Tang Yong: During the holidays, what is the best tuition for children

The following article is from: Tang Yong Xiaoyu (gh_3622cf6c3393)

Tang Yong, an advocate and practitioner of simple and happy education, has been engaged in regional education management in Langzhong City, Sichuan Province for more than ten years. He is currently the vice president of the Sichuan Tao Xingzhi Research Association, the chairman of the Rural Education Experiment Professional Committee of the China Tao Xingzhi Research Association, and the vice chairman of the Rural Education Branch of the China Education Association.

The winter vacation has arrived, and the primary and secondary school students have ushered in the moment they are most looking forward to, which makes parents worry: the children are at home on vacation, and they cannot go outside to cram school as usual, they can only "squat at home", let it go, and they don't know how to manage it, will the results of the school year decline?

Instead of being so troubled, it is better to take advantage of the holidays to read with your children.

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Why it's important to read

Nowadays, many parents attach great importance to their children's test scores, and they also pay special attention to their children's tuition. Other children are making up for tuition, their own children must also make up, other children go to a cram school, their own children have to apply for two cram classes. Not going to cram schools, going to a few cram classes, it seems to have become a kind of comparison.

Not to mention this kind of "bad supplement", that kind of repetitive mechanical learning, over-and-over brushing problems, it is easy for children to feel bored and boring, they will gradually lose interest and freshness in learning, and gradually produce boredom and escape behavior.

Not to mention this kind of "indiscriminate supplementation", so that children have no leisure, no leisure, no holidays, so that children lose their childhood. What kind of seeds are sown in childhood determines whether they will blossom one day in the future, and what kind of flowers will bloom. What you owe in childhood, sooner or later you have to pay it back. The shadow cast by a child's childhood will eventually lead to a cup of bitter wine in his adulthood. Using all kinds of tutoring to rob a child's childhood is the bane for his future life.

Just in some tuition institutions "can not let children lose at the starting line", "emotional intelligence to make up for infants and young children" "quantum fluctuation speed reading" "let children only need to turn the book over, 5 minutes can read 100,000 words" of the pseudo-proposition and false propaganda, the steadfastness and piety of "tuition", even if they save money and use, smash the pot and sell iron, but also rush to send their children to various cram classes, so that the tuition institutions earn a lot of money, let themselves earn a few hard money in vain, pay a SUM OF IQ tax, It's really sympathetic.

I think that instead of burning money for children to apply for cram schools, it is better to cultivate children's reading interests and habits at this time, so that children can love reading.

Children have great interest in reading and good reading habits, read a lot of books, widely involved, not only to obtain a wide range of knowledge, but also will broaden their horizons, think actively, and at the same time help children's summary, induction and comprehension ability to improve and cultivate in a subtle way. These are also the qualities that children must have in the face of the future college entrance examination and win the college entrance examination. The so-called reader gets the world and lives.

The most realistic thing is that children have good reading habits, cope with paper and pencil tests, and get a good score, which is even easier, according to Teacher Zhu Yongxin, a child who likes to read will get a satisfactory score, which will be an additional reward. If you think about it, a child can get a score through that kind of endless tuition, that kind of repeated testing, that kind of dead and brute force, and if we let him read fully, learn from all the strengths, learn happily, and learn happily, in such a state he can't improve his grades, it would be very strange.

A child's life is not a 50-meter or 100-meter sprint, but a long marathon. The child's learning is not a day or two, he needs to be gradual and continuous. And children who like to read, his learning has a strong staying power and explosiveness.

If you are too concerned about the child's temporary score gains and losses, if you only use tuition to improve the test score, it is possible that in a short period of time, the score does go up, but the more the child goes to the later, the more he will gradually lose the desire and impulse to learn, and even the later he is, the more likely he is to fall and be difficult to sustain. In contrast, there are children who read a lot from an early age. When they go to primary school, they may have average grades and do not show the dew, but the huge dividends brought by extensive reading often make them show great potential when they go to junior high school, high school and even college.

If you, as a parent, want your child to have strong learning ability and backward force in the future, you must cultivate his reading interest from now on and help him develop good reading habits. A child who does not read is a potential poor student in learning, and the more he makes up for it now, the more he will overdraft his future, even if he scores full marks now, it will be difficult to escape the doom of future students!

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How to make children have good reading habits

First of all, we should build a reading atmosphere in the family. For example, get a bookcase and desk for children, put the books in the children's sight, easy to reach, read anywhere, so that the family has a strong smell of books, so that children have more opportunities to approach books, so as to cultivate emotions and interest in books.

Second, parents should lead by example and set an example. If parents want to cultivate a child who loves to read, they must first love to read. If parents ask their children to read, but they never read books, and play with their mobile phones all day long, it will make children resist reading. Parents plan a small piece of time every day, accompany the child to read, and read with the child, this time can not be long, but it must be, even if it is to do the model, it is a must, this impact on the child is very large.

In addition, parents can guide their children to read. Guidance is not forced, forcing the child to read, forcing the child to read which books, the child has a rebellious psychology, the more you force, the more he is disgusted, the less he will read. As a parent, we should let go of our children's reading as much as possible, as long as it is not a problem book, as long as the child is interested, we should let them read freely and let them swim freely in the sea of books.

Children at his age, should let them read their favorite children's books and picture books, and let children read more casually, not too utilitarian, and do not have to attach any tasks, such as requiring children to make reading notes, must write after reading, must master what knowledge points, these will only make children tired of reading. In fact, as long as the child develops the habit of reading, he will give himself a task, he will read, organize, accumulate at the same time, and will also write.

At the same time, we must give children the opportunity to fully display their reading gains as much as possible. People have a natural nature to express themselves, and children have a stronger desire to do so. Parents can let children say what they read, such as encouraging children to tell the stories in the book to their parents, to relatives and friends, to their friends, to send videos of their children's reading to the circle of friends, and to recognize, appreciate and praise the children's reading achievements, which is conducive to motivating children to continue to read and continue to insist on reading.

Source: Education is a Beautiful Practice

This article is transferred from: Yangtze River Small Classroom (gh_38d7926e9600)

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