The popularity of the drama "Mind Reader" has brought the three words of "mind reading" into people's sight.
It tells everyone that psychological and neurological research has traces to follow, and there is a certain degree of science.
The human heart is not unfathomable, and we can judge a person's true intentions and personality through a person's body language, micro-expressions, and postures.
"The Road Few People Walk" mentions that face-to-face communication can never be replaced.
Because of telephone or network communication, we cannot see each other's micro-expressions and body language, and we cannot comprehensively and comprehensively judge each other's psychological activities.
Especially for some introverted women who are not good at expressing themselves, their minds are not easy to ponder, but they can be seen through three non-verbal details.
1. The look in a woman's eyes
Cole, a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, once said:
People regard intuitive expression as the most effective way to convey information. In fact, people can tell lies, but it is difficult to hide their eyes
Pavour, an expert in gender psychology, once said:
Many ladies overlook the importance of the eye effect. Ladies don't have to underestimate men's intelligence, as long as you react accordingly through your eyes, men can understand.
Some people may say that people who are good at acting, flirting with girls or flirting with men are able to deceive people with their eyes. But there are also signs that can help us make accurate judgments.
In the first case in "Mind Reader", the female deceased ostensibly liked a male colleague who ran to help him when he was carrying out an activity in the company and the other party slipped.
But her eyes pointed to the emcee on the stage, indicating that she was using her male colleagues to anger the men she really liked, and wanted to cause the other party's jealousy.
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Like a person, must want to have eye contact with each other, eager to see each other often, eyes can reveal the love and shyness of the opposite sex.
Dodging and dodging, the eyes that want to refuse to return the favor can best reflect the other party's secret inner world. The other person will like to secretly pay attention to you, and when they see you, the eyes will stay, focused and affectionate.
2. The physical distance between a woman and a man
Psychological experiments have shown that in a large reading room with only two readers, no one can bear to have someone sitting next to them.
Anthropologist Edward Hall, the father of American spatial relations, proposed four types of interpersonal spatial distance: intimate distance, personal distance, social distance and public distance.
The intimate distance is within 45 centimeters, and during this distance, comfort, hugging, pampering and caressing can be carried out;
If a stranger invades your intimate distance, you will feel hostile and violated.
If a person likes a person wholeheartedly and trusts a person, his body language is stretched, let go, comfortable, wants to have the other person completely, expresses himself and shows himself from the heart, and at the same time enjoys the closeness and intimacy of the other party.
But if a woman has reservations about you and doesn't like you enough, then she will use her body or other objects to distance herself from men.
The body is honest and does not lie. Explain that the other party does not like your closeness, only to show resistance and resistance.
3. The reaction of the woman's feet
British psychologist Morris has found an interesting phenomenon after research:
In the human body, the farther away from the movements of the brain part, the more likely it is to express its true feelings.
Therefore, the hand can still lie. But feet are hard to lie. It can expose the unique and exclusive intimate emotions of the human heart.
When the other person likes you, his toes are facing you, staying next to you, hoping to communicate with you more closely.
If a woman doesn't like you, even if the body is facing you, the tiptoe is tilted, pointing in another direction, indicating that she wants to escape and does not want to communicate with you more and establish feelings.
Like a person, the body will also subconsciously react to the desires of the heart.
If a woman likes you and wants to develop a relationship with you further, then her feet will be biased toward you, and even crossed legs, indicating that she is more partial to you in her heart, more relaxed and trusting.
Non-verbal mind reading, compared to language, is a more real and thorough expression of emotion, if someone is like the above introduction to you, but take advantage of the opportunity!