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As the saying goes, a spoiled woman has the best life, in the eyes of many people, women and struggle are not on the side, the happiest woman should enjoy a comfortable life, do not need to run around for a living, and do not need to look at people's faces.
But the real rich woman actually relies on no one else, but on herself, only if she has strength, it is really safe, relying on anyone has the risk of failure, because once others do not continue to invest in themselves, then the child will fall into the bottom of life in an instant.
But a woman who relies on herself is different, whether others are at the top or the low, it has nothing to do with her, because the person who can really control her fate is always herself.
Personality determines fate, and in the same way, what kind of hobbies a woman has will also determine to a certain extent what kind of fate this woman has.
Whether poor or rich, many people say that God has long been predestined, but in fact, a person's fate can be changed.
Just like some people are born poor, but they do not recognize their fate, they have always had the fighting spirit of not accepting defeat and not giving up, so they finally changed their fate and stood at the peak of life.
And some people, the starting point of birth is the end point that many people can't reach in their lifetime, but such people are willing to fall, do not seek progress, only think about eating, drinking and having fun all day, and finally lose their property, and life becomes meaningless.
What a woman should pursue, in fact, there is no fixed answer, because every woman's choice is different, some women want a better material life, marrying a rich man is once and for all; and some women yearn for an independent life, even if someone else gives her material wealth, she does not care.
In the end, how to have a rich and noble life, depends on whether women have these preferences, and women who love these things can at least make themselves rich in life and spiritually rich, even if they are not rich and noble.
01Read
What kind of temperament a woman who likes to read is self-evident, look at Mr. Yang Dai, look at Dong Qing, we can read it.
Women who often read often have a wide perspective on life even if they do not have a high degree.
Such a woman will not easily get into the tip of the bull's horn when she looks at the problem, so she will have a more inclusive mentality to look at people and things, so that she will not easily offend others and get more opportunities.
In the process of reading, women will find a higher pursuit of life, and the interpretation of life will become different, because for her, she wants more and less, which is not a contradiction, but a look at life.
We say that a truly wealthy woman is not only rich in money, but deeper in soul satisfaction is her wisdom.
I have heard a sentence that makes sense, there are two things in this world that women cannot give up, one is the insight on the road, and the other is the wisdom in the book.
Even if a woman who likes to read is temporarily at the trough of life, she will definitely have good luck in the future, because when facing difficulties, she will not choose to blame others, nor will she push the reason to others, she will only find reasons from herself, and then improve and improve herself, so that she becomes better and better, so that life is not good?
Therefore, women should not let the years trample themselves and let themselves become a shrew who has no pursuit and loses her temper at every turn, but must learn to find peace of mind in the book and precipitate into the wisdom of life.
Books can nourish a woman, but also can make a woman more comfortable in the face of life's storms.
02 Likes to delve into
Many of us know that if you want to succeed, you need to drill deeply in a certain field, study thoroughly, in order to have a deeper understanding, and then you can really make achievements.
Women are the same way, want to make themselves rich and noble, many women are trying in the wrong direction, feel desperate to make money, in order to make themselves rich, but in fact? Some women, even if they make a lot of money, are still unhappy and still feel that they are not fundamentally rich.
Because such a woman only has a rich watch, not a rich one, it seems that she is very good at many fields, but there is no one field that she is particularly good at.
But those women who like to delve are different, they often do not care about the eyes of others, because there is no time to take care of it, and the limited time and energy are used to delve into the things they like, so she will naturally make the achievements she wants to see.
In terms of personality, women who like to delve into are more able to persevere, and people who do not have a lasting degree of work will not have a longer-term wealth even if they get a small profit.
In her unremitting efforts, a woman will continue to recognize her own shortcomings and learn what she needs from others, which is particularly important to her.
Even if she has not met anyone who appreciates her for a while, because of her persistence and research, there will always be a day when she can meet people who really value and respect her.
If a woman's rich life is based on the giving and support of others, then the most fundamental thing is the woman's own efforts, because it is enough to fight, because it is hard enough, so good luck will come to her.
03 Enjoy independent thinking
An independent woman is the most attractive and attractive, she will not become an accessory to any one person, nor will she change herself in order to cater to anyone's tastes.
They may not live very richly, but they must have independent thoughts in soul and personality, they have the lifestyle they want, and they also have the attitude towards others, no matter what others say, they don't care about the eyes of others, because she knows that as an independent person, having your own thoughts is the most important.
A woman who enjoys independent thinking will not blindly seek help from others when she encounters problems, because she knows that the only person who can really help her is herself, so more often, she likes to find a way to solve the problem by herself, and then enjoy the sense of accomplishment after the problem is solved.
Such a woman will undoubtedly make herself more and more powerful, even if she does not have a particularly strong wealth base, but she does not lack the courage and ability to face life independently in this life.
A woman with a rich and noble life has her own personality characteristics, and also has her own reasonable planning and pursuit of life, and will not lose her way for anyone, nor will she trample on her dignity when seeking wealth.
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