Middle-aged men tell you: What is the difference between a first-married woman and a second-married woman?

2022-01-18 09:35:00

"Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished." Many couples do not abandon each other before marriage, but after marriage, they face a lot of realistic things that cause the love between them to fade. Can't stand the shackles of marriage, want to escape, will keep quarreling, keep making divorce, some couples are more rational, can communicate well, problems can also be solved in time; and some couples, one day can not stand each other, and choose freedom, want to choose new people, new feelings, new marriage. But can it really solve the problem?

01, will not completely trust each other

Couples who are married for the second time have experienced failed marriages. Although a new family has been re-established, the failure of the previous marriage will always exist, and many couples who are married for the second time have no emotional basis, and are more together because of the need or want to give their children a decent home. There is no affection for each other, let alone trust.

If you are together purely because you need to be together, you will have a sense of self-protection, and you are not willing to give your heart to others easily, which will lead to the second marriage not being as sweet as the first marriage. There will be some mistrust between the two, but they will not bother anymore, turn a blind eye, and leave the rest to time to slowly eliminate.

Middle-aged men tell you: What is the difference between a first-married woman and a second-married woman?

02, treat the problem more realistically

Marriages without an emotional basis, when dealing with problems, will no longer consider each other's feelings like the first marriage. The feeling of first marriage is that two people live a romantic life together because of love, and occasionally do some romantic actions to mediate life. But the second marriage is different, two people who have experienced a failed marriage, without feelings, because of the need to come together, in the view of the problem will be more mature or more realistic, the first requirement is to consider their own interests. It's not worth it for the accountant to compare it to the other party. The second marriage will be a lot less passion and a lot less happiness, making marriage purely for life.

03, it is difficult to integrate into each other's hearts

The first marriage is because two people love each other to get married, and the second marriage is more to find a suitable marriage, the second marriage of people often can not forget the previous marriage. Her heart has long been scarred, she no longer has any expectations for love, and when you try to enter her heart, she refuses. The only thing that can fit into her heart is probably her predecessor's child. Although the life of the second marriage is together, the heart is not together! Such a marriage, such a family, is a mistake for the children, and for oneself.

It is not to tell everyone not to get married twice, and sometimes in marriage, as long as you give each other a step down, you can meet the problem and sit down to solve it, it will not be so complicated. Don't give yourself the opportunity to get married for the second time, don't divorce as much as possible, cherish your marriage, and don't wait until the second marriage to think about cherishing. Marrying one person from beginning to end is the happiest, thousands are not as good as the first, and the second marriage has selfish intentions.

Original: Mirror line time

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Middle-aged men tell you: What is the difference between a first-married woman and a second-married woman?

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