Those who do not know and do not do, know and do not do, just do not know.
- "Transmission"
There are no people who know and don't do it, people who know and don't do it, that's because they don't know.
I once talked to a friend about a topic. The child's performance in school is acceptable, but he does his best to work with his parents at home, and he is rebellious and can't do it. Sometimes parents are urged to write homework tightly, and they will yell at their parents. For this, my friend has a lot of headaches. Sometimes I can't bear to beat up my child fiercely, but I can't bear it.
The friend was anxious and advised him not to be in a hurry. Because there is no hurry, there can be no hurry. The more urgent, the easier it is for the situation to backfire. Whether it's reason, or comfort to yourself. They can only be kind and patient to wait for the flowers to bloom...
I can understand my friend's mood, but adults really need to be rational. In addition to communication, there is only communication in children's affairs. Friends have always been confused about why the child is in such a state at home if they are sentenced to two people at school and at home.
Knowledge and action are one, and if we feel that knowing is not doing, the source problem is "knowing." When communicating, it does not enter the child's heart, and the degree of heart walking is not enough for the child. If his inner world chooses to be closed and limited, any educational behavior can only be steadily slowed down.
Zhang Guimei, an outstanding Communist Party member, has been rooted in education in the impoverished mountainous areas of western Yunnan for more than 40 years, and has traveled more than 110,000 kilometers in his home visits. Burn yourself and illuminate others. She has always regarded teaching and educating people as her life ideal and goal.
There is a saying in the "Middle Way": "A gentleman obeys the way, and gives up halfway, and Wu Fu can be finished." "The simple meaning is that there are some people who understand the reason and follow the Tao, but because of their strength, they give up halfway, and I (Confucius) will not stop.
The key to the unity of knowledge and action is to know deeply and sincerely enough to become a high standard for action. Zhang Guimei knows deeply and sincerely, adheres to the original mission, and is committed to educating and serving the country. While achieving countless children, he has also achieved his own life.
What is not known and not done, if it feels that it is known and not done, it is not true knowledge. People often need to think, need to summarize, and do everything to be implemented into action.
What can be intuitively seen is that the child's behavior has deviated, but if parents only adjust the child's behavior itself when educating their children, it may have little effect.
If the old knowledge, the ideological understanding is highly insufficient. Any bad behavior of others, in addition to being directly corrected from behavior, can also be guided from ideological understanding, and guide the height of new knowledge, so as to achieve more positive results. Be a person like Zhang Guimei who knows and acts together.
