Many times, the emotions of the people around you, whether they are low or high, you will be affected by it, or there will be fierce resistance or empathy.
In a relationship, love each other deeply, emotions are more "unrestrained", no one can control their emotions, once their emotions are not right, the other half will be driven with their emotions. So-called, whoever is serious, who loses.
Especially the party who loves deeply, it is always easy to compromise and be led by the nose by the other party. Although the feelings are all your love and my wishes, for women, being "eaten" by a man means that you will appear unusually humble in this relationship.
Women may be too obsessed, love deeply, most of the time to men "obedient", in the long run, you are used to "obedience", he is used to "domineering". This is why many women have no say in front of men. Whatever you say will be denied by him, and in the end you will obediently compromise with him. He said one is one, no negotiable. Although, sometimes women feel very helpless, but because they love him too much, they are accommodating to him. The man who gets along with you in these 4 ways is just playing with you and doesn't really love you!
1, love freedom, play "disappear" at any time
A man may like to be free, to live that kind of unrestrained life, to let go of himself.
He never tells you his whereabouts, but when he needs to find you, he will take the initiative to contact you or appear in front of you, and when you ask him why he didn't report to her or care about her, he always had a lot of words to explain or prevaricate you, and he was slightly impatient. In fact, the real reason is that he doesn't care about you.
Indulge again and again, and you can forgive again and again, so he is unscrupulous. Because he knows very well that you love him deeply, it is expected that you will not easily leave him, using "love" as a shield, he is confident enough to easily get you.
Therefore, if he often "sees the head of the dragon and does not see the end", disappears without a trace, and does not take the initiative to report to you, you will not be able to contact him. The reason is actually very simple, he is "kidnapping" you in the name of love.
2. Self-centered and not caring about others
No matter what kind of decision you make or what kind of thing you do, he will first consider himself, whether he likes it, whether he is comfortable with himself, self-centered, and many times completely disregards your feelings or thoughts. As an "emperor and general", you have to revolve around him, and what he wants to do, you have to follow; he doesn't want to do anything, and you can't complain.
People are always selfish, and most situations always think about themselves first, which is understandable, but under the premise of love, "selfishness" will also become "dedication".
When a man in the face of love, still does not change the appearance of selfishness, but you because of love and again easy compromise, then he will only become more intense, more unscrupulous, he likes to do what he likes to do, his own things are the most important, anyway, you can't control it.
So, in the long run, you will only live more and more sad, how can he know how to understand you and hurt you?
3, do not care, do not care about you
Women are inherently insecure and need the care and care of men.
It is said that a man who truly loves you will never let you suffer any grievances, even he himself will not allow himself to do things that hurt you, if he sees you being bullied by others, he will definitely come forward to defend you, because he cares about you and cares about you.
But some men, in the face of love, will not take the initiative to care about your feelings, and even when you are sick, they will take care of you carefully, just simply saying "remember to take medicine", "drink more hot water", "remember to go to the doctor" and so on.
This is no different from the performance of ordinary friends, it feels like having a fake boyfriend, but it is dispensable. Will not be when you are uncomfortable, holding you, comforting you, always using the excuse of busy work as an excuse to fool you. Beauty wants to raise this family in his name, so you have no better reason to blame him. In the face of family or love, "work" is still the most important, not to mention that you have a small illness, no big deal, too pretentious.
4, play ambiguous with other women
A man who "kidnaps" you in the name of love will still play with other women behind your back at any time and any place. In short, don't miss a single opportunity.
If a man is full of thoughts about how to get more women, and leaves you around like a spare tire, and does not care about your sadness and pain, it means that he does not love you at all.
Even if you find out that he is having an affair with other women, he doesn't care, and even if you make a fuss about breaking up, he will not keep it at all. Because in his heart he feels that you can't really leave him, and when he needs you, he can coax you back to him with a few sweet words. So, whether you're sad or not, it doesn't make sense to him.
Many lovers are full of passion at the beginning, and when they get along, they are also full of tolerance and care, and with the passage of time, they slowly get along but the passion retreats, becomes dull and tasteless, and finally falls apart. Feelings have changed, and the behavior when they are together will also change, and if the woman looks closely, she will definitely find flaws.
Feelings are originally a very beautiful and sweet thing, but they are often crowned with torture and pain, and pure love is mixed with an attitude of not being serious, and everything becomes impure and not beautiful.
Men get along with you like this, just playing, not really loving you, how many women are temporarily seduced by men, lost their minds, and were seriously injured. Women still polish their eyes, don't be stupid and be deceived anymore.
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