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I have seen a joke: there is a very timid man who is afraid of his own shadow and hates his footprints.
In order to get rid of the shadows and footprints, he jumped up and walked, running desperately. However, the more he tossed, the more footprints he had, and the shadow never abandoned. The people next to me laughed.
Zhuangzi said, "It is better to rest in the shadows, to rest in the shadows, and to rest in silence, and to be foolish." ”
Standing in the shade to rest, the shadow is gone, the footprints are gone, to relax and work. Truly intelligent people, when confused, will not rush to toss themselves, but quiet down, rely on wisdom to turn defeat into victory.
Everything in the world seems to be unpredictable, as long as you master the law, you can use it for yourself, and with a gentle force, it is "four or two strokes of a thousand pounds". Mixed society, it is better to move than to be still.
02
I have seen a philosophical story: During the Tang Dynasty, the Zen master of Wutai Mountain Yinfeng set out for Nanyue.
The Zen master of Matsu Dao asked him, what is this for?
Yin Feng said, asking Shi Xiqian Zen Master for advice.
Matsu said that the stone is very slippery, pay attention to safety.
Yin Feng said that what he was afraid of was just a scene.
The great truth of life is actually hidden in the details of life, as long as you know how to observe the color and be good at improvisation, there is nothing to worry about.
After Yin Feng saw the stone Move, he turned around and then shook the Zen Staff.
Shi Xiqian said loudly, Heaven.
After some time, Yin Feng once again went to visit Shi Xiqian.
As soon as the two met, Shi Xiqian said, shhh.
Hidden Peak was at a loss. What does this mean? Before he opened his mouth to ask for advice, he was "booed" by the other party, and he could only return in vain.
The ancients said: "It is not to be born that it cannot be said, nor can it be said that it is born, nor can it be said that it is not born, nor can it be said that it is not born or not, nor can it be said that it is not born, nor can it be said that it is not born." ”
The truth of life is full of mysteries, and we must work hard in the "unspeakable" place to understand it.
In life, we must hold a normal heart and bear more, without nagging and complaining.
Living in the downtown area, how to live a lifetime without controversy? What we need is not a variety of substances, but to eliminate all noises and adjust to a silent state.
The sound of wind and rain, the sound of whistles, the noise, the sound of the ear, but only from the left ear, out of the right ear - shhh, don't talk, from the place where the noise is innumerable, you can also hear the sound of heartbeat.
Isn't that the truth hidden in the city?
03
The quieter you are, the more expensive you are.
There is a way that things are scarce and expensive.
In the downtown area, everyone is in a hurry, there are many people busy with business, and more people are looking down at their mobile phones, listening to a song or watching a video over and over again.
At night, when the lights are on, the old ladies go out to dance square dances, and the rhythmic music can be heard hundreds of meters away.
The whistle sounded, urging the car in front of it, to run fast. Everyone is busy, really don't waste time.
In the park with many flowers and trees, you can't see the quiet and peaceful atmosphere, the lawn is replaced by a playground, after all, a piece of grass has no value, put a few game consoles, put a few rockers, the grass is worth money.
As the saying goes: "Good-looking skin bags are the same, interesting souls are one of the best." ”
If there is a person who can read a book quietly in the downtown area, or walk lightly, or stand in a corner, he will be very special. This is the nobility that stands out from the crowd.
In fact, people have an "aura", which is enough to overcome all the noises. In interpersonal communication, we often encounter such people - without speaking, they are already very majestic; before they can give opinions, others have accepted them.
The aura is not something that can be described in a sentence or two, but it can be felt.
For example, the anger, resentment, bad luck, and sadness of a person will be known by looking at the frowned eyebrows and the dark and heavy face; the positive energy, the sunshine and vitality, the inner peace, the brilliant smiling face, and the kind actions of the person will be known.
People with great wisdom are better at using the aura to control the situation and show themselves, which has to be admired.
04
The quieter you are, the freer you are.
Man, isn't it for the sake of the few pieces of silver?
People who can get rid of "a few pieces of silver" truly gain freedom, and life changes with the changes of the four seasons, showing nature.
In ancient times, Tao Yuanming "hung up the seal and resigned from the official", gave up the high-ranking official Houlu, and returned home to farm.
"The land is flat, the houses are like houses, and there is a good field of Miike mulberry bamboo. Strange traffic, chickens and dogs smell each other. Among them, men and women are dressed like outsiders. Yellow hair hanging down and enjoying himself. Tao Yuanming's peach blossom garden, I don't know how many people yearn for.
Later, countless people were looking for peach blossoms, but they could not, leaving regrets.
"If there is a peach blossom source in your heart, where is not between water and clouds", when you understand human nature and give up vulgar money and material, poetry and distant places are in front of you.
The uneasiness of people's hearts is not because life is too bitter, nor is it because society is not very good, but because there are too many desires. Knowing that "greed is a scourge," he still yearns for it.
Once, when Zhuangzi was fishing by the river, the King of Chu sent someone to invite him to participate in political affairs and give him an official position.
Zhuangzi waved his hand and said that there was a sacred turtle in the Chu kingdom that had been dead for three thousand years, and the king wrapped it in cloth and enshrined it in the imperial court. Is it better to be worshipped by people, or is it a turtle crawling on the mud?
The messenger said that of course it was good to crawl the turtle.
Zhuangzi didn't say back, I am the crawling turtle.
What's so bad about living in nature, humble, but free? Isn't this the life that everyone yearns for?
Let go of a thought, all natural. If you cling to something, you will lose something, and your troubles will come into being; let go, your heart will be at ease, and you will be free.
05
There is a saying in the "University": "Knowing and then being fixed, being still and then being able to be quiet, being quiet and then being able to be at peace, being able to worry and then being able to worry, worrying and then being able to get." ”
No matter where you are, what you have encountered, don't be impatient, think carefully, know the advance and retreat, life can reach its best state.
A happy life does not depend entirely on material supplies, but also depends on the wisdom of dealing with the world.
Silence is the loudest sound; desirelessness is the greatest pursuit.
If the heart does not move, what about the wind? So, okay?
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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