knows that although Li Lei doesn't like her parents in her mouth, she still hopes to get their love in her heart.
Love can dissolve the barriers
In order to alleviate their years of contradictions, she offered to take her children and parents to live with them, so that they could enjoy the joy of the world. It's just that this family is not suitable for entering a house, can still have clean ears without meeting, get along day and night, and live a day and a dog.
Li Lei has been asking his wife to move back to their own home. But his wife is also a very strong person, and he can't see that he has been wronged, and every three to five years he quarrels with his sister-in-law and mother-in-law, and Li Lei doesn't understand why his wife, who has always been gentle, has become as unreasonable as his sister.
The family lived in such an awkward environment, Li Lei's heart became more and more depressed, and when he heard them quarrel, his brain was buzzing and hurting. And what completely intensified the contradiction was the 6 million yuan of demolition money. The original residence of the Li family was demolished, and it is reasonable to say that everyone has a share, but the parents of the Li family are partial to the younger daughter and feel that the income of the eldest son is high enough, so they do not consider him at all.
However, in Li Lei's heart, this is no longer a problem of money, but the fairness that has been missing. When it comes to money, Li Lei's wife will not give up, the family has not negotiated, quarrel over this matter every day, there are still guns and sticks on the dinner table, Li Lei is tired, and he hopes that they will all disappear, so that the world can be peaceful again.
And this thought grew as wildly as malt, so that he could not help but pick up the butcher knife and cut at his quarreling wife and mother, and after they were killed, he ran to his father's and sister's room and killed them. Thinking that the family was dead and the son was left unattended, he ran to the bedroom and killed the 6-year-old eldest son and the 2-year-old younger son.
Five days later, he was arrested in Sanya. Article 232 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that intentional homicide shall be punishable by death, life imprisonment or fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years; if the circumstances are less serious, he shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years.
Out of despicable motives, he killed 6 relatives who lived day and night, which was of a bad nature, causing serious negative impacts, and social harm was relatively large, and should be sentenced heavily.
In court, Li Lei knew that he might not be able to escape death, and did not struggle, only asking the judge to "die quickly", hoping that everything would end as soon as possible, so that his sins would be buried quickly, and finally he was sentenced to death and deprived of political rights for life. When the real dust settled, he looked fierce.
The injustice of childhood is a thorn in Li's heart, his parents do not love him, no matter when they are willing to accept this son, but can not do a bowl of water duanping, Li Lei's wife also loves him, in order to heal the pain in his heart, willing to endure the noise of the in-laws, but Li Lei himself has been trapped in repressed emotions, did not actively seek a solution, and finally broke out in silence, destroyed his home.
(Involving privacy, the names in this case are pseudonyms, and some of the pictures are from the Internet, which only matches the narrative.) Warm reminder: respect the original, please do not plagiarize the handling and reprint Oh)