Wen | SuHun Er (Author of Fu Shu)
Recently, I saw a message on the Internet that a guy with cerebral palsy in Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province, had become a senior network engineer.
It was shocking and at the same time respectful.
Wan Ling, a 26-year-old boy from Gaoyou, Yangzhou, suffered from cerebral palsy due to illness at an early age, with limited mobility and very difficult language expression.
But with his strong perseverance, he has obtained the CCIE Senior Network Engineer certification, which only 50,000 people in the world can pass.
This is globally recognized as the most authoritative certification in the IT industry.
To put it bluntly, as a sound normal person, it is not generally difficult for us to complete this professional certification, not to mention that it is not easy for a cerebral palsy patient to achieve such impressive results.
As a special group, it is not easy to live in itself.
But this guy rebuilt his life from the ruins with his own hands and played a bad hand so wonderfully, how did he do it?
Tagore said, "The world kisses me with pain, and I will repay it with a song." ”
Looking at the experience of the cerebral palsy guy, it is not difficult for us to find that behind the success of the crippled life, there are 3 truths about life.
It's hard to live, and don't easily bow to fate
Wan Ling was born because of a lack of calcium, and when he was 6 years old, he was helped to walk slowly.
After entering junior high school, he became interested in computers, but because of his disability, he was often slighted by his classmates.
When I was in junior high school, I was rejected by many schools again and again, and it was my mother who went to the principal to write a letter of guarantee, and I was reluctantly admitted.
In 2010, due to the failure of the middle school entrance examination, WanLing had to choose a computer major in higher vocational colleges and universities, and he often used his summer vacation time to go to the electronic city of Gaoyou City to work, learn the latest computer accessories information, and also learn new technologies.
Who would have thought that he, unwilling to succumb to fate, would rely on his own tenacity to successfully advance his career by self-study after graduating from college.
By chance, Wanling participated in the skills competition held by the Disabled Persons' Federation, and under the encouragement and recommendation of Jiang Zhaoyin, a teacher from Yangzhou Institute of Science and Technology, Wanling entered Jianghai College for deeper learning, which lasted two years.
In order to prove his strength, he resolutely decided to go to the CCIE Senior Network Engineer examination.
He was not discouraged after the first failure, and after retaking the exam, he finally got the CCIE certificate, which is the top certification in the field of Internetworking in the world.
In 2020, Wanling founded its own technology company.
The company participated in another company's 14-hour core network cutover, involving production lines in multiple places and a variety of EMS systems, but it lived up to expectations and the company was finally successfully transformed.
Do not bow to fate, do not easily admit defeat, let Wanling repeatedly frustrated and successful in the bumps along the way.
Later, the company took over a large technical project, because the server had problems in some aspects, it has not been solved well, and several technical personnel were sent at that time to solve it, and finally the company sent Wanling out.
Wan Ling worked for two or three hours before he gnawed this hard bone down.
It is the success of this time that makes Wanling famous.
He said: "In fact, we are not bad, sometimes what is missing is only an opportunity, an affirmation. ”
There is a phenomenon in psychology called the "mushroom law".
Mushrooms that grow in dark corners, because they do not get sunlight and have no fertilizer, have been in a state of self-destruction for a long time.
If it gives up growing in the early stages, it can only remain silent in this darkness forever.
In the process of growing up, everyone will experience a lot of resistance, especially for people with physical disabilities, it is really difficult to live.
If you are like a mushroom, not afraid of hardships and tribulations, and insist on growing upwards, you will one day be able to break through the darkness and see the light.
Accept the facts that happened, accept your own imperfections
This reminds me of another news that brushed the whole network a while ago, Yuan Xin, a one-armed teenager with a doctor in Wuhan who lost his right arm due to a car accident, read all the way from undergraduate to doctorate, and in 7 years he won more than 30 awards by knocking on the code with one hand.
Yuan Xin, a 26-year-old doctoral student at Wuhan University of Science and Technology, lost his right arm in a car accident at the age of three, and he completed various daily routines such as eating, writing, and typing with one hand.
Ben, Master, Bo all the way forward, he has paid a thousand times more effort than others, and the academic achievements achieved in recent years have allowed him to meet the conditions for doctoral graduation.
Although he lost an arm, he always smiled brightly and was full of vitality.
He said: "Without arms, although this is the arrangement of fate, but without these difficulties and setbacks, there may not be me now." There is always someone to win in life, why can't it be me? ”
He never complained about fate, and accepted suffering, restrictions, and all unsatisfactory things without fear.
