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"Life is precious, and love is more expensive." These two short poems are probably familiar to you.
But few people know that at the end of this poem, the author also said this:
"If there is no life, where to find love."
When I was young, the vision of love filled the hearts of young people.
People are looking forward to three thousand weak waters, taking only one scoop of beautiful love.
I hope to have a person, hold the hand of the son, grow old with the son, and share the white head with the other party.
At that time, the love in people's eyes can be said to be the whole of life.
But when the white colt crosses the gap, time travels to the time axis of middle age.
The value sequence of life has also slowly changed.
In the middle-aged world, love is no longer the most important thing.
Beyond love, there are more important things that exist in their lives.
Among them, these three are the things they must grasp firmly, and love or non-love must be ranked after these three.
02
Good health is the foundation of everything.
People always say that years are a pig-killing knife.
This knife not only wrinkles people's faces, but also affects people's health at the same time.
In middle age, most people's physical fitness will gradually decrease with age.
And these lowered physical indicators will affect all aspects of life.
If you don't make changes, the rest of the things will basically not need to be discussed.
When many people are young, they feel that their bodies are great and can withstand a thousand hammers, so they let themselves toss and turn.
Wait until middle age, the alarm bell rings, and then begin to regret.
Middle age is a transit station in life.
From the moment on, start to pay attention to your body, and the road for the rest of your life will be smoother.
This is a buy and sell that only makes money and does not lose.
Not long ago, I went out for a walk and saw an old grandmother sitting alone on the side of the road.
After sitting for a long time, they were still alone. So, I couldn't help but go forward and ask, so I began to talk.
Grandma said that now there is only herself in the family, and the children are out of town.
Originally, the grandson worked in a city not far from home, but last year there was an accident.
The middle-aged grandson, due to the overtime of the continuous rotation, suddenly fell ill and left them.
After that, the atmosphere of the whole home changed.
The most important thing in a person's life, what is it, this question, many people may not understand.
But whatever it is for, the body is the most important foundation of it.
Only with a healthy body can we have dreams of the future.
You can have the foundation to rush to the future and reap joy.
This is especially true at the turning point of middle age.
The body will deteriorate, do not start to pay attention at this time, and then, what to do.
03
Saving money is the foundation of life.
In a person's life, money is an indispensable existence.
In the life after middle age, if you have money, you will have the confidence to live.
This kind of money, not how much, is enough to live on its own.
Economically independent people, no matter when they arrive and out of what circumstances, can face life calmly.
This is the sense of security that I give myself.
The ancients said: "The warehouse is solid and knows the etiquette, and the food and clothing are sufficient and the honor and disgrace are known."
When you are no longer shy, in the face of life, you will naturally have your own confidence.
This is true for both men and women.
On the contrary, when the economy is not independent and needs to rely on others, no matter how strong the love is, there may be horizontal branches.
Aunt Zhang in the community is like this, she is more than fifty years old, still running every day.
She opened her own bakery and was busy from morning to night.
Friends advised her to rest more, and anyway, the child has already started to work and can start to enjoy the blessings.
But Aunt Zhang never listened to these persuasions and still went her own way.
Speaking of her still wanting this, Aunt Zhang said that when she could still move, she would save more money.
In the days to come, I will not trouble others.
I have money, I can go wherever I want, and I can live freely.
And Aunt Zhang's parents, indeed, hold their own money, the old couple are traveling every day, and they live very arbitrarily.
It is said that a penny is difficult for a hero, and it is true that life is a very realistic journey.
If you have money, you will be full of confidence in the face of any kind of change.
Therefore, in middle age, please continue to save money.
04
Family is a warm haven.
After half a life, to middle age.
The wind and rain that passed by before have turned into powerful arms.
But no matter who it is, it is inevitable that there will be a sense of exhaustion.
This exhaustion, out of life, returns to the heart.
From the vigorous love of Xu in the early stage, to middle age, I understood why companionship is the longest confession of love.
The question of love or non-love is actually not important, the most important thing is how you feel in your heart.
A warm family is a haven for people's hearts.
Here, people are able to relax and feel the constant flow of power.
And these are by no means a simple love word that can be answered.
In the world of middle-aged people, love is not needed.
It's just that, outside of shallow love, family, health, and money are all much more important than this word.
These are the deep "loves" at a deep level.
Friends, go to middle age, stop staring at the word of love, and truly realize love, which is more important.
Love yourself, love your family, love life, these, please grasp well.