After getting married for more than half a year, Wenwen's stomach has not moved, and her mother-in-law has seen it in her eyes and is anxious in her heart, and gradually, the neighbors have also begun to talk about it. These discussions made Wenwen very distressed, and she also began to worry, wondering whether she was really a "hen" who would not lay eggs as everyone said.
On this day, after the mother-in-law danced the square dance, she mysteriously pulled Wenwen aside, and she gave Wenwen an idea.
It turned out that the neighbor's daughter-in-law had just announced the good news of pregnancy, and the mother-in-law asked Wenwen to get along with the neighbor's daughter-in-law on weekdays and get a dip in the "pregnant gas" of the family.
"Pregnant, is this reliable?" Wenwen asked with some doubt.
"Of course, in the past, the women in our village were pregnant one by one, because they were pregnant." Looking at her mother-in-law's determined expression, Wenwen can only choose to obey, and runs to the neighbor's house on weekdays, staining the so-called "pregnant qi".
Not long after, Wenwen was really "pregnant". At this point, the mother-in-law's statement of "getting pregnant" is even more convinced.
Indeed, in life, there is also such a phenomenon, several good girlfriends have become pregnant, and everyone stands up with a big belly and a happy face. In a neighborhood, it is also easy to see pregnant women standing up with big bellies and piling up together. So, is the term "pregnant gas" really reliable? Did Wenwen really get pregnant after getting pregnant with the neighbor's "pregnant gas"?
Women "get pregnant together", and these aspects are related, to understand the knowledge of rising
Some women who get pregnant calculate the "timing" and seize the good year
Women get pregnant in groups, sometimes with a certain relationship with a specific year. Some years, such as the "Golden Pig, Golden Monkey" year, are more likely to see women getting pregnant. This is because these years are considered to be good years and have a "good meaning".
In order to be able to give birth to a cute "golden pig, golden monkey" baby, women will deliberately calculate the time to start preparing for pregnancy.
In fact, there is no such thing as a "good year" or "bad year" for pregnancy. No matter what day the child is born, as long as the child is healthy, this day is the "auspicious day" of the family.
Sometimes, choosing to get pregnant and have children in some popular years is not a good thing for children, just imagine, if the number of babies born that year soars, how much competitive pressure will these children encounter in further education?
If you want to get pregnant, it is crucial to have a sense of pregnancy preparation. Wenwen missed many opportunities to conceive because of her lack of awareness of pregnancy. After communicating with the neighbor's daughter-in-law, Wenwen learned that pregnancy also needs to be calculated.
Before that, she had no habit of counting the ovulation period at all, believing that pregnancy only needed to follow fate. From this point of view, Wenwen's "good pregnancy" has nothing to do with the so-called "pregnant qi".
The interaction between good girlfriends
Good girlfriends who often get along, the habits of all aspects will become more and more similar. The similarity of habits such as work and rest, diet, and exercise will make their physical fitness more similar. Sometimes, girlfriends' menstrual periods become surprisingly consistent. These similarities make it easier for good girlfriends to have the same "ovulation period" between them, so as to "get pregnant in a bunch".
If one of them starts trying to conceive, the others will also be affected and join the pregnancy preparation team. Finally, it is easy to appear that the girlfriends are pregnant and pregnant, and this coincidence is actually related to the mutual influence of the girlfriends getting along day and night. In the eyes of the older generation, they have become pregnant one after another because they have the so-called "pregnant gas", which is actually wrong.
Pregnant mothers have narrower social circles
Women who are pregnant have narrowed their social circles due to changes in their bodies. Many pregnant mothers feel less and less intersecting with their former friends after they become pregnant.
Indeed, the physical changes that pregnancy brings to pregnant mothers force them to refuse some social activities.
The girlfriends agreed to go to the movies together, but Wenwen had to refuse their invitation. As her pregnant belly grew larger and larger, her movements began to become somewhat inconvenient.
In addition, the loud volume of the cinema sound may also have a bad impact on the fetus in the abdomen. After that, the girlfriends also invited Wenwen to participate in activities such as shopping and singing K, and Wenwen had to refuse due to pregnancy.
Many pregnant mothers helplessly find that their social circle has narrowed after becoming pregnant, and they do not have much entertainment except for walking in the community.
Therefore, these pregnant mothers are more likely to get together, they have the same "expectant mother" identity, have a similar pregnancy experience, which makes them have more common topics with each other.
In the eyes of the elderly, the women in this community are pregnant one after another because they are stained with "pregnant qi", which is obviously not related to "pregnant qi".
Many women will feel the pressure of "spawning" from all sides after entering marriage. Under pressure, some women are prone to emergency medical treatment. Most of the older generations are poorly educated, and some of their views or practices are unsubstantiated.
Some women listen to rumors in order to get pregnant as soon as possible. They will ask the pregnant mother to borrow an "aunt towel", put the "aunt towel" under their pillow, and sleep on the pillow every day in order to get a good "pregnant gas".
In fact, there is no scientific basis for this practice. If you want to successfully "get pregnant", in addition to maintaining a good attitude, you must also actively learn some knowledge of pregnancy preparation like Wenwen, seize the opportunity to have intercourse, and improve the probability of conception.
Parenting message
Pregnancy is a major event in life for women, and women must not be forced to "promote" pressure or blindly follow the trend to choose pregnancy.
If you are ready to get pregnant, women should be responsible for themselves, actively check their bodies, and do a good job of pregnancy preparation. If you do not plan to have children for the time being, women should actively do contraception in the process of intercourse.
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