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The most wonderful thing about love is that you never know at what point you're going to meet the right person. It may be at the next intersection, there may be an unexpected encounter, everything about the future is unknown, but because of the unknown, we have a very good hope for love.
But just as you can't predict when love will come, you never know when love will slip away.
It may be that after a heated argument, the other party will leave in anger and never look back. Maybe at some romantic time, you are immersed in romantic joy, and the other party gives you a fierce breakup news.
In the face of the other person proposing to break up, most of us have the first reaction to want to stay. Because they feel that they have been together for so long, the other party will not say to go. You are still looking for various reasons for each other, and you still can't accept it, he just doesn't love you, he just wants to leave you.
But in fact, most of the departures were premeditated. Even if it is a gamble to leave after a certain quarrel, it is not only caused by that one factor. It was the emotions that had accumulated over a long time and finally got an outburst.
Generally speaking, a person who wants to leave you will not be without warning, and it will be reflected in the details. But a lot of times, we're careless and don't take it seriously. Or maybe you already feel like the other person is leaving. Signs, but slow to accept it.
Under what circumstances does a man really want to leave you? Some people think it's cold violence. The other party ignores you and uses cold ways to force you to propose a breakup first.
In fact, there is also a clear manifestation is to go with the flow. The other party does not take the initiative to promote your relationship, let your love develop freely, do not care, do not operate, such love will wither sooner or later, embodied in the "three do not do".
Not proactive
It is difficult for men to show inaction with women they really like. No matter how introverted his personality is, he will also actively express his likes and will use his own way to be good to each other.
Men's love is generally very direct and does not need to be guessed at all. How active he is with you, how much he loves you. Conversely, if he is consistently unwilling to be proactive and enthusiastic about you, then there is no need to doubt. I just don't have a heart for you.
And if a man is very proactive with you in the beginning. Suddenly at a certain point, you can't see his active side of you, then it is obvious that he wants to leave you.
I've seen the way you love me, so you don't love me, and I can see it at a glance.
How passionate a man is to you when he loves you, then how distant he is when he doesn't love you. When he loves you, he wants to know your news every moment, will take the initiative to contact you every day, will take the initiative to care for you, and take the initiative to invite you to meet. At that time you can clearly feel his love for you, and when he starts to withdraw his initiative, his intention not to love you is already obvious.
If a man wants to leave you, he often doesn't need to say it directly, you just need to see if his enthusiasm for you has dissipated. If later on your relationship is completely driven by yourself, and the other party never takes the initiative, then, there is no need to doubt, he just wants to leave.
Do not respond
The desire to share also needs to be maintained by a response, and if there is a delay in getting a response, then that person will take back her enthusiasm even if she loves you again.
When men are chasing you, the communication between the two of you is the most frequent. At that time he was very willing to accept your nonsense, and your every sentence was able to get a response. Even if it's some boring nonsense, he will reply one by one and will not hang your words there.
Later, if you send him a message, he will ignore it, and even think that you are very annoying, at least the small things of garlic skin must be told to him.
At this time, if the girl still has a strong love for him, she may still find her own reasons, thinking that she is too sticky to him and upset him. But actually, when a man doesn't love you, you're doing anything wrong. You are more wrong than wrong, even breathing is wrong.
By the time he ignores you, he may have already given his patience and time to someone else. When you are self-doubting for the sake of his indifference, he may have already found his next home.
So if a guy doesn't respond no matter how much you message him, he doesn't respond. How many heart-warming actions you do, he ignores. Then don't forcibly keep him anymore, he already has an iron heart to leave you.
omission
In life, it is a very good state of mind to go with the flow. When there are many things that you try your best to keep, it is better to adopt an attitude of inaction. Adapt to the situation and see how it develops in the end. Don't be too entangled, what you want, the last time will give you the answer.
But in love, going with the flow is a very negative attitude. Because love needs two people to operate together, if a person has fixed the idea of doing nothing, leaving you alone to support and painstakingly retain, then the last relationship must be difficult to go on.
Two people who love each other will be very active in promoting the relationship with some behavior, rather than putting love in the refrigerator like food and never caring about it.
Love is something you won't have if you don't manage well. Many people who are very affectionate at the beginning end up parting ways because they do not go to business.
When a man loves you, you can clearly feel his investment and dedication to the relationship, he will take the initiative to create romance, after the quarrel will take the initiative to coax you, will become self-motivated, work hard for your future, he will plan your future very early, you can see him constantly pay for the love between you.
And when he wants to leave you, you can't feel his investment, he will become very negative, do nothing, and let your relationship go cold.
Sometimes, when a man wants to leave you, he won't do anything at all, just do nothing.
Everything you say goes unanswered, how much you lose your temper he doesn't get a response, you want to go to the movies, go out on a date together, get no response from him.
He completely leaves you alone and won't do anything for you or pay for your love.
He is no longer active, no longer enthusiastic, inactive, at this time you should be sober, he is not tired, not stressed, or wants to leave you, stop being sentimental, don't bother to please.