Author/Pond Fish
Time is like an arrow, the sun and the moon are like shuttles, time is always flowing away in every unnoticed slit, 2021 is about to pass, 2022 is coming.
Have you accomplished your goals in the past year? Do you always feel a little regret and miss when you look back on the past? Do you always feel that you are not working hard enough and wasting this year's time? Or are you full of ambition and think you haven't lived up to it?
I think different people will definitely have different answers. Everyone's experience this year is different, and the things left behind by nature will be very different. Only time is fair for everyone to stay.
This year, some people get, there will certainly be some people lost; some people laugh, some people must cry; some people are sad and sad, and some people are proud of the spring wind; this year, the epidemic still stays by our side, and many touching deeds are still happening around; this year, growth and testing are still the same, opportunities and challenges coexist.
In fact, think again, which year is not like this?
The road of life, has always been so, it is impossible to be absolutely smooth, everyone will encounter many tests at certain stages of the years, but everyone who is determined to move forward can always encounter new willows and dark flowers at the turn of life. In the long river of years, the passage of each year can always find the same.
It is the lives of different people that give each person a completely different meaning of time.
So, don't complain, don't cry, believe that all experiences will have meaning in the end. As long as you believe it for yourself, things will most likely go the way you expect it to.
This year has passed, and all the bad emotions have also remained in the past.
Two days ago, I was having dinner with a good friend and she surprised me. In May of this year, she had just ended a 3-year relationship, and at the age of 28, the boy stepped on two boats while they were in a different place, and she found that she did not hesitate to separate afterwards.
This relationship hit her very hard, every time I saw her before, she always said that she had let go, but her expression, her sad look, she said the other party when she was full of resentment, but still full of regret, let me know that she did not let go.
But when she saw her this time, she felt that her whole spirit was completely different, especially energetic, and she did not mention him repeatedly, but said that she was now actively meeting new people.
I'm happy for her. She said: "I finally want to open, this year's year, I have most of the time because he is not happy, I have not let go of myself, sometimes hate him, sometimes feel that I still miss him a little, I wasted this year's time." This year is about to end, I can't do this anymore, the new year and new atmosphere, I have been doing psychological construction for myself, next year to start well. I've adjusted my mindset and can accept new people. ”
Don't be wrong, you can meet the right, this is the new year, about the growth of love.
I also have a good friend who also chatted with me two days ago and told me about the difficulties this year. She took the exam for a year this year, every place has a recruitment, she went to the exam, has been working hard to read, exam, and is a full-time exam preparation, into two interviews, but in the end still did not get admitted.
How much pressure is it to prepare for the exam full-time, you can imagine, her heart has been tight with a string, every time she fails, this string will collapse tighter, until when she talks to me, she feels that she is almost unable to hold on.
We talked for a long time, and she finally made plans for next year, and next year's exams can continue, but first to find a job.
In conclusion, she said that sometimes things are spread out and thought, and after analyzing all the good and bad ones, what are the coping strategies, as if everything is not so difficult, but sometimes it is easy to drill into a dead end by yourself.
At the same time, I also have many friends who have gained love this year, entered the palace of marriage, and have a career to a higher level.
I believe that the story around me is also the epitome of many people, this is the small society around me, expanding the base, in fact, the story may still be the same, this is the steaming life, the mixed life.
In the evening, after work went to a trip to the supermarket, the original work day, dragging a tired body into it, the whole person has no spirit, when walking around, the whole supermarket suddenly sounded the "congratulations on your fortune" music, the cheerful rhythm suddenly pulled up the festive atmosphere, the whole person suddenly relaxed a lot, but also became happy. There are always some inadvertent details that bring surprises to life.
There are many people in the supermarket, everyone is choosing the goods they want, most people can't see what the specific expression is on their faces, but the look of choosing things is very serious, and in this bland day that looks like it is coming to an end, the pace of the new year seems to become brisk.
Life, no matter how difficult it is, everyone is still in the life of chai rice oil and salt, and love deeply.
The bell of 2022 is about to ring, the new year, is the beginning of the year of hope, this is also one of the meanings of the new year, no matter what the past year, as long as the new year comes, you can bring comfort to yourself to a certain extent, I believe that the next year will be different.
On the last day of 2021, toast yourself 3 glasses of wine, the cup has a deep meaning, the first cup of respect is not advised, the second cup is not love, and the third cup is worthy of the person who can be traced. Anything in the past, good or bad, can no longer be recovered and compensated, but the future can still catch up.
Believe in yourself and stop dwelling on the past.
Happy New Year to all.
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