Idle to read "The Little Window",
Loved one of the quotes:
"Let the people have a good time,
It is better not to make people bored for a long time. ”
A person's real charm,
Not the first meeting,
There is a feeling of seeing each other and hating the night,
But after years of getting along,
Still like to be with you.
Like to get along comfortably,
I also like people who have been bored for a long time.
01
It is easy to make friends at first, and it is not boring to stay for a long time
Between people,
It is easy to make friends at first, and it is not tired of being difficult for a long time,
How much intimacy, eventually drifting away,
More or less at first sight, and finally look at each other with disgust.
In "The Siege",
Fang Hong gradually and gradually with Sun Roujia,
In the beginning, a gentleman, a weak,
Each sees only the good side of each other,
Since they are affectionate and warm, rejoicing and rejoicing.
When you are married, you are together day by day,
Chickens and dogs of life,
Forcing the two to take care of it and not to cover up,
Noisy back and forth, angry, added to the tired.
More than love,
All feelings are like this,
No matter how warm the joy at first sight,
If the three views do not coincide, no one will be willing to accommodate anyone,
After a long time, after all, I can't escape like a strange road.
We will meet a lot of people in this life,
Most of them pass by, and a few of them talk very happily,
Can accompany for many years, still not tired of it,
Even fewer.
As Sanmao said:
"Knowing that zero implementation is the norm of life,
Be able to speak occasionally,
And the heart is still gentle, is a good friend. ”
Man has only reached a certain age,
After experiencing some things, I will understand,
Get along without getting tired, never get tired of being there for a long time
What a rare thing.
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All the things in this world have been tireless for a long time
It's all because of the heart
Two days ago, brushed to a video,
Talk about colleagues who have social self-awareness around you,
Ordered takeaway together, the other party not only transferred the money in time,
Even the delivery fee has also taken the initiative to AA;
When sharing funny pictures on your phone with each other,
Without permission, other pages will not be opened at will;
Borrow something, will consciously return,
and keep in good condition;
……
Although it's all very small things,
But it's really very good,
No crossing the line, no excesses, no perfunctory.
All the things in this world that have been going on for a long time,
It's all because of the heart.
There's a short video.
Tell a little hedgehog coming to a new class,
Because of the thorns in his body, afraid of his classmates being hurt,
I didn't dare to get close to anyone and slowly became very lonely.
Later, everyone wrapped the thorns in a soft little foam,
Gave him the warmest hug.
Each of us is like this hedgehog,
It is not perfect, and it has various shortcomings.
But there are always some people around, even if they see it all,
Still willing to tolerate, understand, and accompany.
Two people can get along for a long time,
Inseparable from the three views of the same, the same frequency,
It doesn't take too many words to read each other,
Because of the heart,
So get along comfortably and never get tired of it for a long time.
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People who have not been tired for a long time must cherish it
The greatest fortune in life,
I have to meet a man who has been bored for a long time,
Knowing each other and cherishing each other, sharing joy and sorrow,
Can share joy and anger, but also can promote success,
Not jealous, not ridiculed.
In front of him,
You can be your truest self.
This person can be a friend,
It can also be relatives and lovers,
If you meet it, you must cherish it.
Lu Sihao wrote a paragraph, deeply thought,
"Where to go, who to meet,
Who to fall in love with, and who to become a confidant,
This kind of thing requires fate.
After meeting, after getting along, they slowly lost contact,
At this time, the fate is probably to see if there is a heart or not. ”
No matter how good the relationship,
If you don't care, slowly you will be strange,
Deepest affection,
If you don't take care of it, it will gradually fade.
The rest of my life is expensive,
Leave time to people who have been bored for a long time.
Like a small poem by Gu Cheng:
The grass is bearing its seeds
The wind is shaking its leaves
We stood and didn't speak
It's beautiful
That kind of quiet and beauty,
It is also the best state between people,
Not tired of being there for a long time, not bored with small talk,
It's comfortable to get along with, and it's warm without words.
The rest of your life is long, may you
Meet a person whose soul can resonate,
There is joy at first, and there is no boredom for a long time.