"Love you, not just because of your beauty, I love you more and more, your eyes understand my heart", there are countless songs written for love, love is a mysterious thing, can not be completely explained by reason, some great scientists try to use formulas to explain love, but failed, with pure biological explanations and like robots in the "Terminator", without a trace of emotion.
Why is love so hard to find? Why love is so difficult to get, first of all, there is no love, this thing itself does not have a very scientific theoretical knowledge, in a can find such a formula that should be difficult to do, like buying a lottery ticket.
Even if you find the so-called true love with gray hair, can it be long-lasting, even if you want to be long-term, then your body is not good enough, this is also to be considered, what is the time period of love? Is it worth it to pursue a perfect love? None of this can be achieved theoretically.
So in recent years, a word has emerged called "appropriate", so what exactly is appropriate? Simple door-to-door right? Or what, some people think it is still appropriate to find someone who is twenty or thirty years older than themselves, some people find some people who don't seem to match, and they still have a good life.
Since there is no standard of measurement, then you can't always see that it is an individual who pounces on it and then it can be called love?
Constellations and blood types are still very popular, because in the field of love has not found a suitable answer, although this matter is not reliable, but because of its existence, or let many people be divided and harmonized because of the constellation or blood type.
You say that such a criterion of judgment is superstitious, untrustworthy, and not entirely, because this affects people's subjective consciousness, which affects people's judgment, but it is absolutely impossible for a slightly rational person to just look at the constellations to weigh the standard of love.
Since true love is difficult to determine, how to become or choose your other half? Let's take a look.
1, a sense of security, after meeting you, feel the flustered heart like a needle in the sea, put back to the original place by Sun Wukong, the heart has since settled down, Tarzan collapsed in front, originally kneeling, but now with you, I can still stand, yes, this is the feeling.
2, in front of you can actually do yourself, there are many tiring things in the world, "loading" is one of them, we know that many people in the society do not dare to be themselves, for that little living expenses have to be sandwiched, many companies do not want you to have too personality, rules and regulations are set strictly, and even some company rules and regulations are not very formulated, that is, the leader has the final say. After a tiring day, it feels like you can be yourself.
3, hope to be concerned, live to a certain extent, we know that most of us are ordinary people, but even so, we also want to be concerned, if you find the other half can pay attention to you every day, you seem to feel that the world may have a different feeling because of each other.
4, passion can be ignited, although we modern people generally increase their academic qualifications, through the means of Internet information can know more about the world, but people's knowledge, experience, knowledge are limited, there is such a person can drive you, every time together feel very passionate, find themselves still have unlimited possibilities, this is a very pleasant thing.
Of course, the above 4 factors can not cover the direction of the entire love, it is only some auxiliary judgment conditions, if love is like buying stocks, then who has more knowledge, who has more information, the possibility of growth is greater.
So what do you think are the conditions for judging love? Or that none of these conditions matter if you have other answers, welcome to communicate!