Jimu commented | "The benefactor deleted my WeChat", looking for it or not, the love is there

Jimu News commentator Wu Shuangjian

Xie Yang (pseudonym) is a senior student at Southwest University for Nationalities, seven years ago, Xie Yang met the pilot Bing Ge (pseudonym) on foot tourism, and after learning that Xie Yang's family was in difficulty, Bing Ge began to sponsor him to go to school. On January 1, Brother Bing transferred another 6,000 yuan to Xie Yang and encouraged him: "When you graduate, forget that someone has helped you with this..." After that, Xie Yang found that Brother Bing deleted his WeChat. (According to the People's Daily on January 5)

In the end, Xie Yang found Brother Bing with the help of the media. He is a 32-year-old pilot born in a remote county town in Fujian Province, and has sponsored seven or eight students, and one student has been admitted to Tsinghua University. Brother Bing said: "I just do my own thing, I can't put a burden on their psychology." ”

Ice Brother said it so well. Being able to do charity in obscurity and think from the perspective of the recipient is a pattern and realm.

Doing charity is a technical job. Some people do charity, afraid that others will not know, please come to the media, in front of the camera to publicize, set up a "human set", and finally someone dug, it is simply "fake donation", the image fell to the ground.

But some people do charity, but they can do it in obscurity. For example, Ningbo's "Let It Be", anonymous donations of more than 10 million in 23 years. Others, even if exposed, laugh at accusations and doubts and continue to do good deeds.

In fact, as long as it is a real donation, a big fanfare, or a lack of obscurity, it should be encouraged and supported. But the latter is often more impressive. As soon as the report of "benefactor deleted my WeChat" came out, some netizens said that they came out with tears when they read it. Some netizens also said that you don't want to be famous, but we still hope that you can be famous.

Doing charity without asking for anything in return is true. But the sponsors still hope that the good deeds they do will have a positive response. Who doesn't want the students they sponsor to be able to go out of the mountains, get into a good university, and enter the society to become talents? Who doesn't want the people they fund to be able to contribute to society and pass on their love?

Funding is both a moral pressure and a positive incentive. However, whether it can finally meet expectations depends on different people and different environments, and I am afraid that there will be different results. "Don't cause psychological burden to others", in fact, I still want them to unload their burdens, pack lightly, and meet more challenges.

The reason why "Ice Brother" is touching is this "let nature" mentality. Life is a long way, and from now on it is up to you. Conversely, it is also an incentive.

Xie Yang, who was looking for someone, was also touching. The person who sponsored him deleted his own WeChat, cut off contact with the benefactor, and could not pass the internal barrier, and had to find him, which was reassuring. This is also a pattern.

I believe that he really took this pressure as a positive incentive to move forward in his life, and when he has the ability, he will definitely pass on his love.

Some people have funded "Ice Brother", "Ice Brother" also to fund others, this kind of transmission, is not all obscure? From those popular "doctoral dissertation thanks", "doctoral dissertation afterword" and "Tsinghua student tree cave text", it is not difficult to see the figure of "ice brother", on their growth path, send warmth, light up the lights of life for them.

The "Ice Brothers" are hidden in the crowd, naturally igniting hope for others and sowing the seeds of love. To find or not to find, the benefactor is there, the love is there.

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