Recently, the hit drama "Perfect Partner" has been popular on the screen, causing heated discussion.
Netizens have said that they have seen the most real appearance of a woman in life.
In the play, Chen Shan, a strong woman in the legal profession played by Gao Yuanyuan, is burning and sassy, and the big winner of a proper life.
In the workplace where the storm is sudden and the dragons are fighting, she has no fear, no fear, full of courage and ease.
As the saying goes:
"A successful life is never a one-man struggle."
Every woman with a calm step and a firm gaze, there must be someone worth relying on around her.
Chen Shan was lucky, and the three stable backers in front of her and behind her supported her strength to cope with everything.
In every woman's life, there will be three backers to give you strength and help you grow.
When encountered, you must cherish it.
Confidants of mutual achievement
"No matter what the singer suffers, but the hurt knows the sound."
The saddest thing about a person's life is that it is difficult to find a voice.
After going through thousands of sails and seeing through human feelings, we will understand how blessed it is to have a person who understands and appreciates each other.
Friends who make friends, it is enough to have one person in their lives.
Writer Yan Geling and film star Chen Chong, one writing and one acting, are leaders in two different fields.
What is unexpected is that they are also a pair of confidants in private.
The two admire each other very much, and they are very close to each other when they first meet.
In the early years, when Yan Geling was not yet famous, Chen Chong was already a first-line movie star.
Because Chen Chong is familiar with Yan Geling's writing, he understands Yan Geling's expression.
In order to help Yan Geling write a good script, Chen Chong took her to watch cold Hollywood movies and provided her with materials and writing opportunities.
Later, with the support of Chen Chong, Yan Geling wrote a lot of well-received film and television scripts and became a hot writer at that time.
Because she understood Chen Chong's feelings and mood, Yan Geling, after becoming famous, began to write a biography for Chen Chong.
Between two friends, mutual influence, a friendship has achieved the extraordinary life of two women.
As Yan Geling said in the "Prequel to Chen Chong":
"I really love this friend, and maybe in my book I pour out my love or preference for her, so it's not necessarily objective, but I don't care." 」
Having such a confidant will also love yourself more.
It is precisely because of this preference that we have the courage to cope with life.
There is a passage in Bacon on Life:
"To a true friend, you can convey your sorrows, joys, fears, hopes, doubts, slanders, and whatever weighs on you."
Life has never had compassion for anyone, but all the heaviness that weighs on women, confidants and friends can share their worries.
Even if the years have given us disappointment, sadness and pain, if someone understands and someone accompanies you, then you will not always be stuck in the mud and unable to extricate yourself.
Encounter is luck, and a close friend is a lifelong backer.
A partner who is fully supported
"What is the most unforgettable, the confidant is unmatched; everything in life is enough to participate in the business, and I am willing to be the protector of Ping Shan and soar."
This is a song written by Chen Hengzhe, a talented woman in the Republic of China, after the death of her husband, "Surfing the Sand", and she tearfully misses the time spent with her husband.
The story of this soul mate is touching to say.
When Ren Hongjun approached Chen Hengzhe, she was in the haze of lost love.
Ren Hongjun couldn't bear to watch her depressed and depressed all day long.
A true commitment to:
"It's not easy for you to compromise with society in general.
I hope to be a screen, standing in the middle of you and society, to enshrine and cultivate a talented woman for China. ”
This confidant brought strength to Chen Hengzhe and helped her get out of her obsession.
During that time, the two relied on each other and entered into marriage.
For more than 50 years after his marriage, Ren Hongjun has always taken his original commitment as his motto: fully support his wife.
With Ren Hongjun behind him, Chen Hengzhe's creation gradually entered a better state, and he published a large number of works in new literary journals such as "New Youth" and "Novel Monthly", and was praised as "a generation of talented women".
Later, Chen Hengzhe was questioned because of an article, and Ren Hongjun published several articles to clarify her.
He then resolutely resigned as the president of the university and accompanied Chen Hengzhe back to Beiping.
Decades of married life, even if the outside world is turbulent, Ren Hongjun has always been Chen Hengzhe's solid "screen".
The two advance and retreat together in front of life, go hand in hand in academics, and are endorsed by the world for a good story.
Yang Lan said:
"The bond of marriage is that when you are most helpless and weak, he or she holds up your chin, straightens your backbone, makes you strong, and accompanies you around, and bears the fate together." 」
In a woman's life, it is not unusual to meet love, but it is valuable to meet a man who is willing to support each other with you.
There is a myth in the "Drinking Chapter":
The man and the woman were originally one, and later divided into two halves by Zeus, so that people are born to try to find their other half.
I'd rather miss the wind and snow moon than make a mistake for sincere feelings.
A good marriage, while promoting the maturity of each other's minds, will also make your soul grow.
In marriage, two people are closely related, and men and women should be each other's backbone.
How women choose their other half is also how to choose to redefine life.
Meeting a man who supports you is a woman's incomparably strong backer throughout her life.
Noble people who help you grow
There is a Parkinson's law in psychology.
An incompetent leader can have three ways out:
One is to give up the seat to a competent person; the second is to let a competent person assist him; and the third is to appoint two people of a lower level as assistants.
In order to ensure that their status is not violated, many people will choose the third one.
Because the two assistants are incompetent, they will go up and down, and continue to look for more incompetent assistants, so that an inefficient leadership system will be formed.
If you fall into such a cycle, you will have a hard time getting ahead.
If you want to achieve results, you must get out of it and look for a circle of big patterns.
The greatest blessing of a woman's life is to meet a noble person who constantly helps you grow.
The heroine of the novel "My Genius Girlfriend", Lena, was originally timid and afraid of things, but in the end she became the "golden phoenix" that flew out of the slum.
Lena's repeated growth is inseparable from her "genius girlfriend" - Lila.
In a neighborhood full of violence and ignorance, Lila is a beautiful landscape that illuminates Lena.
Lila is bold, strong-willed, independent and assertive.
Under her guidance, Lena broke through the prison of thought again and again and found the direction:
When Lena graduated from high school and wanted to drop out of school with everyone, it was Lila who analyzed the pros and cons for her and supported her in finishing college;
When Lena graduated from college and didn't know what profession to pursue, it was Lila who found her own strengths for her and supported her to become a good writer;
When Lena's marriage is in trouble, it is Lila who practices and points out the best way to deal with it...
Who you are with, you will be who you will be.
Lena, who is with Lila, gradually overcomes the original heart occupied by confusion and fear, becomes confident and powerful, and lives out the excitement of her life.
The ancients said:
"Corresponding to the same voice, the same breath."
Companions, because they understand, are precious, if they are willing to help you grow, they are the backbone of life.
At the critical juncture of life, they point us out of the fog and help us achieve an essential breakthrough.
If you meet, you must cherish it even more.
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The philosopher Bacon said:
"Human beings seek comfort, value and protection in their interactions with each other."
In this life, women face countless choices.
Some people and things choose the wrong thing and can start all over again, while others are "opening the bow and not turning back".
Spending time with the wrong people is the same as being consumed; getting along with the right people is the same as being born again.
Finding friends, finding lovers, and finding confidants, these three things that are closely related to us have directly affected our lives.
"With the strength of the good wind, send me to the clouds."
Even the most capable person also needs a solid backer, which may not be able to help you financially, but it will certainly be able to try to support you when you are helpless.
One of these three patrons is enough to make us lucky for a lifetime.
When encountered, we must learn to cherish.