2021 has passed so fast, it seems that nothing has been done to the last day.
Last night I cleaned up the net disk, saw a lot of photos of 2014, pulled the baby together to review that year, that year at least three times to Happy Valley, the second time to Mairu Town, to Hong Kong Disneyland, but also participated in countless weekends of various flea stalls, ice and snow world, baking, handicrafts, outdoor long-distance running, water world and other activities, also participated in the small exams, and also saw the outdoor camping with dewdrops in the morning, found the famous photos on the list. I also saw a photo of wa going to the public elementary school at the door for the first time to interview.
At that time, that little baby, life was really colorful. Most of these past events are not remembered. Most of the friends who played together in the past do not know where to go anymore.
Today's baby's school held a New Year's Day party, the teacher sent a lot of photos and videos, one by one are one meter seven or so big children. Almost eight years span, good dreams. The baby laughed at the time, which was called a sunny day, and now it is almost invisible.
That year, I used to make a form to record the activity schedule of each holiday, which is called a full and busy. Nowadays, there are no holiday activities scheduled for the entire junior high school stage. There's no need to think about it at all. One is that the baby has no time, in addition to learning or studying, the second is that the baby will not go out with her mother at all, and if she wants to go out to play, she will meet with her classmates, and there is nothing for us to be a mother.
I also saw a few small essays of that year, and I read it herself and said, there are 3 errors in a sentence, what do you think? There are also learning task record forms assigned to the baby that year, a lot of dense content, now it is impossible to have, in addition to writing school homework or writing school homework, extracurricular tasks are very few.
I feel like I'm going to lose my job now. I think back then, the little baby was busy learning and playing every day, all arranged by her mother, and the baby was obedient, and she could arrange it if she wanted to. Now the baby does not need a mother, nor does she listen to her mother's words, she always feels that her mother does not understand this, that will not be, and I am afraid that some things will say that my mother is angry or nagging, and I have to hold it myself.
Time flies so fast!
This year has also passed quickly. The first half of the year is still the first year of junior high school, from just entering junior high school, confused and ignorant to slowly adapt, the score from 367 points to 431 points, finally found the rhythm of junior high school students.
This summer, for the first time, I did not travel. When you agree with the parents of your classmates that you are preparing to buy a ticket, you should not leave the province. All right. Or stay home safely. It is estimated that the future winter and summer vacations will not be able to go out of the province, honestly study at home.
In the blink of an eye in the second half of the year, to the second year of junior high school, the baby is no longer as fresh as when the first year of junior high school, every day when I go home, I no longer talk about the gossip in the school, I don't know the situation of the baby in the school, and the heart is like a cat scratching. Only a few classmates and parents often got together to understand a little bit of the situation.
But I don't want to talk about it. There's nothing new gossip except learning. But learning every day will also be tired, anyway, every baby is very busy every day and every day is very tired. Heartache babies.
We don't understand the specific study, we can't manage it. Idle to watch a lot of live broadcasts, crazy to buy a lot of things and tired of watching a lot of education live broadcasts, very impressed with a few words to share with everyone.
First, Mom's worries will eventually become a curse.
Many mothers like to say, baby this can't do that can't work, baby can't get into this school that school, baby likes to play games and doesn't like to study, and so on. Don't say these things, don't say them, don't say them.
When the mother says these words, the child will be very sad and disgusted, and even give up the effort, and finally get a bad ending as the mother wishes.
If you want your baby to be really good, find the child's good praise every day, and then give the child more positive psychological hints to give the child more confidence.
Second, the mother's grade drops by one point for every extra sentence.
Moms don't have to be wordy anymore, especially mothers with low academic qualifications. Now it is difficult for babies to learn, and we must believe that the teachers in the school will learn well by following the teachers.
A lot of moms are either right but useless nonsense or wrong. Really don't put more pressure on the babies who are already working very hard. Let go mothers, give the baby a chance to grow, don't be afraid of the baby making mistakes, as long as it is not a mistake of principle, the child will grow up in the mistake.
A little less mixing by a mom can be a true love for the child. Of course, less long-winded does not mean that children are not concerned, but children need more companionship, but do not be long-winded.
Third, the parent is the original, the child is the mirror.
Many parents are picky about their own babies, please reflect on when you are picky, those problems are not the faults of the parents themselves. Basically yes!
Children are the mirror of parents, many children's problems, want to solve must be parents first change themselves, in order to teach children to change. It is impossible to be a parent who does not change anything but expects the child to change, why?
There are many, many more golden sentences. Watching these live streams every day is still very beneficial. Always reflect on whether you have done anything wrong today, remember to praise our own baby every day, and pay more attention to the baby's feelings and emotional changes.
Chatting with Wa a few days ago, Wa suddenly said very sincerely: Mom is the best mom. Are you sure? Very unexpected and pleasantly surprised. It felt like this sentence was the best gift I'd ever received in my life.
This year is a success!