Author: Creative Group Makino
There is a question on the Internet: "When you grow up, what do you regret the most?" ”
The answer of 80% of netizens is: "Regret not listening to my parents." ”
When people reach middle age and experience a wave of beatings in society, they find that the "big truths" that their parents have said are golden rules.
I often wonder: If I follow my parents' expectations and plans, can I live a more comfortable life now, and can I regret less?
Life is like a reincarnation. Now that we are older, we are beginning to tell our children what our parents said to us.
But our children, like us at that time, are not willing to listen to the bitter words of their parents, especially adolescent children, and they are even more annoyed to say a word.
Professor Li Meijin once said: 12 years old is the key period for children's personality development, whether children can become talents, the key depends on whether there is "discipline" in place at various stages before the age of 12. The child's growth is staged, grasp the key period of the child's development, at the appropriate stage, the child is moderately disciplined, in order to make family education play the best effect.
It is said that "excellent children are managed by their parents", and the longer you are a teacher, the more you believe in this sentence!
Previously, after a student could not stand Hengshui's crazy education model to report it, everyone gradually began to reflect on whether we were too serious and whether we should return "happiness" to our children. But after the "double reduction" hammer, parents panicked and wanted to stop and let their children walk slowly, but the middle and high school entrance examination system has not changed, and there is a shortage of high-quality educational resources.
There is no parent who does not feel sorry for their children, and no one wants their children to grow up in pain, but the matter of education is originally "unable to eat the suffering of the present, but will have to suffer the tiredness of the future."
In order not to let the child grow up, like we do now, say the sentence again: "I really regret that I didn't listen to my parents in the first place." Or turn to you and ask, "Mommy and Daddy, why didn't you force me in the first place?" "Those parents who have vision will not only not fully free their children, but will help their children embark on the road of learning self-discipline through appropriate discipline."
For example, let the child practice words well, which is such a thing.
Before a good stroke of writing is important to children, the calligraphy teacher of Hangzhou Yongtian Experimental Primary School wrote a handwritten letter for new students, which amazed everyone.
More than 10 veteran professors of Shaanxi Normal University, during the opening ceremony, 4500 freshman admission letters were handwritten with brushes, which were called "the most worthy of collection" admission letters.
A good stroke of writing often shows a person's cultivation temperament. It is said that "words are like people", how well the words are written, although it cannot judge the level of a person's ability, but people who write well can often have more opportunities to show themselves. A second-year junior high school student at Shaoxing No. 1 Junior High School was invited to write a plaque for the school because of his good handwriting.
A good word not only represents the child's knowledge and attitude towards life, but also affects the child's grades. Every year during the college entrance examination season, the circle of friends will also be brushed by the full score essay of the provincial college entrance examination. If you look closely, you will find that the volumes and daily work of these elements are all clear and neat handwriting, and the pen is upright and beautiful.
Especially in recent years, with the "Writing Grade Examination" included in one of the examination items of the Shanghai Xiaosheng Junior high school and middle school examination, the curly handwriting has long become a plus point for children's test scores.
A clean and beautiful word, in the exam, first of all, can leave a good impression on the grading teacher, and this impression score may become a foot in the door to determine the child's test score. New Oriental Family Education (ID: xdfjtjy) transmits the concept of professional family education, provides family education information at home and abroad, and shares absorbable and operable methods and suggestions. Make continuous learning a habit for families.