Lady Li of the Han WuDi explained with her life that women are old and decaying, how to keep a sense of freshness for their husbands
In China's more than two thousand years of feudal dynasties, more than 400 emperors, Emperor Wudi of the Han Dynasty was one of the best of them, the most talented and martial artists, ideologically deposed a hundred schools of confucianism, politically strengthened the implementation of the internal dynasty system and the push and grace order in the central clique, attacked the powerful landlords in the economic salt and iron official camp, took the initiative to attack the Xiongnu militarily, crushed the invasion of the Xiongnu, and even more was the first of the nation, passing through the western region.
Speaking of the Western Regions, it is inevitable to talk about Zhang Qian, the Marquis of Bowang, and Li Guangli, the general of the Second Division, who as we all know, has a younger sister, Lady Li of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, who is the first woman in history to claim to have fallen into the country.
Most importantly, this is not a vase that Israel only knows how to win the favor, she is not only charming, but also intelligent, and reading her is enough to make great progress in the relationship between husband and wife.
Born in music and art, he fell into the country and fell in love with the country, and after Empress Wei, he was the sole favorite of the harem
At that time, Empress Wei Zifu fell out of favor, and Emperor Wu of Han, who had not touched a beautiful woman for many days, was invited by his sister Princess Pingyang to buy wine in the palace, and the wine was in full swing, and the court musician Li Yannian composed a beautiful song:
"There are beautiful people in the north, unique and independent. One look at the city of the people, and then look at the country of the people. Ning does not know the fall of the city and the fall of the country, and it is difficult for beautiful people to get it again. At one point, emperor Wu of Han sighed: Where in the world is there such a beautiful person?
Unexpectedly, Li Yannian said that the woman who sang in the poem was his sister, so Princess Pingyang recommended it, Lady Li was summoned, the light veil covered her body, and the moment when the light veil was untied, the beauty of the beautiful and independent was even more amazing, so the Han Wu emperor summoned him to the palace that night, and he was pampered.
Emperor Wu of han loved beauty, once said"
You can go three days without eating, and you can't go a day without a woman
Among the four people who left their names in Qingshi, Chen Ajiao, Wei Zifu, and Lady Li and Lady Hook Yi, only Lady Li could grace to death and flourish for a long time, and the rest could not compare.
The reason for this is not only that Lady Li's beauty far exceeds others, but also that her mental wisdom from a musical family is deeply pleasing to Emperor Wu of Han.
Her life is like that beautiful song, knowing that the beginning is fascinating, knowing that the middle needs to be followed, and knowing that the end should be echoed around the beam to arouse people's reverie. From the first appearance, he was deeply fascinated by Emperor Wudi of Han, but he was able to continue to create freshness for Emperor Wudi of Han who loved Jiangshan more and loved beauty and was widowed in his later relationship, such as the simple light yarn jade hairpin scratching his head, such as the original court music and dance, especially the game before his death, which was the crown of the feudal dynasty for more than two thousand years.
Husband and wife are not harmonious? See how she let Emperor Wu of Han spoil him for a lifetime, and after his death, he still remembers it
Red face and thin life, no complaints and no regrets, leaving the best side of the lover
Since the ancient red face was so thin, Lady Li was weak and sick after giving birth, and before she died, Emperor Wu of Han went to visit her, and as a result, Lady Li covered her face with a quilt and resigned, and said mournfully: "Concubines have been sick for a long time, and their faces are haggard, and they cannot see Your Majesty." I hope that after my death, Your Majesty will be able to take good care of our sons and my brothers and brothers. ”
At that moment, Emperor Wudi of Han was probably in mourning, and seeing that this might be the last time the two of them would meet, he asked to see her, but was sternly refused by Lady Li, saying:"
The woman's appearance was unadorned, and she could not see the King
。 "I dare not face His Majesty with a contemptuous and slack attitude.
At that time, Emperor Wu of Han was very anxious and said that I would immediately reward you with thousands of gold and crown your brother's high-ranking official Hou Jue, but lady Li still refused. This woman, who was intelligent and saw through the hearts and human natures of the people, said that the rewards and knighthoods were between His Majesty's words, and it did not matter whether he saw me or not.
Emperor Wudi of Han was in a hurry, and went to pull the quilt, but Lady Li immediately turned around and covered the quilt deadly, and as a result, in the end, she could not help her, and Emperor Wudi of Han threw up his sleeves and left breathlessly.
If we look at this dialogue and action as a psychological game between couples, there is no doubt that Mrs. Lee has won.
Later, she lamented that the reason why Emperor Wudi of han loved and loved himself was only because of his beauty, while women served people with color, and loved to relax, and love to relax was to be extinct.
A sentence said through the little things between men and women, especially for a king like Emperor Wu of Han, who was a man of great talent and must have a cold heart, if he saw Lady Li's haggard appearance before she died of illness, he would definitely feel uncomfortable, and when she died later, he would definitely not think about her again, and how could he take care of his sons and brothers?
Instead of seeing each other, it's better to miss. In this game before his death, a few words of deep meaning reflected Madame Li's extraordinary wisdom.
Sure enough, after her death, Emperor Wu of Han remembered all about her beauty, and his heart was painful, and he not only held a solemn funeral for her with the empress's etiquette, but also made her brother's heir, the eldest brother Li Yannian as the assistant lieutenant, and the second brother Li Guangli as the Marquis of Haixi.
So much so that after she left, she still missed it very much, and ordered Dongfang Shuo to find a way to find The Dream Grass, and Emperor Wu of Han fell asleep with the Dream Grass, just to see Lady Li in the dream, so it was not too addictive, and even ordered the way shaoweng to do it, to summon the soul of Lady Li and so on.
We look at it now, we have to admire Mrs. Li's mental wisdom, all her life is to retain their own beauty and efforts, no matter when and where, appearance and clothing, behavior, speech and expression must be ensured to be decent, perfect, always show their best side to their men, on the contrary, we men as a way to attract women is equally effective, from the beginning to understand the market demand and then enter the market.