Enrich your heart
Life is full of wind and rain, and only those who are rich in their hearts can not be swayed by temporary honor and humiliation.
There is such a hermit in the Chinese literary world, who has had ups and downs in his life, but he has never forgotten the pursuit in his heart, he is Mu Xin.
During the war-torn years, Mu Xin gave up the good life at home and went to the Mogan Mountains in the barren mountains and mountains to live in seclusion and creation.
Outside the window, the cold wind is cold, and the wooden heart in the house reads, draws, writes, listens to music, wanders in the world of art and talks with great people, and builds an inner world that is richer than gold and jade food.
People with abundant hearts, let you wind and frost rain and snow, have their own mountains and rivers and the sun and the moon in their hearts.
Once upon a time, we were so hungry for outside recognition.
After seeing the prosperity of the world, I finally found that happiness had nothing to do with them.
You don't have to live as a scenery in the eyes of others, and the calm and calm of the heart is the most important.
Boost your belly
There's a couplet that says it well:
"The belly can tolerate the things that are difficult to tolerate in the world; when you open your mouth, you laugh, and laugh at the ridiculous people in the world."
People who measure big don't have messy things in their hearts.
I once watched a conversation between a young man and a Zen master, which was very interesting.
The young man told the Zen master:
"There are so many chores to be solved every day, and I have a very unhappy life."
The Zen master smiled and did not speak, but just brought a cup of water and a basin of water next to him, and sprinkled a small spoonful of salt in it for the young man to taste.
The water in the cup was very salty, and the young man spit it all out after tasting it;
And the water in the basin tastes nothing.
The two containers taste completely different because of the volume of water.
This is also like our life, enlarging the belly, not remembering the worries, the days will naturally be harmonious and happy.
Be kind to your family
How your career is, how many friends you have, it is because you have a family that you have a foundation.
When you degrade your family to worthlessness, you can't keep decency;
When you break your family," your luck has long since dissipated.
The deepest happiness is nothing more than the family sitting idly, and the lights are amiable.
Think for a few seconds before you say to your family, "Got it, it's really verbose"; when you say "Don't do it again, you can't do it well", change it; when you say "Your set is outdated", quietly hide it.
If you have the power to get angry, it's that your family has given you too much tolerance, and you deserve to be kind to them.
And Yan Yue color to the family, all your blessings, only then have a source.
Always with an altruistic heart
A person's value is not only reflected in oneself, but also in the ability to help others.
There was once a kind middle-aged couple who, after being laid off, chose to open a small restaurant.
In addition, every time the couple saw a beggar at the door begging for food, they would give them some new meals instead of what was left over from other customers.
One night, a fire broke out in the restaurant, and the fire was more fierce.
In a time of crisis, those who often came to beg risked their lives to help the couple move their things out.
The shop next to it, because the rescue was not timely, suffered heavy losses.
Man is like a whale, constantly sending radio waves to the outside world, looking for his kind.
Selfish people attract people who are also calculating.
And people who are altruistic from the heart must attract more nobles.
The more you fulfill, the more people you will fulfill.
Even if there is no feedback for the time being, there will always be someone who will read your good, even if your fulfillment is very small, you will always accumulate enough positive energy and begin to become powerful.
Source: Inspirational Positive Energy of Chicken Soup for the Soul