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Wang Feng and his wife Zhang Ziyi
Wang Feng is a well-known first-line singer, singing original songs such as "Blooming Life", "Flying Higher", "Swinging Together", "Beijing Beijing", "Spring" and so on, which have been widely sung.
In 2015, Wang Feng married international film star Zhang Ziyi, and after marriage, she gave birth to a pair of children, living a warm and happy life. However, Wang Feng has an untouchable pain in his heart, that is, he has guilt for his father who died early, and he is sad that his lonely mother who died of cancer ...
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Childhood Wang Feng siblings and father Wang Jijun
Wang Feng and his mother Gu Yuezhen
Wang Feng was born in 1971 in Fengtai District, Beijing. His father, Wang Jijun, was a trombone player in the Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe, and Wang Feng's mother, Gu Yuezhen, was a former literary and art soldier who worked in a literary and art unit in Beijing after changing careers.
Wang Feng has an older sister named Wang Qing, who is now engaged in stage design. The talented Wang Feng was quite talented in music, and his father had high hopes for him and wanted to train him to become a violinist.
In 1976, when Wang Feng was just 5 years old, his father sent him to learn violin. At that time, a better violin cost more than 60 yuan, and my father bought two for Wang Feng at a time.
Inviting teachers to teach at home is also a huge monthly fee. In order to save money, Wang Jijun was particularly strict with himself, and he was reluctant to sit on the subway when he went to work, always crowding the bus.
Gu Yuezhen is also careful, storing cabbage in winter, she wants to shop around, even if it is a few cents cheaper per kilogram, she would rather run 5 miles more. She and her husband borrowed a scooter from relatives and transported the cabbage home one by one.
6-year-old Wang Feng with his mother
Early years of Wang Feng
Throughout the winter, Chinese cabbage is the home dish for the whole family. Occasionally to improve her life, Gu Yuezhen stewed a large pot of pig skull with cabbage and potatoes, and the family had to save three or four days.
Wang Feng's childhood and adolescence were accompanied by the violin, there was no happiness, and he lived in depression. His father forced him to practice for five or six hours a day, and when Wang Jijun and his wife went out, they locked Wang Feng at home to practice.
His father was extremely harsh, which made Wang Feng very afraid. Although there was resistance in his heart, he did not dare to resist and often played the violin with tears in his eyes.
Good talent, coupled with the professional training of the day after tomorrow, in 1982, Wang Feng was admitted to the Central Conservatory of Music. In 1984, Wang Feng was admitted to the Affiliated High School of the Central Conservatory of Music, during which he followed the Symphony Orchestra of the Central Conservatory of Music to Perform in Germany, France, Austria, South Korea and other countries, and was a top student in the school.
Wang Feng's (second from left) band "43 Baojia Street"
Young Wang Feng
In 1991, Wang Feng was admitted to the undergraduate class of the Central Conservatory of Music, focusing on violin and also studying viola.
In his sophomore year, Wang Feng won the second place in the Chinese Violin Competition. If you go down the path of violin, Wang Feng is likely to become a world-renowned violinist.
However, Wang Feng did not like violin in his bones, it was his father who forced him to learn it, and he preferred rock music. Before going to college, Wang Feng's adolescence was suppressed by his father, and after entering the university, he appeared youthful rebellion and began to oppose his father.
In his senior year, Wang Feng formed a rock band called "No. 43 Baojia Street", which is the house number of the Central Conservatory of Music.
At that time, Wang Feng had long shawl hair and often went out to perform with a guitar. He roared and screamed on the stage, sometimes on his knees, sometimes with two fingers in the sky.
Wang Feng on the stage
Wang Feng with his parents
Wang Jijun felt that his son was not doing the right thing, and he was very angry. As soon as Wang Feng returned home, he counted down his son. At this time, Wang Feng was no longer afraid of his father, and collided with him, and the father and son often had friction.
Gu Yuezhen pulled her son away with tears in her eyes, and then persuaded her husband.
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In 1995, Wang Feng graduated from the Central Conservatory of Music and was assigned to the National Ballet of China as a violinist.
The National Ballet of China is the country's top theatrical performance group, and the elites who can enter the troupe are elites in various fields, and Wang Jijun and Gu Yuezhen are proud of their sons.
However, Wang Feng did not care about this job and wanted to be a professional singer.
