The death of a wife is just to follow the law of life, old age, illness and death, so to be relieved and calm, you can be painful, but you must shorten the time of suffering as much as possible, and in the rest of your life, some things can not be done and do not do again.
First, it is best not to look for a wife importantly
If the wife takes the first step, the party who stays in the world should strive to adapt to the environment of solitude on the basis of learning to be lonely, and find out the fun contained in life. When you have the fun you really enjoy and cultivate it, your attitude towards life will be positive, and even if you are alone, you will feel that there is nothing wrong with it. You can experience the atmosphere of freedom all day long, play as you want in daily life, whether you want to eat what meals or what clothes you want to wear, you can make your own minds, you can be both unrestrained and free. The rest of life is less worrying, more comfortable, and loneliness is like a wood without a root and a water without a source.
Second, it is best not to give the cost of the second half of the life to the children
After not having a wife, the old Ben needs to stay in your own hands, the old Ben is your confidence and courage, in order to ensure that nothing goes wrong, do not easily hand over to your children and need to guard against the nanny in the family. The heart of defense is indispensable at any time or wherever, and it can even be said that it is the top priority of the heart, even if it is one's own children. Although there is no wife, but with the old book that can be freely disposed of, life is still not much worse. At the very least, there is no worries in material life, and while the rest of his life is self-sufficient, he can still wait for opportunities and judge the urgency of saving his children, especially when he needs to spend a lot of money in his old age, he can bear a large part of the cost or all the costs, if he gives the old money to his children too early, it is very likely that the more urgent the use of money, the more he will catch up with the chain.
Third, do not neglect your physical health
Instead of leaving a lot of room for children or leaving a lot of money for children, it is better to take care of their bodies with appropriate maintenance, and be healthy, which can not only reassure their children, but also indirectly reduce a lot of burdens on their children. When people reach old age, not creating a burden on their children is equivalent to lightening the burden on their children. If you slack off your body because of yourself, when your body is in pain, you need both a lot of money from your children and a lot of effort from your children, but when your children are overwhelmed, it is very likely that you will lose your filial piety.
Conclusion: In your later years, you should live a cautious and self-disciplined appearance, do not let yourself live as an old man who does nothing, who has nothing to rely on, who has no pleasure in the old age, and who has no dignity in the old age, and who takes care of yourself in his old age is both an explanation for himself and a consolation to his relatives and friends who care about you.
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