That once painful life experience gave birth to a powerful force beyond himself, allowing him to live stronger and more wonderfully than ordinary people.
To live, you can't do everything as you wish, try to accept those imperfections.
At the 2022 spring and summer Shanghai Fashion Week, a model named Niu Yu wore a mechanical leg catwalk, and the video quickly rushed to the hot search on the same day and became popular on the Internet.
In the 2008 Wenchuan earthquake, 11-year-old Niu Yu was crushed by a stone slab under the rubble of a collapsed classroom, and after being rescued for three days and three nights, Niu Yu saved his life, but lost his right leg forever.
She was once unacceptable and went through a long period of lows.
The love from all walks of life and the encouragement of relatives gradually let Niu Yu come out, and she began to learn to face herself, live actively, and not have to force herself to become the same as before, she worked hard to accept her current appearance.
She once said: Although we are not perfect, we are still beautiful, we also breathe air, enjoy freedom, love sports and life, and our lack of disability cannot stop our love of life.
Although heaven deprived her of her health, it gave her tenacious vitality and energy. She uses the most fashionable melody to take the most confident and firm steps.
A quote from The Shawshank Redemption: "There are birds that are destined not to be kept in cages, and every feather of theirs shines with the radiance of freedom." ”
Even if a bird is put in a cage and folds its wings, it will have a flying power, break free from the shackles of the cage, and soar freely in the sky that belongs to it.
Man must learn to accept the facts that have happened, to accept the impermanence of fate, and to accept his own imperfections.
I believe that all of this is a gift of fate, containing your unexpected meaning and blessings, helping you to grow better.
Rely on yourself in everything and bravely carry the difficulties of life
Zhu Fengbo, 41 years old this year, is a villager in Yaochang Village, Yuelai Town, Haimen District, Nantong City, Jiangsu Province.
At the age of 2 he developed polio, which left his legs disabled.
As an adult, he did not give up on himself because of this, but became more and more sensible.
He reads and studies at home during the day, and when the students are out of school, he helps the left-behind children in the village to do their homework.
It is commendable that in the past 17 years, we have been volunteering to tutor children in their studies.
In September 2021, he was named on the "China Good People List" and was called "amateur teacher in a wheelchair".
Zhu Fengbo, a disabled boy, became a "teacher" praised by people, but he confessed that he was a little afraid, in his view, this is his return to society.
Even if the body is crippled and the life is difficult, but by hard work, you can still live out your own value and the meaning of existence.
Tan Ting, a post-90s deaf girl, became China's first deaf lawyer. She was born in Daliangshan, Sichuan, and at the age of 8, she unfortunately lost her hearing due to improper treatment of otitis media.
There was no local school to accept her, and for 5 years, Tan Ting had to study at home according to the Xinhua Dictionary.
It was not until the age of 13 that he entered the Xichang Special Education School and began to learn sign language.
From high school to college to work, Tan Ting tightly grasped the straw of "learning" to avoid falling into a trough.
Stubborn, she passed the judicial examination after three efforts and is now working for a law firm in Chongqing, becoming China's first deaf lawyer.
Many hearing-impaired people do not know how to defend their rights, and Tan Ting uses her profession to help more vulnerable groups in need.
Tan Ting used a pair of talking hands to bring the voice of justice to every silent corner.
This reminds me of a problem in The Ferryman:
"If fate were a lonely river, who would be the ferryman of your soul?"
The answer is obviously yourself, the more difficult it is, the more you have to rely on yourself to survive.
All adversity is a whetstone.
Everyone will experience the darkest moment in their lives, when you will find that the help of others is temporary, and only by relying on their own efforts will they live out the beauty of life.
As long as you are brave enough to bear your own difficulties, the door of the new world will also be opened for you.
Tai Lihua once said:
"In fact, everyone's life is the same. There are circles, there are absences, there are fullnesses, there are empty. You can't choose your life, but you can choose the way you look at life. ”
In the face of the blow of fate, we must also live stubbornly with our heads held high, and strive to tap the beauty of life.
In the face of the impermanence of life, we must also bravely shoulder the difficulties of life and strive to reborn ourselves.
In the face of the imperfections of reality, we must also discover ourselves, accept ourselves, and bravely live ourselves.
Find your own path to salvation and knock on the door of a new world in your own way.
In the darkness of not seeing the future, persevere, survive, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, wait for the opportunity of life, we must seize it to create the next miracle.
Believe me: what you have lost will come back in another way.
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