Wang Feng
Wang Feng and his mother
In the spring of 1998, Wang Feng did not greet his parents and resigned without them. In those two days, Wang Feng did not go to work at the unit, and his father felt very strange, so he called the Central Ballet, and only then did he learn that his son had resigned.
My son has a bright future in the National Ballet of China, how enviable! How could he do things so impulsively? Wang Jijun was overwhelmed by anger, raised his hand and slapped his son, and then roared angrily: "You have disappointed us so much!" ”
Wang Feng covered his fiery face, looked at his father angrily, and then ran away from home.
Gu Yuezhen wanted to go out to chase her son, and was drunk by her husband: "Leave him alone, let him go!" After speaking, Wang Jijun wept sadly. Tears also welled up in Gu Yuezhen's eyes.
After that, Wang Feng did not want to go home, renting a 9-square-meter basement in Fengtai District, eating only one bowl of noodles or 3 steamed buns a day.
Wang Feng "Laughing and Crying" album (2004)
He shut himself in the basement and wrote songs like crazy, and also went out to perform with the band members to earn a meager income.
During this period, Wang Feng's mother and sister came to the basement several times to ask him to go home and live. Wang Feng was unwilling to face his father and resolutely refused to go home. He felt that although living in the basement was hard, his mind and spirit were free, and there was no sense of depression in front of his father.
In the summer of 2000, Wang Feng was signed as a singer by Warner Records, and successively launched five solo albums of "Fireworks", "Love is a Happy Bullet", "Laughing and Crying", "Blooming Life" and "BraveHeart", and began to become popular in the rock music scene.
Since moving out of his home in 1998, Wang Feng has not returned home to live. Occasionally he went back to see his mother, usually choosing when his father was not at home. Sometimes when I run into my father, he just says hello coldly and leaves.
For two consecutive Chinese New Year's Eve nights, Wang Feng used the night to go downstairs to his house, but he did not have the courage to go upstairs. He glanced up at the lights in his home, then left in tears.
Soon after returning to the rental house, her mother and sister came to bring food to Wang Feng. Wang Feng did not move the chopsticks, and his mother said, "Your father asked us to send them." Wang Feng's tears suddenly poured out.
It's just that Wang Feng doesn't know that in fact, his musical talent has already conquered his father, and his father feels that his son's choice is right. It was only because of the dignity of the father that he did not bow to his son.
In the dark night, Wang Jijun felt that he should not have beaten his son in the first place, and he wept for the slap. Several times, he tried to sit down and talk to his son, but he never had the courage.
And Wang Feng was young and vigorous and did not understand his father, nor did he take the initiative to resolve the knot with his father, which became the eternal regret of the father and son.
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In 2006, Wang Feng happened to hear his mother say that his father loved music for most of his life and always wanted to go to Vienna, the world's music capital. At that time, Wang Feng had this financial ability, but because of the resentment in his heart, he did not help his father realize this wish.
In October 2007, when Wang Feng was performing in Lijiang, Yunnan Province, his mother told him on the phone: "Your father has just left." Mom's voice was filled with despair and anguish.
At that moment, Wang Feng cried sadly despite the presence of many people.
Only then did he realize that he loved his father so much that he had too many things to say to him. But because he was young and ignorant, he lost this opportunity forever, and he could only let regret and guilt accompany him for life.
Wang Feng rushed back to Beijing full of grief and dealt with his father's affairs with his sister. In front of his father's portrait, Wang Fengchang knelt down and confessed with tears: "Daddy, I'm sorry! Forgive my son for being young and ignorant, I understand you now. ”
This scene makes people move to tears.
Wang Feng and the old wolf
After many years of confrontation with his father, he did not help his father realize his wish, which became Wang Feng's guilt. In order to resolve the knot in his heart, when Wang Feng went to Vienna to perform later, he would take his father's ashes with him.
He also took a lot of pictures in Vienna and sent them to his father in paradise using his mobile phone MMS. He thought: My father would receive this filial piety from him over there.
When his father left, Wang Feng transplanted the love for his father to his mother. In fact, her mother's heart is not relaxed, and she has been worried about Wang Feng's personal problems.
Wang Feng's love affair is bumpy, and his ex-wife is a host of a TV station in Chengdu. In 1998, wang feng went to Chengdu to perform when the two met. He conquered Zidan in only 3 days. Later, Qi Dan quit his job and came to Beijing to follow Wang Feng.
Wang Feng and Song Shanshan
In 2000, the two married in Beijing in a low-key manner. Because of personality reasons, the marriage lasted less than a year before it disintegrated.
