Some people say that two people can live a long life, that needs to see a lot of things, at least this person loves you, from the beginning hope that two people can stay together for a long time.
When two people first come into contact, they will always rely on some external factors as a judgment condition, such as the more material one, which must be the car, the house, the job, money, relationships, status, and so on. And now it seems that material conditions have prevailed, but that is another topic, then there are still people looking at constellations, blood types, five elements, birthday eight characters, etc., of course, this is another way of judging.
Of course, many times can be combined with the use, some people began to like this person, and then a look at the wow constellation almost hey, it doesn't matter, in the look at the rising sign is good, well, it is this person, some people according to the master's algorithm, used the birthday eight characters, a look is not bad, well this thing has become.
Of course, some people look at it, they can always find a suitable reason for two people to be together, there are five elements in the alternative, blood type, genus, and maybe some other things, but in fact, you like, you can always find some highly matched trustworthy relics.
So is there something more tangible about whether two people should be together or not? Or is it a kind of evidence that is important in the emotional life?
Maybe there really is, for example, we often say, food, clothing, shelter, this is the minimum condition for people to survive, especially eating, that is more exquisite, people are iron rice is steel a meal is not hungry panic, people do not eat is absolutely impossible. And no matter who you're with, eating must be the most important thing. Three meals a day, can you not eat?
Does he not eat while he pursues you? Are they all nibbling on the side of the road with mineral water and steamed buns? This is also not very realistic, the romantic atmosphere is not enough.
So well, how can you tell from the meal how this person is?
First of all, there are two extreme people when eating, the first is that everything you eat is casual, you order whatever you want, add pepper or not, add hot pot and what dish is casual, how to do it. Hold the phone head and don't lift it. Looking at this kind of person seems to be amiable, but in fact, this kind of person does not want to bear any responsibility, that is, mixed with eating.
The second is the kind of thing that goes to no one to ask, in the past it was ordered, you came, anyway love to eat or not to eat, we are all want the signature dishes in the store, there is no reason not to love to eat ah, is there anything wrong with eating signature dishes?
In addition to these two kinds of people, then the more comfortable people are to set the position early, pack themselves up, wait for you early, and then wait for you to take out the menu together to discuss which one is not ordered. This kind of person belongs to the sense of responsibility, not the kind of person who throws his hands in the cabinet, nor is it the personality that super loves to control and control others.
Again, if he loves you, he will definitely take out his best, including eating, he will definitely seriously accompany you to a meal, will definitely understand your preferences, respect your taste to order, if you eat slowly, he is also slow, even if it is usually the kind of oh wolf eating.
When eating, he will not look at the mobile phone frequently, will not appear to be in a hurry, he is more attentive to you, and is very good at observing the color, such as handing tissues, pouring water and so on.
Therefore, eating is actually a small thing is also a small thing, saying that a big thing is a big thing, of course, this will not be able to fully see the quality of a person, but at least it shows that the attitude is correct, love you is some, like to be with you is a certain. Of course, the natural Oscar actor is another story.
In fact, love may be to find a person who can seriously accompany you to eat a meal, love is two people independent of each other, but they cherish each other.
So in addition to the above-mentioned judgment criteria, what is the simple way? Welcome to discuss!