As we all know, China in modern history is very chaotic, and at the same time, many famous writers have been produced during this period, such as Xiao Hong, Lu Xun, Shen Congwen, Xu Zhimo, and other writers who are very good in their works. In an era when there was hope in the darkness of the time, these people wrote out the beliefs in their hearts, and they have become a bright force reflecting Beijing at that time. But what we want to talk about today is Lu Xun's wife, the average person for Lu Xun's wife, many people think that Xu Guangping, in fact, the truth is not so, let the editor explain it to you!
Lu Xun's wife (legally recognized) is actually called Juan, an old social woman who was deeply eroded by feudal ideas, and everyone must be wondering why Lu Xun, who is ahead of his thinking, would marry such a wife. In fact, there are also helplessness and responsibilities. The Zhu Ande family can be said to be a family with completely feudal old ideas, and when she was very young, she also suffered the pain of wrapping her feet, and also received an education of "women without talent is morality", so between her and Lu Xun, she is not a person of the times at all.
Although Zhu An is feudal and conservative, she is also a very gentle and polite woman, and this is also Lu Xun's mother's favorite, so Lu Xun's mother hopes that Lu Xun can marry her home. After Lu Xun returned from studying in Japan, Lu Xun only married Juan in 1906, and the marriage naturally followed the old methods of the past. Juan learned that Lu Xun liked cultured women, and also frankly said that women with feet were wrapped, so he also wore a pair of normal shoes when he got married, but he did not expect that the shoes were too big and fell off, which also foreshadowed the tragic marriage between the two after that.
After the big wedding, Lu Xun did not go to the cave with Juan, and went to Japan alone a few days after the marriage. For this marriage, the two people are very painful, Zhu is in a very passive position, only know how to take care of his mother-in-law at home, so Juan spent 13 years alone in Shaoxing. Lu Xun said to his friends many times: "She is my mother's wife, not my wife." It was a gift from my mother, and I had only one obligation to support, and love was something I didn't know. ”
Then Lu Xun's family went to Beijing to live, and the family was reunited, but Lu Xun and Zhu An were still a husband and wife on the face, although Lu Xun also thought about whether to divorce, but out of a sense of responsibility, he also gave up this idea. Juan is a "peaceful" woman, so she also hopes that her husband can accept her. Later, when Lu Xun was teaching, he met his student Xu Guangping, who was deeply attracted by Lu Xun's literary style, and Lu Xun also had a love for Xu Guangping, who had always followed him, so they began to live together with two people.
For Xu Guangping, Juan has never resented, even if he sees her husband and Xu Guangping loving each other, but also accepts this fact. Later, Xu Guangping also had a child, and Juan also took good care of Xu Guangping and never complained. Xu Guangping's son Zhou Haiying also thanked her for everything she had done for herself and her mother, after Lu Xun's death, Xu Guangping had also been helping Zhu Ande to live, but she was even more sad that she had not received Lu Xun's love for the rest of her life, and when Lu Xun died, she also said: "You always say that Lu Xun's relics should be preserved, I am also his relics, you want to save me!" ”
Looking at Zhu Ande's marriage, although Xu Guangping was a woman who accompanied Lu Xun through the last ten years, she was only Lu Xun's partner but not his wife. However, for Xu Guangping and Zhou Haiying, Juan really liked it, and Juan once said to people: "Miss Xu treats me well, she understands my ideas, she is indeed a good person." Xu Guangping not only supported Juan financially, but also had deep sympathy for her background. A year after Zhu An's death, Xu Guangping wrote in an essay: "Lu Xun originally had a lady of the Zhu clan, her name was 'An', and her mother and parents called her 'AnGu'. This last sentence is very emotional and a delicate stroke.