Wen 丨 West Wing has feelings
Time is not long, may you be in my words, see you not too late!
Probably many women will be afraid to fall in love with a man who does not come home, but if you fall in love with a man who comes home and has changed his heart, it is even more pathetic.
Maybe when you were together, he said a lot of sweet words. However, in the world of love, men and women are not the same, women may love more and more, and men seem to be better at subtraction in love.
There is a saying that is right: "You can't wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can't recall a person who has changed his heart." ”
There is no need to force others and themselves to do anything, a relationship, love is love, no love is no love, bold love, but also brave to let go.
As a woman, you can be crazy about love, but you must not lose your mind because of love.
No matter who she is with, women must learn to distinguish and not think that their own compromises can be exchanged for his single-mindedness or change of heart.
You've seen the way he loves you, so if he changes his mind, you'll feel it the first time. Don't fool yourself, whether a person has changed his mind, look at his three performances after returning home, he will have a number in his heart.
He goes home and becomes reticent and no longer actively communicates with you
The beginning of love is often without words, and each other is always anytime, anywhere, sharing various moods and various small things with each other. Because love makes all of this sweet.
Do you remember the days when there was no package for phone calls, charging for text messages, and WeChat was not yet popular, what was your love at that time?
Look at your current mode of getting along, whether it is even if the two places are separated, but always accompanied, or even if they see each other every day, they look like they are separated.
He came home and talked to you less and less often, and was willing to share anything he encountered at work and would seek your advice. At that time, the hearts of two people were together.
Suddenly, one day, you find that he has changed, he is still warm and talking to others outside, but when he comes home, he has nothing to say to you, and it seems that as soon as he arrives home, he becomes silent.
At this time, there is no doubt that there must be a problem between you, and the most likely thing is that he has changed his mind, and he has no original interest in you, nor does he have the patience he had.
Therefore, he is no longer willing to share everything with you, no longer needs your advice, and is not interested in communicating with you too much.
This may be the so-called "marriage silence period", at this time he may have changed his mind, but he is using this silence to force you to leave.
He came home cold and ignored anything about you
A relationship in a good state, must be two feelings of mutual pleasure, heart-to-heart, he cares about everything you have, for you will never be able to use the enthusiasm.
When he comes home, he will care about how you are doing today, what problems you have encountered in life or work, and is always willing to be your dependence.
He will also scold the boss with you, will look forward to the future with you, will discuss whether today's meal is delicious, and will also discuss where to go on weekends.
If all of this suddenly disappears, he becomes cold to you when he comes home, what you say or do does not arouse his interest and attention, he is only immersed in his own world, as if nothing about you has anything to do with him.
At this time, from the heart, he is no longer willing to become your dependence, your happiness he does not care, your complaints he also turned a blind eye.
Marriage seems to have no contradictions, but it can't withstand half a wave, his heart is no longer here with you, so looking down is calm, and calm may be ready to leave.
He came home and became secretive and started dodging you
When two people fall in love, the mobile phone password is completely transparent, and there is no secret at each other's place.
A lot of married women may complain that he doesn't know her husband's phone password and won't check his phone.
In today's era when basic mobile phones are not in hand, mobile phones seem to be more cordial than anyone around you, and big data will recommend topics of interest to you according to your preferences.
I remember watching a video where after a car accident, the first time a man is not to check his injuries, but to empty the chat history in the mobile phone. It may seem ironic, but it actually reflects many secrets in marriage.
When he comes home and starts the phone from his body and starts dodging you, you should understand that in his heart he must have a secret for you, and it is more likely that he has changed his mind.
Between men and women, what is careful is love, what is dodging is to change their hearts, they no longer talk about each other, and each other's hearts may also go farther and farther.
Conclusion:
Qian Zhongshu wrote in "The Siege of the City": "Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to come out." ”
In marriage, most women are the party who looks forward to it for a long time, and men, in the siege, always seem to involuntarily enjoy the scenery outside the city, and it is easier to resist the temptation to step out of the siege.
When they change their minds, everything is traceable, and their departure must not be temporary, but premeditated.
Therefore, whether a man has changed his mind or not, just look at his performance after returning home.
Marriage, fortunately, lost life, women can pretend to be stupid, but must not be really stupid.
In marriage, we must give wholeheartedly, but at any time, we must learn to pay attention to his performance after returning home, and do not let ourselves be in a passive situation.