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In order to be able to get pregnant and have children, Mrs. Claire carried her husband who had just completed spermal tube ligation surgery, and became intimately pregnant with another young man in her car, and in the end, she became pregnant with her husband's child! It turned out that the man in the car was her young husband who had crossed over...
The Time Traveler's Wife tells a love story from a peculiar perspective. Henry, a librarian suffering from time-misplaced genetic disease, after meeting his beloved Claire, he repeatedly crossed into the woods where Claire was a child, and his wife also began to have a lifelong love affair with him, marrying henry and having a happy time. However, during his last crossing, Henry was mistakenly shot by his father-in-law, who was hunting in the woods, and Henry witnessed his own death.
Unlike ordinary love stories, the male protagonist's crossing skills add a fantasy color to the film. But it is precisely because of the confusion of time that we can glimpse more of life from this story and understand the true meaning of love and life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" >1, born to be an island, it is good to have someone who loves themselves</h1>
In the world, you will find that there are three realms in life, and the first realm is that you find that no one in this world loves you unconditionally forever, except yourself. When I came back out, I found myself in love with the world.
Henry had always been lonely, on this lonely planet, the mother who loved him had left him when he was a child, and his father didn't care much about him. When he travels back to the scene of his mother's car accident several times, he is relieved of the loss of his youth. But he was still lonely after all. He is left alone in this world.
The second realm of life is that no matter how hard you try, there are always some problems that you can't solve on your own. Very depressed at this time. When he found that he could not get rid of the fate of time traveling no matter what, he gave up the struggle and went with the flow of life, and the whole person was very depressed. When he met the heroine Claire, he thought that his life might be like this.
The third realm is that when you can't change the world, you are still willing to work hard for it.
Henry, before meeting the heroine, was a librarian who was disheveled and muddy every day. The bad situation continued until the day she met Claire. Before meeting the heroine, he also had a gun friend relationship. Ever since meeting true love, Henry's whole being has lit up! He sensed that someone could understand him. For him, it was like a new life.
Because of love, there is hope and action. After Henry got married, his wife Claire wanted a child, but the genetics made Claire have been childless, and he was sad and sad inside. In the first step, he actively sought medical advice in an attempt to combat this annoying genetic disease, but it seemed to have little effect. The second step, watching his wife suffer physical and mental pain many times, he made a ligation of sperm oval tubes in one breath.
Before meeting Claire, his life did not have any positive color; but after meeting love, he wanted to have a home, so he secretly bought a lottery ticket and won the 5 million yuan jackpot; he hoped to have children, and after hardships, he also met his daughter in time travel, making him confident that he could have the crystallization of love.
Because of love, he feels no longer alone;
Because of love, his life became colorful;
Because of love, his life has a temperature.
All this is because he loves his family.
Everyone's life is an island, and only by constantly trying to open, close, and touch can we find the true self in our hearts, and then meet, know, and love with another interesting soul and walk together to the end of time.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" >2, the essence of marriage is respect and patience</h1>
At the beginning of the love affair, Henry and his wife Claire are like glue, and their eyes are full of each other's advantages and beauty. However, when entering the married life, the interests and demands of the two are inconsistent, which will inevitably cause contradictions and conflicts between the two sides.
Henry is distressed that his wife is constantly giving birth, and he thinks that the problem is his own crossing genes. Unable to convince his wife, he secretly went to the hospital for spermal tube ligation. Their husband and wife relationship is very bad.
Who doesn't want love as it is? Life and marriage are faced with trivial things such as chai rice oil and salt, as small as Christmas without anyone to accompany, as large as pregnancy has not been successful, any one of the marriages may trigger a big war. However, happy marriages are all due to the fact that both spouses have given enough respect and patience.
When he crossed again, he actually met his 9-year-old daughter, and the contradiction about preparing to conceive and have a child was also solved. Unfortunately, Henry learned that he would die when his daughter was 5 years old. Although he can't prevent his own death, through the practice taught to him by his daughter, at the end of the film, he actually appears in the world after his death to be with his wife and children...
Contradictions in married life are inevitable, and a happy marriage can skillfully resolve contradictions and eventually return to the essence of love. All bad marriages exacerbate the contradictions, and in the end, the water is overwhelmed, and the two sides have to go their separate ways.
At the beginning of their marriage, Ma Yili and the article were qinser and ming, but when the article cheated, Ma Yili said lightly: "And do and cherish." "Shut the mouths of the people.
