Maternal love is great, but sometimes it is not the birth mother who can give true maternal love, sometimes it is given by others.
First, Lin Huiyin's lamentable birth mother
Lin Huiyin once described her family, or rather, her birth mother, as a relatively happy and lucky person, but the family conflicts when she was a child caused her to suffer unhealable wounds, and her mother drove her to hell. She wished she hadn't been born into such a family.
The daughter and the mother should be mother-daughter affection, but Lin Huiyin's mother, for her, is really not normal.
Lin Huiyin felt that her mother had put her in hell, and it was not that her mother did not like this daughter, but mainly because the generation gap between the two generations led to poor communication and mutual incomprehension.
He Xueyuan, Lin Huiyin's biological mother, is a woman who has not read books and lacks formal education. In addition, in the Lin family, no son was born, and her husband did not love her, and all her hopes were placed on Lin Huiyin's only child. And Lin Huiyin's mother also put her dignity in the area of self-gambling.
For example, if Lin Huiyin was playing with other wives' children, she would throw all her anger on her daughter, scold her, and beat her.
Such a traditional housewife, she will not understand lin Huiyin's world of people who accept new ideas, nor do she understand the changes in the current society, and in the family, there are not many heirs, especially no sons, so that she gradually enters the mentality of complaining about the world.
Lin Huiyin was also tormented by his mother's state.
Second, give motherly love to Cheng Guilin
The person who gave Lin Huiyin a feeling of maternal love was Cheng Guilin, her father's third aunt.
But for Lin Huiyin's birth mother, this person is the woman who snatched her husband away, and naturally hates it deeply. However, Cheng Guilin is a great contributor to the Lin family for the Lin family.
Cheng Guilin's main task in coming to the Lin family is to have children, and the Lin family also lives up to expectations, and a son is born one son at a time, and naturally becomes the hostess of the Lin family.
Although the education level of this third wife is not high, she is very sensible and treats Lin Huiyin equally.
When Lin Huiyin was young, he especially liked to go to this third lady to play with those younger brothers and sisters. However, for Lin Huiyin's birth mother, this kind of behavior is a betrayal of her, so every time she comes back from play, she will be scolded by her birth mother.
The relationship between Lin Huiyin and Cheng Guilin, the third wife, has always been particularly harmonious, perhaps because Lin Huiyin is particularly good to his younger brothers and sisters, or it may be the gentle temperament of Lin Huiyin himself.
The third wife also never regarded herself as a stepmother, but treated Lin Huiyin equally, calling her "baby".
This feeling is exactly what Lin Huiyin, who feels a lack of maternal love, needs.
When the birth mother was surrounded by resentment here, she was comforted by love in the third wife.
Later, Lin Huiyin's father, Lin Changmin, saw that she was smart and quick-witted, and he especially liked her and took her abroad to study. But Cheng Guilin did not have a little jealousy, nor did he complain to Lin Changmin, but taught his children to look up to Lin Huiyin, the eldest sister.
It is also the third wife who treats Lin Huiyin well, and also makes Lin Huiyin treat his younger brothers and sisters with no estrangement and true feelings.
Third, true love is the wisest wisdom in the world
Although Cheng Guilin is not Lin Huiyin's birth mother, her love for Lin Huiyin makes Lin Huiyin feel more than her birth mother.
When Lin Huiyin was a child, the age when he lacked the most love, Cheng Guilin's care made Lin Huiyin remember his life.
After the death of Lin Huiyin's father, the burden of the entire family was borne by Lin Huiyin. He took his mother back to his hometown in Fujian, and did not forget the third wife, Cheng Guilin, and those younger brothers and sisters.
If Lin Huiyin had not treated Cheng Guilin and her children in this way, in the era of war, it is estimated that these orphans and widows would not be able to survive.
Not only that, lin Huiyin once returned to his hometown in Fujian after marrying Liang Sicheng, promising to take responsibility for the education of his younger siblings.
Cheng Guilin did not see the outside, because in her heart, Lin Huiyin was like her own child.
After Cheng Guilin's children gradually grew up, some wanted to go to Beiping to find Lin Huiyin's sister, and when the whole war was raging, Cheng Guilin did not hesitate to agree. Because of her unconditional trust in Lin Huiyin, in her heart, this is the same as her own daughter, the younger brothers and sisters go to her and will definitely take care of her. And Lin Huiyin is indeed like this, these younger brothers and sisters have been meticulously taken care of by Lin Huiyin.
And these children are also out of their own minds, and they are all famous in their respective fields. Lin Huiyin's third brother, Lin Heng, who was also Cheng Guilin's biological son, went to the military academy and eventually became a pilot. Unfortunately, in the end, he died on the battlefield and repaid the motherland.
The poem "Crying Three Brother Heng" is the mourning poem of Lin Huiyin's third brother who was only 23 years old at the time of his sacrifice.
Although his own children sacrificed their lives for the country, and the white-haired people sent black-haired people, Cheng Guilin's life was much more relaxed than Lin Huiyin's birth mother. She has always cared for Lin Huiyin as her own daughter, and Lin Huiyin naturally took care of her as her own mother.
After the death of Lin Huiyin, the pillar of the family, Lin Huiyin also became the reliance of everyone.
Therefore, in life, we must know how to love and tolerate, which is the most intelligent way to deal with the world.