I have to say that most people's lives are very boring, and sometimes, in order to alleviate this boredom, men will choose to find a woman who looks good to talk about a relationship to enrich their lives.
Such a man, who has no sincerity towards women, just plays casually. Women are most afraid of meeting such a man, so in the face of men's pursuit, many women always seem very cautious, afraid that they will accidentally like a gamer "prodigal son".
But some things are invincible, and if you don't have a pair of clear enough eyes, it's hard to tell if a man is serious about you. Most of the women who can avoid scumbags have a pair of "wise eyes". The man with you in his heart will "cheekily" ask these 4 questions, and women don't understand it!
1. What do you usually like to do?
There is a certain difference between the hobbies of men and women, and the man who has you in his heart can't help but ask what you usually like to do, he hopes to know you as much as possible, hopes to find a gap in your answer, and integrate himself into your life.
If a man just wants to "tickle" you, he won't care what you like because he doesn't want to waste time with you doing things he doesn't like, and people who aren't sincere enough won't choose to please women in such an strenuous way.
2. Do I have a lot of shortcomings?
Everyone has their own shortcomings, some of which we know in our own hearts, but we are not willing to bother to correct them, but there are some shortcomings that we are not aware of.
If a man has you in his heart, he will can't help but ask you if he has any shortcomings that you are not accustomed to, and he hopes that he can change them and become a person who makes you more satisfied as much as possible. If a man doesn't have you in his heart, he won't ask you that because he doesn't care what you think.
3. Have you been busy lately?
Once a man has you in his heart, he can't help but care about everything about you, and sometimes you may just forget to reply to him for a while, and he will also be very sensitive to ask you such a question.
In fact, he just wants to make sure that you are really busy with something, or deliberately do not want to pay attention to yourself, women should know the man's heart. If it is not intentional to you, the man will not care about these details, even if he occasionally suffers from your snub, he will not feel that there is a call.
4. What is the future you are looking forward to?
Even if a man who is confused and meets a woman he really likes, he will find the direction of life in an instant and will no longer be willing to continue to muddle.
If a man really has you in his heart, he will not help but plan you into his future, he will not help but ask you what kind of future you are looking forward to, he hopes that he can have a number in his heart, and he wants to set a goal for himself now and work hard for your common future.
"Most of the fate is fleeting, and not being able to catch it is an eternal regret."
Although people's life seems to be long, as if they have countless possibilities, in fact, once they are missed, they can never be encountered again.
If you meet a man who asks you 4 questions, don't answer him vaguely, if you like, hide your heart in the answer and tell him, if you don't like it, explicitly reject him. Many times, we fall in love with a person, and we are not afraid of being rejected directly by the other party, and we are afraid that the other party obviously does not like ourselves, but we always hang ourselves and are unwilling to give ourselves a clear answer.
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