Ni Hongjie, who has not been seen for a long time, was interviewed by the media.
And for the first time, he responded to his emotional life.
I thought Ni Hongjie was single and unmarried.
Unexpectedly, as soon as I opened my mouth, I admitted myself:
Divorced, had babies, and had new boyfriends.
According to Ni Hongjie, in the early autumn of 1999, at the age of 21, she and her seven-year-old ex-husband received a license.
At that time, there seemed to be no feeling of "love", but having someone who could make decisions for her was enough to reassure her.
The wedding ceremony is also very simple, in the wedding dress city next to the Suzhou bus station, spent two hundred yuan to buy two sets of wedding dresses.
A set of red and a set of white, after taking photos, you can enter the married life.
After getting married, the husband bought a boat to do business, and at the same time hoped that Ni Hongjie could become a full-time wife and not go out to work again.
But unfortunately, because of poor management, the ship business has become a hole.
In order to plug the hole, the husband pulled the pregnant Ni Hongjie around to borrow money.
Only because the bank clerk said that Ni Hongjie's TV series have been watched and come to lend it to you.
But in the end, Ni Hongjie wore 50 yuan discount pants, and her husband lost more than 10,000 yuan at the poker table in one night.
Bank cards were frozen, houses and cars were frozen, and Ni Hongjie was on the list of the untrustworthy.
At that moment, Ni Hongjie had mixed feelings, and she and her husband had a big fight.
The result of the quarrel is that the husband angrily said that he would divorce if he could not.
Ni Hongjie asked, "Is what you say true?" The husband replied "yes."
Although her husband regretted it after saying it, Ni Hongjie made up her mind.
In order to go through the formalities smoothly, she also lied to her ex-husband:
You pursue me again, and then we'll be together again, but only if you have to divorce me now.
This is the only "lie" that Ni Hongjie has ever said in this marriage.
After the divorce, the son was left to her ex-husband, and Ni Hongjie met her current boyfriend because of the cat.
Although the boyfriend is not rich, the two still live in the small house that Ni Hongjie bought, but "living behind closed doors is also happy and warm." ”
I have to say that Ni Hongjie really dares to say.
Moreover, if it were not for Ni Hongjie's self-exposure, many people's impression of her would still stay in the underwear advertisement and Zhu Wushuang in "The Legend of Wulin".
It was high school, Ni Hongjie accompanied her friends to shoot advertising films, and was discovered by makeup artists:
"This little girl is so spirited."
Since then, Ni Hongjie has filmed the first advertising film in her life and taken 2,000 "huge funds".
It was also this opportunity that two years later, Tingmei underwear came to her.
Although Ni Hongjie grew up under many expectations and rules, her family was also clearly opposed to her doing "drama".
But in order to solve the problem of tuition and livelihood, Ni Hongjie still took over this shaping underwear advertisement.
Because of this advertisement, Ni Hongjie began to become famous, and even called her the "Queen of Underwear" in the circle, and major film and television drama directors threw an olive branch to her.
But in that era, such a large-scale advertisement, many people could not accept, a large number of "right and wrong remarks" also found Ni Hongjie.
Especially once when a family was eating together, Ni Hongjie's advertisement suddenly appeared on TV.
A table of people instantly quieted down and twisted their heads to the side.
This atmosphere made Ni Hongjie feel suffocated, and she also began to feel that "actors are what fools do." ”
But the contract had been signed, and she was comforting herself that she had to get by":
Treat actors as "part-time workers", work a job, earn a share of money.
Including in 2005, when playing Zhu Wushuang in "The Legend of Wulin", Ni Hongjie also took the script every day, drew out her own lines, and memorized them all.
Then one shot, as long as the director doesn't scold, it's over.
Of course, those who were not scolded at that time are now all back.
A search on the Internet revealed that all the news about "Wishing for Peerless Acting Skills" was all negative.
"The actor pushed too hard, and it was really embarrassing to look at";
"The lines are exaggerated and incompatible with other personalities."
But as Ni Hongjie said, because she herself does not deliberately become an actor, her husband also wants her to be a full-time wife.
Therefore, for the comments on the Internet, Ni Hongjie does not care.
Anyway, after making enough money, she went to Sichuan, Yunnan, and Tibet to walk her dog, ride a horse, and roast leg of lamb.
Someone recognized her: "Are you wishing for peerlessness?" She also denied: "No".
In the end, Ni Hongjie simply withdrew from the circle and went to Yunnan to open an inn.
Grow while hanging out.
It wasn't until the marriage broke down, she was saddled with huge debts, and she wanted to come back to filming to make money to pay off debts, that she suddenly found that "she can't do anything but filming."
It was Ni Hongjie's most anxious day, and she felt that her life was in vain.
Fortunately, shang jing, the director of "The Legend of Wulin", pulled her aside and introduced her to the "Blue Bones" crew to play the heroine.
This is probably a turning point in fate, and she is in the trough of her career and has picked up a big pie.
And this cooperation also allowed Ni Hongjie to regain the direction of life and decided to be a good actor and act well.
Even if it is playing a supporting role, playing "Mother".
"In my lifetime, I may have done the actor's business."
So in "Over the Spring", she played a single mother who was addicted to gambling.
In "Skyscraper", playing Yang Ying's mother.
In "Sudden Holiday", kan Qingzi's mother was played.
Some people say that Ni Hongjie is like the 22 in the Pixar movie "Soul":
Trying back and forth through thousands of souls, halfway through life, finally finding your love.
Indeed, the first half of Ni Hongjie's life was really a mess.
Even, many times the choice is not because I really like it, but because of a kind of arrangement for the present.
But fortunately, she was sure in time what she wanted.
Let the second half of life not be chaotic.
"If I hadn't had the experience of fooling around in those years, I wouldn't have had such a deep affection for life, I wouldn't have had such an understanding of the role, and I wouldn't have played someone else's mother."
At the recent premiere of "Love Myth", Ni Hongjie shouted in front of all the audience:
My eldest son, you are the most handsome!
The reason is that after the son lived with her ex-husband, he never let his mother kiss him.
But that day Ni Hongjie put on lipstick and kissed him on the left and right sides of his cheek.
She was pleasantly surprised that it would be a fresh start.
"I feel like I've really become beautiful this year, and the whole person is like I'm on the right track."
Then bless this girl who has found her own new direction and has a better story.
And Ni Hongjie's story also gives us encouragement:
Life will go through a lot, and it's important to find your passion.
Insist, accept, and do a good job in the present.
In this way, even those times that have fallen, lost, and failed miserably will eventually shine in another way.
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Images and sources:
"Ni Hongjie: Divorced, have children, in love", GQ Labs, 2022.01.17
"Ni Hongjie: The Beauty of 40 Years Old, Irreplaceable", Nude, 2022.01.12
"She is the first person in the underwear advertisement, but she plays a mother and daughter with Liu Tao, what happened to her at the age of 43?" , Little Ten Points, 2021.11.15