Life is a process of cultivating truth through falsehood.
At a certain age, you will look down on everything. Always learn to press the pause button and return to zero at the right time.
The deceased is like a sif, not giving up day and night. The second half of life has quietly arrived.
The so-called happiness is not to have countless money, but to make money desperately in the first half of life and enjoy happiness in the second half of life.
Therefore, when a person is over fifty, has money and no money, he must be rich and support himself.
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Adjust your mindset and feel the pain and joy of life.
Some people say: "What kind of mentality you use to treat life, life will treat you." ”
I have read a message on the Internet: Li Xiuzhi of Nanhan Village in Guangping County, Hebei Province, has lived for more than a hundred years. In the extended family, there are more than one hundred and sixty people. Others asked her, why is she so long-lived?
Her granddaughter introduced: "The old man has a good mentality, loves to laugh, the old man is also very popular, the neighbors like to stay with the old man, and others respect her very much." ”
A person's mentality is better, and the smile on his face is more. No matter what happens, you will not sigh and let your spirit collapse.
How can a person do everything well in this life?
Reading is very hard, making money is very bitter, illness is very bitter, husband and wife quarrel is very bitter, if you want to complain, you can find a reason to complain every day.
Life is like a room, the scenery in front of the house and behind the house is different, and the things that happen are different. Push open the door, and if something sad happens, you push open the window and look at the distant mountains and the countryside.
Looking at life from different angles, you will find that there is too much beauty in life. Think of the good in everything, and your mentality will naturally be good.
Even if life is bitter, you have to be happy in your suffering.
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Hold hands with your wife along the way and add a little sugar to love.
As the saying goes: "Couples should live like a pair of chopsticks: one is inseparable from anyone; the other is that what is sweet and sour can be tasted together." ”
No matter how capable you are, if you lose your husband and wife feelings, you will be doomed to be lonely and lonely in the second half of your life.
Although, when you are fifty or sixty years old, there is still twilight love, but you must understand that "husband and wife are still the original match". Don't let extramarital love spoil your marriage.
One of my cousins, because the husband and wife quarreled as soon as they met, simply moved out.
Now, my cousin is in his sixties and has moved home voluntarily. Relatives laughed at him and had no backbone.
My cousin confessed that the days when no one quarreled with him were too uncomfortable. The most painful thing is that no one cares about being sick. A few soft words, coaxing the cousin to open her eyes and smile, all the grievances dissipated at that moment.
In the second half of life, we must learn to bow our heads. No matter how strong the lover is, it doesn't matter. When people are old and accompanied, even if it is a rough tea and light meal every day, it is also a happy life.
There is no perfect marriage in the world, you don't have to worry about those who meet and hate each other late, it is really unrealistic. Don't call it "short-lived", but "eternal". Old husbands and wives get along, often add a little "sugar", there will also be a taste of happiness.
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Cherish your body, in time, gracefully grow old.
In the Spring and Autumn Dew, it is written: "The reason why benevolent people have a long life is that there is no greed on the outside and quiet on the inside, the heart is peaceful without losing the middle righteousness, and the beauty of heaven and earth is taken to nourish his body." ”
If a person wants to be in good health, the main thing is to give up greed and make the heart pure. Put the purest things between heaven and earth to maintain the body and maintain health.
Understand that the best things in the world are free.
For example, the air and sunshine, as long as you go into nature, you can enjoy it; the rain and dew and the birds and flowers, you get up early every day, go to the woods to enjoy it; the beautiful song, as long as you open your mouth to sing.
Adjust your eating habits according to your physical condition. Learn to enjoy the life of the moment,
Respect the health principles of "eating eight points full, drinking three points drunk" and so on, do not blindly pursue big eating and drinking, and do not desperately maintain and exercise excessively.
After the age of fifty, give up useless social networking, do not go to eat and drink places, do not blindly exchange your life for money, prefer to retreat to the second line, rather than work overtime every day and stay up late. When encountering a liquor bureau, you must learn to avoid, even if you offend the other party, it does not matter.
If you are in good health, you will be able to live a calm life in the future and enjoy a real retirement life.
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Advocate learning, improve their temperament and awareness of society.
Northern song dynasty
Qian Weiyan, a minister and literary scholar, regarded reading as a lifelong hobby. He said that in his lifetime, he only loved to read, sitting and reading scriptures and history books, and when he fell asleep, he read the works of the Hundred Families of the Pre-Qin Dynasty and various miscellaneous notes, and when he went to the toilet, he read Xiao Ling. Having a book in my hand became a treat.
Ouyang Xiu evaluation
Qian Wei acted-
Ming Bin had been given jane, and the most talented in the kaifu.
A multi-talented person, no matter how old he is, will not be eliminated by society and will not be very boring.
When people are old, they must insist on reading and change their views on the world. When you export the chapter, young people will look at you and gain respect.
Reading is the cheapest way to cultivate yourself, and the more you read, the richer you get.
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Make good use of your time, find the direction of life, and have fun in your old age.
People have a lifetime, people with a long life have more than a hundred years, and ordinary people are decades.
Between the two of them, a lifetime is over.
However, many old people spend their days doing nothing, repeating every day.
An old colleague of mine, after retiring, went to the mahjong hall every day. After leaving the mahjong hall, he didn't know what to do. One day, he sat at the mahjong table for eight or nine hours in a row, and he fainted from exhaustion.
Old colleagues are depressed all day and are about to get sick.
A few days ago, an old colleague said in the circle of friends that he began to learn to fish, as well as raise flowers, and his mental state suddenly improved.
With hobbies, old age will be colorful and time will become meaningful.
An inch of time and an inch of gold, don't waste it.
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Conclusion.
In the Zizhi Tongjian, it is written: "If there is a degree of taking and using it with moderation, it is always sufficient." ”
In this lifetime, if a person takes it in a planned way and consumes it in moderation, he will always be rich.
After the age of fifty, you should let go of the idea of making money fiercely, adjust your life state, and spend every penny in your hand with your heart. Insist on thrift and thrift, although the money in your hand is small, you can make yourself richer.
To enrich yourself is not to spend money lavishly, but to live in another way.
Look down on the past, see through life, live in the present, and be an easy person to satisfy.
With a book in your hand, a companion by your side, joy in your heart, beauty in your eyes, and blessings in your destiny.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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