Text/Moran
In this world, we will deal with different people, no matter who we get along with, do not trust absolutely, everything must know how to leave to the heart.
You can be nice to a person, but don't take out your lungs in everything, because human nature is a difficult thing to see through.
Whether a person is worth paying is not to look at the surface, but to see the long-term. Some people may cover up very well on the surface, and you simply don't know what the other person really thinks.
Therefore, getting along with people, the heart of harming people must not be there, but the heart of preventing people must not be without, and everything is to keep more eyes on yourself, which is to leave a good way back for yourself.
Don't be easily seduced by superficial things
It is said that a lot of what the human eye sees is not real, and when you get along with people, don't believe what you see, but feel it with your heart.
A person may be disguised on the surface, but the heart should not be able to hide, try to feel with the heart, and use time to see what a person really looks like.
Don't be deceived by superficial beauty at any time, and don't trust a person easily, because there are many people that you simply can't see through with your eyes.
In real life, there may be people who are good at using the sincerity and kindness of others to obtain their own benefits.
You can be kind and good to a person, but be measured and don't blindly believe.
Although kindness is a very precious thing, excessive kindness will give others the opportunity to hurt you, and use the kindness of others to squeeze you.
In the process of getting along with a person, do not look at the superficial things, to see a person's actual efforts, and then choose to believe, because the world is not true to be able to change to the true heart, everything is good to keep the bottom line.
Don't trust it, just give it
In real life, there will be such a person, seeing that a person is not having a good life, he will overflow with compassion and blindly pay.
In fact, being able to do your best to help a person is your own kindness and quality, but if you just for the sake of face, to blindly support yourself, there is no point in consuming yourself.
No matter how much you want to help a person, at least you must recognize whether the other party is worth it, and helping a person depends on ability, and it is worth it.
Some people may get in the way of face, the other party to borrow money without saying a word, the result is that their own life is affected, and then the other party has no ability to repay, not only hurt themselves, but also hurt each other's relationship.
In fact, many times to help people is also moderate, you can trust a person, but do not trust too much, always understand whether the other party is worth it.
Don't affect your life because of others, the first thing you have to do is to live your own life first, and then help people who deserve to help when you have the ability, so that it is the best way to get along.
Don't overestimate your place in the other person's heart
The reason why many people end up in pain is because they take themselves too seriously and pay too much attention to their position in each other's hearts, resulting in a gap between them, and their own inner imbalance and become painful.
The most important thing with people is a sense of proportion. No matter how good the relationship with a person, you are also friends, not relatives, and you may not be important to the other party.
Before unconditionally believing in a person, you should leave a good way back for yourself, after all, human nature is something that cannot be guessed, and you are not worth the other party at all.
Everything is too extreme, there is no reservation, and if you are too close to a person, it is easy to lose, because feelings too hard will produce a gap.
Everyone has their own life and circle, you can get along, but keep measured, don't rush to prove your feelings, time will let you see each other clearly, just keep a comfortable state.
summary:
Getting along with people is more of a kind of wisdom and learning.
Truly intelligent people never give everything in one go, but have reservations, just like loving someone can, but don't blindly give, otherwise it will only be yourself who will be hurt.
Getting along with people, no matter how good each other's feelings are, always have yourself first, keep a few hearts and eyes, and maintain a measure, which is the best way.