Want a boy to love you so much that you can't help yourself? If you want to get sweet and sweet love, sincerity is the key, but skills are also indispensable, after all, "since ancient routines have won people's hearts"!
Without further ado, immediately open the whole!
1. Emotional stability and happiness
People who are easy to be emotional are people who are easy to be "seen through" and "eat thoroughly", because your joys and sorrows are all written on your face, and others can guess at a glance what the "little nine-nine" in your heart is, so that you are easily "eaten" by others, and your every move will be within the prediction range of the other party.
Your suffering and loss, flammable and explosive temper are very easy to make your aura weak, and will also make you very easy to grasp. On the contrary, if you are moody and emotionally stable, the man needs to spend more energy to carefully figure out your mind, so that he will invest more time and feelings in you and will pay more attention to you.
Emotionally stable women are endearing
So what is emotional stability? Here are a few key points to see which ones you've hit:
- When encountering scumbags, stop losses in time and never drag mud with water.
- Understand your own love needs, but also know your goals, will not start a relationship casually.
- Independent, but relying on men, having their own ideas, not following the crowd.
- Dare to express their feelings and thoughts, and will not blindly compromise and tolerate.
- Strong in heart, will not regard men as their own source of energy, have their own interests and hobbies.
- Having their own career and financial independence, they can either enjoy the beauty of love during the hot love period, or they can turn around and leave when they are betrayed.
- Only establish long-term intimate relationships with people who love and respect themselves, and resolutely say no in the face of PUA.
- Dare to be bold, not only can do things crisply and neatly, but also can be cute and cute, dare to make demands, and will not suffer from gains and losses.
- Know how to love people 7 points, leave 3 points for yourself, will not lose yourself because of love, lose yourself.
- Have their own love principles and bottom lines, such as confessing to the official, cheating will never forgive, making mistakes has a price, etc., when necessary, give up.
Emotional stability is important because emotional stability shows that you are a person with a full heart, your energy is high, you are sure of your life, and you can also hold the field.
You have your own standards of right and wrong, you will not easily mess up, you can occupy a high position in the relationship, have high value.
An emotionally stable woman is also a woman with high emotional intelligence
2. Gentle and coddled can be praised and coaxed
"A spoiled woman is the cutest." This statement is not false.
When many women choose a mate, they hope that their other half can be gentle and considerate, empathetic, and it is best to be funny and humorous, have a sweet mouth, and know how to make people happy.
Think about it in a different way, what man doesn't want to have a gentle and cute "little wife"? The "tigress" is a presence that many men avoid.
If you want a man to hold you in the palm of his hand, it is absolutely the best way to be gentle and spoiled.
Spoiled women are best killed
Women who are good at taking the initiative and being gentle are actually very powerful, they are saying soft words and doing "cruel things" in their feelings, and they usually have a soft mouth and sweet mouth, giving men the ultimate emotional experience:
- When I need help from a man: "Honey, I need your help in this matter, I really can't do it without you." Afterwards, I will know how to express my gratitude: "Honey, fortunately I have you by my side, it is good to meet you." ”
- When men need affirmation: "Honey, I believe you must be fine, you are the man I have a crush on, and I believe that my vision will not be wrong." ”
- When the man did things for her: "Honey, the way you cook for me is handsome, the way you wash the dishes is so fascinating, the way I am sick and you take care of me is so heartwarming, I just feel like the happiest woman in the world." ”
Sweet-mouthed people are very popular everywhere, and partners with "sweet mouths" in their feelings will always make each other feel physically and mentally happy.
Here to tell you a little secret: the correct praise is to "praise him with himself as the center", not superficial praise for his handsomeness, praise him is very powerful, remember not to praise people but to praise his behavior.
Everything you do for me fascinates me
3. Just the right amount of "want to get away with it"
This is the lesson I learned from my cat.
I used to want to hold my cat, so I often went to "hug" it, and after a long time, he saw me and ran.
Later, I changed my strategy, I fed it cat food and snacks every day, and after feeding it, I walked away and never "hugged" it again, just occasionally teasing it. Over time, it would often rub my hands and legs, see me lying on the couch and run to my stomach to step on the milk, and even snuggle on my stomach.
Similarly, in love is the same, even sweet love also needs independent personal space, if you have to be tired and crooked together all the time, it is easy to make people feel suffocated and disgusted.
As soon as the freshness passed, I was eager to break up immediately and find a new love.
With you, I can still be myself
So women still don't get too clingy, in the relationship can not only be sweet or only abuse, why?
Only give sweetness, you are easy to spoil a man, let him think you are very "cheap", you will only feel that he is taken for granted, and he will easily call you to wave away.
Only to abuse, you are easy to scare away a man, let him think you are very "difficult", talk to you about love and experience "nine nine eighty-one difficulties", love in the "bitter and spicy" all tasted again, physical and mental fatigue will also wave away.
Therefore, the sweet and sadistic push and pull is the combination of king fried, and the right "want to catch the old indulgence" is simply addictive!
Dear sisters, have you learned?
Hurry up and use it, the sweet love in 2022 is not yours!