Can you still be friends after a breakup?
Some people say that even if you can't be a lover, you can still become a friend, is it difficult to break up and become an enemy? Others say that it is impossible for someone who has truly loved to become a friend because you are not willing to retreat to the position of a friend.
And for those who have been deeply in love, even if they break up, they will not break all contact at once, TA needs a transition to slowly forget each other, before that, TA's performance is still like before, continue to pay attention to TA, or become the other extreme, do not want to have any contact with TA, and some people will make themselves better and better in order to fight for a breath.
In short, as long as you have really paid feelings, you will not be so easy to go into a strange road with each other, which must require a process, you do not want to forget, but it takes a time.
Two people who have been deeply in love, after "disconnecting", there will be three obvious manifestations.
01
Keep an eye on each other's news
If you have been in love but separated for various reasons, then you cannot fully get out of it for a period of time after separation.
During this time period, the two people will continue to pay attention to each other's news, but the two sides do not necessarily know, so they silently pay attention to it, just want to see their current life.
Although it is said that this will not save anything, at least at this moment, I still need to miss the past to spend, maybe with the passage of time, slowly forget, but now it is still not possible.
Only those who have been deeply in love will continue to pay attention to each other's news after the end of the relationship, want to know whether they are doing well or not, and want to know whether they have new emotional progress.
Those who can be broken, to put it bluntly, have not loved so deeply, in order to leave so calmly.
02
I don't want to intersect with him anymore
Of course, there is another extreme, that is, after separation, I don't want to see ta again, I don't want to talk to ta again, and I don't want to intersect with ta.
You may feel that this is a kind of hate, hate TA does not want to intersect with TA, but in fact, it is not like this, it is nothing more than having loved deeply, will not be able to accept such an ending, but also do not know how to face, can only choose to escape.
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I am only afraid that if I see him again, he will expose all his intentions, and he is only afraid that he will intersect with him again, and he can't help but have a heart that is worried.
Anyway, they are already separated, let each other end here, let each other end like this, don't have any more contact, let alone intersect, maybe this is also a good way.
Don't look forward to starting again, ending with such expectations will only make you more unwilling, and the key is that you can't save anything.
03
Make yourself better
If there is a better ending after two people break up, it must be that they are firm in their future path and are willing to make themselves better.
Whether it is out of reluctance, or want to fight for breath, deliberately make yourself excellent, is a better choice, at least this ending is to pave the way for your future.
Maybe at first your purpose is not this, just gamble with the other party, but slowly you will find that when you get better and better, you will forget the pain brought to you by this relationship, and you will forget this person.
At the same time, the one who becomes sparkling will definitely attract more people of the same frequency, at this time, where there is still the heart to think about the previous things, just waiting for the future good life.
04
Conclusion
After two people break up, it is impossible to put it down at once, and it will take time to heal.
In the process, you may recall the good old days, you may continue to pay attention to the other party's news, which is normal, do not have to be too harsh on yourself, do not have to force yourself to forget.
When you slowly start to do your own things and live in your own world, you will find that the heavens and the earth are big, these pains are nothing at all, only the wrong people can meet the right people.
Let each other forget each other in the rivers and lakes, after that, the mountains are high and the road is far away, and they will never see each other again!