Graphic | Liu Meisheng
Butterfly Loves Flowers A new beginning in life
After graduating from Nankai University in 1985, I was assigned to work at Shandong University of Technology. From 1987 to 1990, he studied for a master's degree at Shandong University. In recent years, in addition to work and study, finding a life partner is the top priority. Although when I was studying in Nankai, the school leaders always said at meetings that nankai university students were suffering from no wives, but in fact, it was not easy to find a suitable other half.
After working in Jinan, he began a long journey of searching and seeking. In between, there is pain, but more of happiness and joy. I have the honor of being helped by teachers, colleagues, and fellow villagers to add more opportunities and happiness to myself, and I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to all the relatives who have helped me!
On May 4, 1989, Mr. Zhang Jiusi, director of the Department of Applied Mathematics of Shandong University of Technology, and his daughter introduced themselves to his wife for the first time at Shandong University of Technology, and when they walked to the entrance of The University of Technology, an inexplicable idea flashed by. Subsequent developments have turned this flash of thought into reality. I remember that it seemed to be passing by the north gate of the University of Technology, and the lady said that it was the south gate, anyway, it was not important whether it was the south gate or the north gate of the university. And the word "north" is a slang sound, which does not conform to the rhythm, so it is written as the south gate.
After graduating from graduate school in 1990, I went to Jiamusi to participate in the development of office automation systems organized by the head office for one year. During the Spring Festival, he returned to Jinan and hurriedly registered his marriage on March 5, 1991, without a wedding ring, but caught the last train of the unit' room. Assigned to a one-bedroom and one-living unit located in the fifth latitude and one, of course, only the right to rent the house is assigned. Happiness fell from the sky.
After the completion of the development project, after returning from Jiamusi, he returned to his hometown in Qingzhou to hold a simple wedding and started a new life.
The wedding is held at home, simple and solemn. The elders of the family and the leaders of the village attended and talked about what they wanted to ask for. There are still local wedding customs, such as: sending small meals, cave houses and so on. It is also indispensable to invite relatives and friends before the wedding, and it was all handled by the father at home. We were busy in Jinan to the end, the unit had to go to work, and the small nest of one room and one hall had to be cleaned up. There was no decoration, just the furniture, daily necessities and other purchases were arranged, and it was not hurried back to Qingzhou until the day before the wedding. The feasting of guests and friends was hard for fathers and brothers and sisters.
Looking back, I was really happy at that time.
In 2016, on the wedding anniversary, he improvised a memorial song "Butterfly Love Flower".
Butterflies love flowers
Remember when I met at the beginning of the year,
The South Gate of the University of Technology,
Suspected heart belongs to you.
The Song of a Thousand Buddha Mountains is beautiful,
Talking in Zhongshan Garden.
Long remember the songhua riverside affair,
Hongyan frequently circulated,
Deeply loved.
Victorious return to the blessed land,
A new beginning in life.
Pay attention to the "Poetry Grass Garden", you are one of the masters of the "Poetry Grass Garden", let us move forward together and share the beauty.
About the Author
Liu Meisheng, zi shi nong, number Chaoran Mountain people, ancestral home of Qingzhou, Shandong, ICBC employees. He studied at Nankai University and Shandong University and graduated with a master's degree. He likes poetry, photography, Go, etc., and is now a member of the Jinan Writers Association. Its WeChat public account "Shicaoyuan" is based on "photography and beauty, poetry pleasing to the heart." How beautiful life is, share it with you. "As the main purpose, we are committed to spreading the culture of poetry and so on. His book "From the Study of Poetic Grammar to the Practice of Writing" systematically introduces the knowledge of poetry and the rules of more than forty word plates, collects a large number of famous poems, and also includes more than 100 individual poetry works, and a large number of photographic calligraphy and painting works are attached at the end of the book. Published by Shandong University Press, the book is a good textbook of poetic grammar and a rich collection of poems.
Friends who like it can pay attention to the public account "Shicaoyuan" and contact the author to buy books at a discount.