Zi Yue: "I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and standing, forty and not confused, fifty and knowing the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and from the heart's desires, not exceeding the rules." ”
In life, each stage has different circumstances and will have different understandings.
Anxiety is an inevitable product of a person's heart at a certain stage, and everyone will be anxious.
When things are not finished, anxiety is felt.
When time becomes uncontrollable, you will also feel inexplicable anxiety.
Anxiety is like a shadow of us, irresistible and difficult to get rid of.
Don't be too pessimistic, just treat it with a normal heart.
Ignorance leads to no anxiety
In childhood, we grew up with the care of our parents and did not have troubles.
Living a carefree life is the happiest time of your life.
Childhood has many wonderful ideas, but also a variety of dreams.
Dreaming of growing up fast, I can do what I like to do like an adult.
But they don't know that there are prerequisites for doing anything, and even adults have to do things they don't want to do for some special reasons.
This is the ignorance of childhood, and it is precisely because of ignorance that in the childhood world, there is no worry, not affected by emotions.
As we get older, we learn new things and explore more mysteries.
The window of the world was opened step by step, and the heart also changed from ignorance to clarity.
The more we understand the world, the more we feel our own smallness and the involuntary suffering.
Subvert the previous cognition in contradictions, and then produce new contradictions, constantly repeating the cycle.
This process is long and painful, and it is the only way for us to grow.
No desire is no anxiety
There is a story on the Internet:
A couple, who gave up their work in the big city and returned to their hometown, used mud to make cement and straw as steel bars, and built an earthen house by hand. When asked why they did this, they said blandly, "It takes 30 years for today's young people to buy their own house in a big city and live the life they want." We only need to spend 20,000 yuan, 2 years to own our own house, the next 28 years can live the life we want. ”
The couple, faced with the fast pace of the big city and the anxiety of not being able to afford a house.
They resolutely chose a free and slow life and built the house of their dreams by themselves.
It's not compromise and escape, it's the beliefs of life they pursue.
Everyone has the right to choose, do everything according to their ability, and don't add unnecessary annoyance to yourself.
Don't be blinded by the world, return to the essence of life, so that you can live more freely.
From anxiety to transcendence
Powerful legends:
Eagles have lived to be forty years old, and their beaks, claws, and feathers have aged. In order not to starve to death, it will fly to the cliff, knock out its beak, pull out its nails, and pull out its feathers, just so that it can grow new beaks, claws, feathers. This act of living to die also makes the eagle the longest-lived bird, living to the age of seventy.
In reality, maybe the eagle will not metamorphose and continue to live a dull life until the end of life.
There will also be eagles who choose to challenge the limits and usher in rebirth after breaking through themselves.
If you don't experience the baptism of the storm, there will be no beautiful rainbow.
Without anxiety, maybe our state will always stay where it is.
Moderate anxiety can give us endless motivation.
Maybe we are born ordinary, but we must also have the spirit of not being willing to be ordinary.
Be brave and choose to live peacefully with anxiety.
Shape yourself better inwards and transcend the heights of life outward.
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