The past and experience will have a great impact on people, no one can resist this influence, good influence for people's growth may be a good direction, but also a good result.
However, the bad influence is not the case, the light affects the normal psychological growth and development of people, and the heavy affects people's personality and thinking, so that people cannot establish or build the correct direction of growth.
In terms of influence, emotional experiences are extremely important for everyone, especially for girls in the water sign.
Emotional frustration and failure are things that water sign girls face every day and night, and these things they can't forget.
After experiencing some things, the trust in emotions and people will be greatly reduced by girls in water signs, and it is extremely difficult to establish trust.
This will lead to when they are exposed to new feelings, there is no way to achieve normal communication, they will not easily open their hearts and put a person in, which requires a difficult or even long process.
The reason why this process is difficult is because even the water sign girl herself does not know when to eliminate the previous effects and when to trust the current person.
The word "when" in the above concept means more confusion and confusion.
Therefore, the emotional logic of the water sign girl written in this article does not include the water sign girl who has no emotional experience.
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Let's start with cancer girls.
Cancer women's emotions are divided into many parts, and each part is closely linked.
From the very beginning of parental love, brotherhood, friendship, love, and affection, these are all connected to Cancer and cannot be separated.
As we're going to talk about today, Cancer's feelings are affected by every part of the emotional experience, such as cancer getting hurt when making friends and then meeting love.
At this time, what they expect is that love can bring them a solid sense of security, which can offset the harm of friendship, and they can shift their focus to love.
Things like this are separate for other people, friendship is friendship, love is love, although they are all love, but the nature is different.
And each part of the Cancer's emotions can not be taken out individually, they will be mixed with each other, and then together have an impact on the Cancer, in other words, the emotions of each part of the Cancer will not disappear.
If there is a problem with a certain part, the way to solve the problem is to transfer emotions.
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So for Cancer's feelings:
What they really care about, what controls the substantive sense of security of their feelings, is not the emotion of which part, but the essence of which part of the emotion, the essence of the relationship.
The essence is: which part of the emotion, which part of the relationship can be confirmed by Cancer as no harm is possible, and that one's own heart is truly solid.
Then in normal terms, friendship and love have a great impact on Cancer, because after they become independent, the probability of friendship and love is very high.
At the same time, the probability of being hurt has also become higher, according to normal logic, a boy wants to enter the heart of Cancer, he needs to face this Cancer crab who has some haze in his heart.
The state they show is passive, the boy takes a step forward, they do not move, if the boy moves forward several steps at once, then they will retreat.
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In the heart of Cancer women, if they think that contact with a person will still have the feeling of potential harm, they will retreat to protect themselves.
Therefore, when boys interact with Cancer women, they often have to take the initiative for a period of time, and what they see in this process is the indifference of Cancer women, so boys will also have the idea of giving up.
When Cancer women find that boys do not take the initiative and begin to retreat, they will be anxious, will be passive, and will take the initiative, but as long as they see the boys take the initiative again, they will still continue to retreat.
The reason for retreating is that past experiences affect the judgment of Cancer women and affect the emotional awareness of Cancer women.
What they think about the most at this time is not whether they like this boy or not, whether they have feelings, but what will happen to them when they contact this boy, will they be hurt?
After this stage, it is the time for cancer women to consider whether they like a boy.
The process of interacting with Cancer women, under normal circumstances, is most of the time like this, you move forward she is indifferent, or retreat, and then suddenly she starts to take the initiative again, and the boy will think that the other party is not about to accept him.
Then every time cancer women take the initiative, they will bring some satisfaction to the boys.
This satisfaction is like eating an orange, you have to peel the orange slowly and completely before you can eat the sweet orange.
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Scorpio girls are not the same as Cancer women, Scorpio women are not passive, you must not think that Scorpio women are passive, if you have to think so, it means that you are too good to coax.
Another difference is:
After the Scorpio woman has spoken to the boy, she also leaves no room when she pays, and will sacrifice a lot.
From this perspective, the more times Scorpio women experience heart-to-heart interactions, they will become more and more insecure, and their views on boys and emotional relationships will be greatly different, and they will be extremely distrustful.
In general, with experienced Scorpio women, boys are actually the passive party, even if they are active in behavior.
Whether Scorpio women will associate with you, and what the outcome of the relationship, depends on their own final measurement of the relationship.
If they think that they can only talk about love with you, they will only talk about love with you, and if they think about the future, then you will be abandoned sooner or later.
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However, there is a special point in this matter, if the Scorpion Woman can communicate with you in the process of interacting with you, you can also enter her heart, and in terms of the real future, you have long-term protection and development.
That day the Scorpion Woman may think that you are his true destiny.
If not, then even if the Scorpio woman likes you again, you also like the Scorpio woman, and the two of you can't walk together.
The feelings of the Scorpio woman and the planning of reality are two things that can be taken out separately and will not be confused together.
For example, Scorpio women think that they can marry a person, then marriage is marriage, and feelings are different.
In the same way, the Scorpio woman believes that a person can only talk about love, then he will not want to get married, he can only play, then there will be no idea of falling in love.
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Although the Pisces woman is very dreamy on the outside, like a girl who is always dreaming, in fact, there is no lack of rational thinking about reality in her heart.
For the emotional problems of pisces women, we need to change to a more thorough and more essential statement:
"Pisces women believe that the best emotion to feel is the interaction in the brain, and once the barrier of reality is broken, the feeling will be greatly reduced."
So things like crush and virtual love can always attract the attention of Pisces women, and pisces women like a person based on fantasies about this person in their heads, rather than actually contacting this person.
That is to say, if a boy shows a special like for pisces women, will the Pisces women like him? The answer is no, on the other hand, if the boy doesn't show much liking, but has a bit of a liking signal, then the Pisces woman will come to power.
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Pisces woman's emotion is called unicorn love, which is the most special one among the 3 water sign girl groups.
The more abusive and difficult it is to get, the more the Pisces woman's emotions can burn well.
Then only after this special process can the Pisces woman's emotions burn intact, so that a person can be released into her heart, if not, it will not be.
Girls in the water sign are good at the set, but many times, the set they put down is not deliberate, or you understand it as an emotional instinct.
In short, the pattern will not change, you take a step forward, break through a layer of barriers, you will see the water sign girl who gradually opens her emotions to you, but will not let go completely.
Then you take another step forward, and their hearts will open up to you one more point, and their efforts and goodness to you will increase by one point.
The process is intermittent, and the boy can feel the delicacy and tenderness of the water sign girl who is gradually releasing.
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At the same time, the satisfaction that boys get in this process and some emotional achievements will gradually increase until they are full.
Although this process is extremely difficult, although the risk is very high, if you can stick to it, the girl in the water sign will communicate with you, and there is a particularly important point.
If the girl of the water sign confirms you and puts her heart into you, then you are the best boy in the world, and no one can compare.
Of course, this kind of failure will also have relatively extreme things, such as the girl in the water sign will hate a person extremely.
Finally, to the boy friends to wake up, if you find a water sign girl is particularly selfish, then don't have any illusions, especially selfish water sign girls, generally have problems.
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