In 2005, Wang Feng gave birth to his daughter Little Apple out of wedlock with a well-known female model. The other party is 16 years younger than Wang Feng and is psychologically immature. Wang Feng felt that she was not a competent wife and mother, so he broke up with her.
Wang Feng took his daughter Xiao Apple with him, because he was busy performing, so he handed her daughter over to his mother and sister to take care of.
Due to the complexity of the love history and the fact that he has a daughter by his side, Wang Feng's personal problems have become a problem. As he grew older, Gu Yuezhen did not worry less about Wang Feng.
Her son is only in his 30s, it is not realistic to be single all his life, and she hopes that his son can marry a good woman.
Wang Feng took his mother to do a program on tv
For many years, Wang Feng has not met the right one, he gave passion to music, and gave all his love to his mother and daughter. He often gave his mother money and took her out to dinner.
Gu Yuezhen warned her son: "I have a pension, you don't give me money, as long as you solve your personal problems as soon as possible, it is a big filial piety to your mother." ”
At that time, Wang Feng was a little pessimistic about his feelings, thinking that he would be alone until he was old in this life. It wasn't until he met Zhang Ziyi that he truly realized: Oh, it turned out that he had been single for so many years, and he was waiting for Zhang Ziyi to appear.
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In 2015, Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi were happily married. After marriage, he and Zhang Ziyi gave birth to a daughter and a son, and also took the small apple with them, and the family of five formed a happy family.
Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi and their daughter
Wang Feng's mother, Gu Yuezhen
When her husband died, Gu Yuezhen was in her early 50s, and she has been single ever since. When Wang Feng married Zhang Ziyi, Gu Yuezhen was also worried that Zhang Ziyi was too famous and difficult to get along with.
Who knew that Zhang Ziyi was not at all what she imagined, she was kind, atmospheric, and nurturing, and regarded Xiao Apple as her own daughter. For this reason, Gu Yuezhen gave Zhang Ziyi a high evaluation, saying that she was a rare filial piety daughter-in-law.
Every spring festival, Wang Feng brings his parents-in-law and mother together, and several families are happy and harmonious. Zhang Ziyi's parents are kind and kind, and they will also give small apples red envelopes.
In 2019, Gu Yuezhen was diagnosed with cancer. Wang Feng was heartbroken, he slowed down the pace of his career, and Zhang Ziyi took turns to take care of his mother in the hospital.
Zhang Ziyi with daughter and son
He gave his mother the best medicine, invited the best doctor, and the hospital organized expert consultations several times, but he failed to save Gu Yuezhen's life.
In January 2020, Zhang Ziyi gave birth to a son, and Wang Feng carried his son to the hospital to see his mother. Gu Yuezhen stretched out her thin hand and lightly touched the little grandson's face: "Mother is satisfied." "After saying the old tears.
Remembering his mother's bumps along the way, Wang Feng couldn't cry.
In April 2020, Gu Yuezhen unfortunately passed away due to cancer. Because during the epidemic period, Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi took care of their mother's affairs in a low-key manner.
Before her mother died, she took Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi's hands and said, "Don't be sad after I leave, live well together, my mother is watching you in heaven." ”
Wang Feng and daughter
In January 2022, her mother has been dead for more than a year, but her voice and smile are still clearly in Wang Feng's heart. Whenever night came, he would often go out the door to look at the stars.
There were many stars in the sky, and Wang Feng knew that one of them was his mother's eyes, and she was looking at herself in heaven.
Wang Feng warned his mother in his heart: "My son's career and life are very good now, you can rest in peace over there." If there is an afterlife, I would like to make you a son! ”
In the bright moonlight, two lines of clear tears poured out from the corners of Wang Feng's eyes...
"Taste celebrities" comments: Family affection is the common language of human beings, family affection is the most beautiful fairy tale in the world, always so warm to people's hearts.
Wang Feng family portrait
The story of Wang Feng's family relationship with his father and mother has regrets and tears, as well as warmth and touching. As a famous singer in the music world, Wang Feng also has a bumpy and tortuous mental journey with his parents.
Parents all over the world hope that their children will become talented, and the story of Wang Feng and his parents tells us: there is nothing wrong with hoping for Jackie Chan, but parents should not design the future too much for their children, and do not impose their will on their children. Children's individuality should be fully respected and their strengths should be developed.
Only in this way can children truly have a successful and happy life!
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