Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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The interaction between men and women requires the beginning of a two-way rush to establish a relationship! So, what does the length of intercourse between men and women depend on?
In the current concept of marriage and love, I don't know how many people have put women in the "reality" queue. Therefore, there are countless women, who have been stabbed by the conceptualization of such a queue.
In fact, the vast majority of women still value feelings and do not look at reality! Whether the man is healthy, sick, rich or poor, or even flawed, she falls in love with him and will be the rest of her life.
As long as men do not abandon her, she will definitely live and die together!
But the reality is that as long as men feel that there is a "gap" between women and their own cognition, they will definitely decide to turn around and have no room to speak of! No matter how deep or low his cognition is, he will feel that he is "unworthy" of women!
Or, during the continuation of the relationship, the man has already begun to weigh the triangle relationship!
In the face of feelings, the attitudes of men and women have almost never been the same frequency!
The vast majority of men are more realistic; the vast majority of women only care about love or not!
In a relationship between a man and a woman, as long as the object of the emotional relationship meets the requirements of the man's "reality", he will take this care to operate with heart! Otherwise, no matter how good a woman is, men will not be a little more patient with her.
And women, as long as they feel that men love themselves, even if the rest of their lives are swords and mountains and fires, they will be in the same boat without complaint or regret.
The reality of men facing feelings is far beyond women's imagination! Even, all the signs of love that men have shown in the past are observed in the "action" how much the woman in front of them makes themselves unchangeable "worthy"!
I don't know since when the real society has forced women to become independent men one by one. Men, on the other hand, label women's passive independence as gender and are called "rights"!
As everyone knows, such a label is how much helplessness and heartache a woman is!
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The current woman, want to love, do not dare to love, do not dare to love and look forward to love! Later, after tearing up the heart and lungs again and again, it was decided:
For the rest of his life, he only tried to make money and loved himself, and as for men, he didn't want to get close anymore! Why?
In an emotional relationship, the woman's immateriality is advantageously used by the man as a tool for the use of "moral kidnapping". It also threatens:
Aren't you immaterial? Why bother with me for details?
In fact, immaterial women really do not care about men's economic foundation and family lineage, and even feel disgusted by a very small number of same-sex people who live for high-priced bride price...
However, it does not mean that in the process of two people's interaction, the cost of promoting the feelings of two people within the economic scope can be exempted one by one.
A sentence that "you claim that you are not material, don't talk about things with materials again" to morally kidnap women is a great humiliation to women!
Many times, men are not ignorant, they are just willing to pretend to be confused! Because, the zero-cost relationship can not only bring them more sense of achievement, but also allow themselves to perform very high-end door cutting.
And a man's zero-cost interaction does not necessarily mean that he will be responsible for such a "stupid woman" for the rest of his life.
Because, in their actual hearts, they are still considering a "value" problem!
If the woman in front of him is valuable to his own life, he will choose to "love" her, and the greater the value, the longer he will love her! Even, it will turn zero cost into an investment of "cost and profit"!
Otherwise, the value of existence disappears and the man disappears!
In particular, for those who interact with zero cost, they may have estimated the value of a woman's existence from the beginning "not high", so they are not willing to "input cost"!
In the face of reality, men's love or non-love depends on 2 words: value!
In men's view, the combination of feelings seems to require the true face of "win-win", which is: the emergence of a woman can increase the prosperity of her life.
Women, although hoping to have a man appear, can give their lives more prosperous. But:
Men's prosperity is aimed at real life! The prosperity of a woman refers to her eternal life in love!
In this way, the "value" of a woman determines her status and the length of time she is loved in a relationship between a man and a woman.
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Some women, because of the lessons of the previous failed emotional experience, have become strong men who are only pragmatic and far away.
Some women, because they see more realistic love, devalue women cruelly, so they dare not get too close to love no matter what! Instead of worrying about repeating the same mistakes on men again, it is better to run your own life!
Will a man love a woman deeply, never look at her appearance and figure, understand things or not... But in the face of reality, which woman carries a higher "value" herself!
Among the countless sentences written to women, there is no shortage of such sentences that are regarded as classics:
If you bloom, the butterflies will come!
It looks very beautiful, in fact, it is not a kind of sadness with heartache!
A woman's efforts are not just for the sake of waiting for butterflies. Instead, it is to strive to create a sense of self-security, establish the ability to survive independently, enrich their spiritual world, and usher in a life of equal strength, which may include a butterfly that "smells the incense"!
In the relationship between men and women, the most important thing is "equal".
If a woman does not match a man in terms of vision and height, it will reduce the man's enjoyment of life.
A woman, if she is out of the social circle and loses the ability to make money, is bound to become a person who stands still or regresses, which will also make men who have been improving face her with a negative attitude.
When a woman's realistic existence value and the man happen to match, or are better than the man in the relationship, the man will be more hot!
The real relationship is like this, you have no value, you will be "eliminated"!
Those stories of princes and Cinderella, in real life, never existed!
Many men will only practice love around those women who have low "value", and finally they will enter marriage with a woman with high "value" and spend the rest of their lives together after they are apprenticed!
Many women say that the way he loves someone is never the way he stays with me!
In fact, it is "the true appearance of his original love for a person, only paying attention to who is the value of his own life prosperity"!
Men treat feelings with realistic sanity! Therefore, they are more likely to achieve happiness than women!
Women's sense of purpose in their feelings is often blind, and they initially think that they are loved and get used to the existence of a person. Later, because of the habit of a person's existence in his own life, he could not let go of a person who was destined to stay away from himself without interests!
When it comes to what is right and wrong in feelings, in fact, there is no one who is right and who is wrong! Only who is more willing to recognize reality in the face of survival and life!
Giraffes can't fall in love with an ant! This is the most realistic gap!
A lot of women say that as long as I do well enough, he will love me forever! Later, all the good of women, because the actual "value" is not enough, the affection will be consumed by men one by one!
You know, there will never be too much shortage of women around men, as long as they are acting and working hard enough, they will not be singles! In fact, what he really lacks is a woman who can help himself!
Feelings are like this, you are willing to live in a dream, don't blame reality for pumping your face! When you pay attention to reality, reality will tell you at a specific time how to improve yourself and achieve yourself, so that you can have the right to dominate your feelings!
If you want a long-term and high-quality relationship, you must first achieve yourself, so that you can attract excellent people, love each other in the blessing of value, and complete the consummation of the old with the white head!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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