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Author: More more, original author of the emotional essay
What love is, I don't think there is a fixed answer. Some people think that love is the matter of green plum bamboo horses, two people from young to old, together to old, the process in the middle is love.
This kind of love can be very much in love without effort, because they are familiar enough to walk together for many, many years.
For some people, love is not a necessity, love is something that adds flowers to the scene, just like actress Yu Feihong said in an interview: "Love is definitely not a necessity for me, love is like an effervescent film, the process of bubbles popping out is like love, but you know, love will disappear one day, love will decrease."
So don't feel that love is eternal, you should feel love with such a mentality. Love is something that adds to the scene for me. ”
I think women should have the attitude of Yu Feihong when they treat love, don't think that love is a necessity, don't meet a person who feels true love, absolutely not necessarily, because many times women in love are easy to become very stupid, and the IQ will become very low.
It's easy to give it all to a man. The result is that many women are injured and deeply injured.
In fact, many people fall in love with another person, like another person is not verbal expression, but with practical actions to show their hearts, this kind of person is very pragmatic, very practical.
Many women often don't like such men, and always feel that this kind of person who doesn't say anything and does things silently is very boring. But women should be looking for such men.
Even if such a man's mouth can't say, but they are really good to you, and many times, men love you or not, whether they have you in their hearts can be seen in many small things.
Do you say there are many big things in your life? In fact, no, after all, no one's life is full of wind and waves, and life is also accumulated by some very trivial and messy things.
Many times, men love you or not, and whether they have you in their hearts or not is manifested in some details. If a man makes you unable to find even the details of loving you, then he is definitely not loving you.
Well, if you want to find out if a man has you in his heart and ask him three questions, there will be an answer.
First: "In?" ”
Nowadays, as long as people who can use smart phones can be said to be mobile phones, from time to time will open the mobile phone, brush the mobile phone, see if there is any news, look at the circle of friends or something.
In fact, this makes everyone's love or everyone's communication more and more simple and more casual. Just like the relationship between men and women, maybe it is because of WeChat, or other social software.
It really just doesn't seem formal enough, it's not ceremonial enough. Some of them chat and chat and the relationship changes, but in fact, it is only online that is very good.
Just as you want to know if a man loves you or not, you directly ask him if you love me? Even if he replies very directly that he loves you, can you be sure that he really loves you? Not necessarily.
After all, everyone can shoot at the mouth, simple three words I love you, how simple, ah, but he may just say a word, the actual action does not show that he loves you.
But if you ask, "In?" "There's so much he can show. If a guy cares about you and loves you very much, he will definitely set you up as a "strong reminder" and doesn't want to miss any of your messages.
Every day is like waiting for your message, as soon as you hear the phone ringing, pick up the phone to see if you send a message, you ask him if he is there, he replied to you at the first time. Then he really cares about you.
If you think about it, who hasn't had a problem this year, who isn't busy? But if a man, no matter how busy, can be the first to reply to you to ask him if he is in this message.
Not only will he reply to you, but he will also care about asking you what is wrong, what is wrong, and reply to all your messages very seriously, then he must care about you very much.
Second: "What are you best at?" ”
Men who like a woman, fall in love with a woman, and definitely want to show their best side in front of the woman they like.
He will attract the woman he likes by elevating his attractiveness. Especially the best thing, in front of the woman she likes, can make her feel great.
You might as well ask the man what he's best at, and you need to be patient to hear how he answers you after you've asked. And show that you are very interested in what he is good at. See how he reacts.
If it is the two of you chatting face-to-face, you will listen very carefully, if it is online, you must also quietly wait for him to finish, and respond from time to time.
Because men will show themselves in front of the women they like, of course, this display is not a display of x, but a sense of superiority and presence in front of the women they like.
If a man tells you that he can't do anything, it proves that he doesn't have you in his heart and has no interest in you.
You know, a man who is interested in women will absolutely talk about what he is good at and will patiently tell you why he is best at it.
Third: "What are your plans for the future?" ”
What's the most romantic thing? It is that the other party has you in the future plan, and he is willing to go to the future with you.
Compared with men's rhetoric, compared to men's vows, what women need is a sense of security, which is what men do in a down-to-earth manner.
When you ask a man, "What are your plans for the future?" "If he answers you very seriously and gives you the reaction that there is you, then it proves everything."
If his future plans don't have anything to do with you, then he certainly doesn't care about you.
If he tells you that there are many things he wants to do with you in his future plans, it proves that he cares about you, wants to have a future with you, wants to have a lot of things to do with you, and only with you.
A man with a sweet mouth does speak well, but he can't do anything substantive, then he doesn't care about you at all.
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The man who really loves you is hidden in the details, and these details need to be discovered by yourself, and you can ask the above three questions to see what his reaction is, so that you can feel that he really doesn't care about you.
If he keeps deceiving you, he can't hide it.
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