Because of deep love, Ma Yili chose to let go and chose to forgive the other party. But at the same time, she also gave herself a way to live, and when love was no longer the same, she gave herself a gorgeous turn.
Whether a woman lives to the fullest depends on how he deals with the desires of his heart. Ma Yili chose to respect and endure and wait for her favorite things. She waited for 7 years, but when she finally found that the water was difficult to harvest, she immediately decided, without half a hesitation, and gracefully withdrew from this devastated marriage.
I have to say that Ma Yili is a big woman with wisdom, and she has fought a beautiful turnaround battle.
But not all women in marriage can live as dashing and free as Ma Yili. Many traditional Chinese women are trapped in the cage of marriage for a long time. Some people prefer to trap their dead hearts in a cage for the sake of comfort, which is a kind of patience, but it is actually a disguised self-torture. When the heart is exhausted, such a woman also loses her former style, and even more like Xianglin sister-in-law who has lost her child, she is also disliked.
Marriage is good or not, fortunately unhappy, you don't need others to tell you, you can know.
Some people choose to wait and endure for the sake of creating a complete family for their children. This relationship is actually misplaced. The most important relationship in a family is the husband and wife relationship, and many women regard the parent-child relationship as the most important relationship in the family, and this dislocation has created depression problems in many adolescents.
Only a loving and warm marriage is worth waiting for and enduring.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="33" >3, life is always facing death anxiety</h1>
An inch of time and an inch of gold, each of our lives is limited. The director does not give Henry, a young man, an infinite lifespan in this film, and his short life span of 40 years is interspersed with the lives of him and others who are important in his life.
Whenever he crosses back, he will disappear in real life and go back to the past. His wife, it was only when she met him that she put this man in the most important position in her life. From then on, the wife endured the separation of her husband for the rest of her life.
The male protagonist Henry has suffered from time travel since he was a child.
The first time he crossed was at the scene of his mother's car accident. The moment the crash occurred, he found his body missing, and the next second he appeared outside the car. At the moment of parting from his mother's life and death, he crossed nearly a hundred times! Every time he watched his mother die, fortunately he could still hug his young self who was alone at the scene of the car accident.
We are not Gods, we can only accept such a realistic thing as life and death, accept, and then be forced to surrender to reality.
Death is an extremely terrible and natural thing, and no one can change his life against the sky.
When his lonely father says he misses his dead wife so much, why does Henry miss his mother? Yes, Dad and he both loved the mother who had passed away. Many people have only experienced the death of their mother once, but Henry has cruelly experienced nearly a hundred times of life and death with his mother, and it is even more sad that he cannot change anything every time.
Psychologically speaking, the root of anxiety is the fear of losing control, and the same is true of death anxiety. Even after practicing to say goodbye to his mother nearly a hundred times, Henry still couldn't be indifferent to life and death. When Henry first learned that he was going to die of a shot in the near future, he was very gloomy. Because he loved his wife and children, Henry really had too much reluctance, and at the same time there was a deep sense of helplessness and fear.
It wasn't until he crossed over again to face his own death that he knew he was powerless to return to heaven, powerless to fight against fate, so he became calm.
On the night of his death, he arranged a lively party, he hoped that his most trusted friends could spend this difficult time with his beloved Claire and his wife, and he hoped that she would be accompanied when she was vulnerable...
In the face of death, his heart was full of love and hope. Because he had love in his heart, deep love for his wife and daughter.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" >4</h1>
Born to be human, we are all lonely. Even if we can gather thousands of favors in one, we still inevitably have to face life and death.
The first strength of each of our lives comes from the mother, who represents the power of tolerance and warmth. The mother represents our first protection in this world, and as long as the mother is there, our home is there.
Henry was unfortunate because of his genetic disease, which made him face nearly a hundred deaths with his mother. When Henry witnessed his mother and watched this warm force disappear from the world, the feeling was very sad, he went from being helpless at the beginning, to holding the panicked young self when he grew up, comforting: "Child, this is not your own fault, don't blame yourself." ”
Henry was lucky enough to meet his lifelong wife, Claire, with whom he bore a brilliant daughter. Their love and married life, like most people, is full of quarrels and disagreements. But the overall feeling of the marriage of the two is very happy and sweet. Because they both love each other deeply and are willing to give each other enough respect and patience.
All of this is due to love in the heart.
Because of love and expectation, life will treat you with honey.
I hope that you who swim to the other side of life will have a happy face.