It can be set as a star
You, who read this article, are spending the last night of 2021.
Time passes quickly, and if you press the rewind button, until the beginning of the year, many days seem to be still in sight.
This year, a lot has happened.
Because of the impact of the epidemic, I believe that many friends do not have the opportunity to go out for a walk.
Some fresh graduates, before they have time to say goodbye to the colorful campus life, have to rush to one interview venue after another, or find a place with a simple background at home to prepare one online interview after another.
The word "pushed by life" is most appropriate to use on them, I don't know how, the threshold of society is thus placed in front of them, and the only choices given to them are "stepping in" and "being pushed in".
This 2021, for many people, is not much calmer than last year.
Think about the end of last year, each of us is probably full of expectations, waiting for 2021 to come. In the words of my friend, it was "wanting to get rid of that sense of stagnation quickly and return to a life where you can implement a plan."
I don't know if you are negating the various plans underneath, along with last year's share. From school to work, from body management to interpersonal communication, maybe not all of them have reached the standard, but they have come to this day.
Whether it's regret or satisfaction, it's time for us to say goodbye to it after a good look.
Tonight's New Year's Eve, do you have any activities? Is there someone to accompany you romantically, or three or five friends who are not drunk and do not return, or, a person? A person silently feels the hustle and bustle of the circle of friends.
You may be surprised, but almost every year, across the Chinese New Year's Eve how you will live in the voting, "a quiet person" is always more overwhelming than "with friends, with family, lively and lively" more overwhelming.
The world is not as noisy as we think, nor is it as complete as we imagine.
More and more people learn to enjoy loneliness after being forced to be lonely, after all, human beings are born with the nature of gathering, and loneliness is acquired.
Some readers described his cross-Chinese New Year's Eve to me this way: during the day, the work is very exciting, and colleagues are looking forward to leaving work quickly, so as to celebrate the New Year with lovers and friends. I am alone and embarrassed to do a light bulb. For a while, I felt that the daylight was long, and I felt that it was better not to come at night.
Loneliness is not mentioned, but it seems that every word speaks of loneliness.
Or maybe he's lucky, a few of my friends, and some of them have to work overtime, and they just flew back from a business trip and got on a plane for New Year's Eve.
A night will pass quickly, and I am afraid that you will look at your past self very soberly on this night alone, and find that it is not a star and a half worse than those who have already established a family.
The countless early bedtimes written in the phone reminders are still not realized; the complete fitness plan may have stopped on the third day; and I met someone who thought you could be with you for a long time, but suddenly got out of the car when you were not ready.
Maybe some people can already say "it doesn't matter" frankly, but there will still be people who look at the lively lights of others, feel sad on such a night, and run to the Internet to ask "How should a person cross the Year?" ”
There will be thousands of answers to tell you that a person's New Year's Eve can be miserable and rainy, and it can be more sound and colorful. There are many lonely people.
It is precisely a person's New Year's Eve that makes me clearer than ever that there is nothing in this world that will always accompany us, and only we ourselves can always accompany us.
And what we have to learn is not "I'm not lonely", but I do feel lonely, so what.
Truly healing yourself in loneliness, and cherishing the next real reunion, is the true meaning of loneliness.
Don't talk too much today, leave your time to yourself.
Give a call to family and friends you can't meet, and then quietly enjoy the cross-Chinese New Year's Eve that belongs to you alone.
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